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Kachan36

PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 7:00 am


KaguraOfTheWind
Being gay/bi also became the cool thing to do for a while, it may still be, I'm a bit out of touch.

In response to the comment on the ten commandments, it maybe so but He did quite the number on Sodom and Gomorrah where there was a lot of gay activity going on.

Scientifically, homosexuality serves no purpose. Sex is solely for the propagation of species. Gay sex cannot preform this task. But then scientifically love serves no purpose either.

In the end what you do is your own business and acceptance means very little in the end if you don't like what it makes you.


While it is true that the purpose of intercourse is reproduction, our species is in absolutely no danger of dying out because of the lack of reproduction. In fact, many would say that our population is actually too large for our planet. With that in mind, it seems silly to condemn people who fulfill their desire for intercourse in a way that does not produce more mouths to feed. You might even say that, scientifically, homosexuality serves as population control for a species that has no natural predators.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 1:29 pm


KaguraOfTheWind
People have raped claiming they loved the person and also have murdered for the same reason.

And sex for fun is only because it releases chemicals that make us feel good. Scientifically it still only serves to propagate the species, why do you think so many children are born from those sex for fun sessions.


People who rape in the name of love are sociopaths, nuts, and if not mentally ill than just plain evil.
People who kill in the name of love sure as hell better be killing someone that threatens the person they love, otherwise to kill the object of your affection is sociopathic, nuts, or just plain evil.

And there is so little that human beings do because it's biologically sound in reason and function. We eat because we have to, yes, but we also eat for fun. We sleep because we have to, but also because sleeping in on a Sunday in a warm bed just feels good. We drink alcohol because it rocks our socks. We compose music and paint and sculpt and sing because it makes us feel fantabulous.
I use the internet because I enjoying talking to people I'd never otherwise meet.
So yes, sex does have a scientific function, but that's not what drives humanity as a whole anymore. People with the means to have fun will have fun, and not being able to knock a guy up by doing him in the rear doesn't mean that homosexuality isn't natural.
Being born deaf, blind, mute, and sterile can be natural, and [scientifically] none of those things serve a beneficial function to the survival of the species, yet it happens.

[by the way, I'm not trying to be rude, I just like to talk a lot]

T h e s t e p H


unrequietedCat

PostPosted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 1:49 pm


I'm not gay, but I've never been against them. I've had quite a few lesbian freinds and never once been hit on or anything like that because they know I'm not a lesbian. I've had a few of them tell me I've got great t&a, but that's really just a compliment and I take it as such. And as for gay guys, who couldn't love a gay guy?! They dress me better than I do! And they're much more fun to be out with than my straight guy friends (even though I love them too). And as for bisexual, who cares, what ever floats your boat. I've got plenty of bi friends as well, and the running joke there is that they're just to greedy to settle for just one or the other xd .
PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 6:38 am


KaguraOfTheWind
Being gay/bi also became the cool thing to do for a while, it may still be, I'm a bit out of touch.

In response to the comment on the ten commandments, it maybe so but He did quite the number on Sodom and Gomorrah where there was a lot of gay activity going on.

Scientifically, homosexuality serves no purpose. Sex is solely for the propagation of species. Gay sex cannot preform this task. But then scientifically love serves no purpose either.

In the end what you do is your own business and acceptance means very little in the end if you don't like what it makes you.


This article may not be the greatest example (it has a slight tendency to brush homosexual sex off as just a phase or as an accessory to straight sex) but it is a good look into gratuitous sex and same sex bonding in the animal world.

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2004/07/0722_040722_gayanimal.html

Basically, your statement is just a bit short sighted and you should read up a bit.

Lalou Rockstar


Ultra Sarah

PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 2:10 pm


Here's my take on it:

People don't like what's different. They're afraid of it. Also, homophobia is passed down from generation to generation. It's a bit like racism.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:29 am


Ultra Sarah
Here's my take on it:

People don't like what's different. They're afraid of it. Also, homophobia is passed down from generation to generation. It's a bit like racism.


Homophobia is a partially learned behavior, but it's not strictly that. Even people that were raised to share the same ideals and beliefs, who are all part of the same family, and even share the same blood, can have completely divergent views.

Example:
Grandpa = Homophobic lyk WOAH
Grandma = What's 'gay'? OH! Oh... wait, what? How is that even possible?
Uncle = It's a sin, it's criminally wrong, and if one of them tries to have sex with me...
Mother = I have nothing against homosexuals, but it is against God's Will, but their sexuality is not a conscious choice, but it ain't right, but they shouldn't be discriminated against just for that, but they shouldn't be allowed to get married...
Brother = It's a sin, it's gross. Unless it's two HAWT women, then it's just a sin, but awesome.
Me = There ain't a damn thing wrong with it, as long as you aren't running around, unprotected, having promiscuous sex.

In just my matrilineal line, there's a bit of variation.

T h e s t e p H


Kachan36

PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:51 am


T h e s t e p H
Ultra Sarah
Here's my take on it:

People don't like what's different. They're afraid of it. Also, homophobia is passed down from generation to generation. It's a bit like racism.


Homophobia is a partially learned behavior, but it's not strictly that.


In fact, homophobia is only a learned behavior. There is no gene that makes people discriminate against homosexuality. People who are homophobic are taught to be so. This does not mean that all people who are taught to be homophobic will be homophobic. I was taught to be Catholic, but I'm not. Family is not the only influence in your life, so you have learned to be more accepting than some other members of your family, but that doesn't mean your family--or anyone else--is somehow genetically predisposed to be homophobic.
PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 4:53 pm


Most of the people that are against it are simply afraid of having someone on the world that is different from them.

-_Seppun Zetsumi_-


-Ultra Glacial Rose-

PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:47 pm


*cuts in*

There is nothing wrong with the way people are, not matter what gender they have taken to a liking.

It's rude, now a days guy's can't hug without because labeled "gay"
And now everyone is saying my friend is a lesbian, just for hugging her friends and tell them that she loves them [like a friend] meanwhile, the people that accuse her do the exact same thing.

It's frustrating when people just throw words and labels for people that do nothing! I mean, who cares. It's natural part of the mind, maybe they think it's cool to be rude against people. Well, it's not. It's down right rude!

I apologize for cutting in, I just want an excuse to rant and be annoying. =]
PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:48 pm


I know at least 4 people who are homosexual (there are more but I can't think of a specific number) and several people who are bi and so I could never judge any of them and I really respect them for being so open with themselves. I hate it when people tell me that homosexuality is immoral or a sin because it isn't, this is just how people are born and I feel we should embrase all of our differences in society. This girl I used to be friends with told me that she wouldn't shop at Starbucks because they support gay rights and after that I just couldn't be friends with someone who thought that way.

xxdangerousbydesignxx


BunbunMochi

PostPosted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 6:30 am


I don't get how religious people are mostly against homosexuals, just because their religion states that being homosexual and acting upon it is wrong and is a sin.
So what if some book with tiny writing says so? It doesn't mean it's true. neutral

I was raised as a Catholic, but I since being with my girlfriend, [she's always been judged and teased by people because she's gay and she lives in a place where homosexuals aren't openly accepted] I have seen how close-minded some people really are.
And I don't believe in God or Jesus because I believe that they're just made up entities by people from long ago, just so there could be a creator figure for the people.

Anyway, my point is, love is love, and you really don't choose who to love. Love also doesn't limit itself to physical gender. confused
PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:50 pm


At -Ultra Glacial Rose-, Oh, so agreed there. There is nothing wrong with being gay, or bisexual for that matter. Sure, people can have thier religions and what-not but does it really mean that homosexual people must be looked down upon?

E M T T


mtkamekazi13

PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:51 am


I think it's fear. It's the human nature to fear the unknown. Most people aren't used to gays so when they dosee them they don't know how to act towards them. So to get rid of the uncertain feeling they try to get rid of the source by trying to convinve gays that their ways are wrong. I've had a gay friend for a little over five years now so it's nothing new to me. So I'm comfortable around other gays (As long as they don't try to flirt with me or anything like that.)
PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 6:36 pm


I believe that gays/bi's should just stay where they've been the last few hundred years --in the dark and away from me. At least away from me while they're at it. I personally find homosexuality disgusting and rather disturbing. Yes, it may be fun and what-not, but keep me out of it.

I have many friends who are gay/bi, but if they act on that towards other people around me, I find myself faintly disgusted and walking away. I have nothing against them as a people, just please dont be like that around me, and I won't be straight around you if you have issues with it.

This is why I dont talk about who I like, because gay/bi people tell me about there homosexual love-life and I dont like it.

I dont look down upon, nor fear, nor hate these people for what they are, I am glad that they can express themselves. I just don't want that influence in my life.

Thank You.
~Devichaz

DvnT


Lucretia_Cullen

PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 10:39 pm


I personally don't believe you can be considered gay or Bi until your parents know, which mine do. Because if your parents don't know, then either you are ashamed of your sexuality, or you aren't really what you claim to be.
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