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 Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:15 pm
Yes yes yes! You should be. We're all about accepting different standards of beauty and body types. I personally have a boyfriend who isn't fat. I'm just glad he likes big squishy me :3 I mean while this isn't exactly a dating forum per say I'd say there are plenty of big girls who are attracted to guys who are skinny or muscular or really anything. I think a while back there was a discussion about what attracts girls to guys and vice versa. I think most girls say they don't particularly care about size and they care more about personality.
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 5:57 pm
el cabong how tall are we talking here? cause a tall girl could want a tall guy....thats tall. but yeah. preferences are just that, preferences. 6"1 onwards. Just so sexy
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 8:26 pm
My boyfriend is fairl average. He looks skinny though.
And doesn't mind my chubbyness.
As everyone has said, it's different strokes for different folks.^^
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 9:44 pm
My boyfriend is a skinny guy, though he's been filling out now that he's eating with my family. He's 6'2, 180lbs or something...and he loves my chub. Especially my belly. For some reason.
But to be honest, I'd just as soon date a heavier guy, a shorter guy, a muscular guy...it just happened to be that I fell in love with him as he is. =p
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 11:05 am
MangaJoe No offense, but stuff like that is why short guys usually have a complex. neutral
I don't even find it to be a problem what I said, I stated I tend to be attracted to taller guys, just as another girl stated. When asked "How tall is tall" I'm not going to lie and be like "OH, ANYBODY OVER 5' IS TOTALLY TALL!" because I think we all know that would be a lie since that is below average. That doesn't mean they're not attractive, or not as good as other guys... it means they have different strengths.
For shorter girls, my height (5'7") might be considered tall, for me tall starts at 5'11" but I prefer 6'-6'3". My boyfriend is exactly my height, he doesn't have a complex and he knows I prefer taller guys... he's completely cool with it and with himself because obviously I can still find him attractive despite his height.
Short guys usually have a complex 'cause they got made fun of when they were kids by the other guys around them, and because they're too stupid to realize it's their complex that keeps them from getting more dates, not their height. Tom Cruise is short, he seems to be a-ok.
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 7:20 pm
I love boys. heart xd
I wish I were making fun of myself or joking. Oh, I wish.
Hahahaaa. My last boyfriend weighs like 130 pounds. Oh, boys. I go for personality, so physical type doesn't usually matter.
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 8:43 am
The Dread Pirate Ghosty MangaJoe No offense, but stuff like that is why short guys usually have a complex. neutral
I don't even find it to be a problem what I said, I stated I tend to be attracted to taller guys, just as another girl stated. When asked "How tall is tall" I'm not going to lie and be like "OH, ANYBODY OVER 5' IS TOTALLY TALL!" because I think we all know that would be a lie since that is below average. That doesn't mean they're not attractive, or not as good as other guys... it means they have different strengths.
For shorter girls, my height (5'7") might be considered tall, for me tall starts at 5'11" but I prefer 6'-6'3". My boyfriend is exactly my height, he doesn't have a complex and he knows I prefer taller guys... he's completely cool with it and with himself because obviously I can still find him attractive despite his height.
Short guys usually have a complex 'cause they got made fun of when they were kids by the other guys around them, and because they're too stupid to realize it's their complex that keeps them from getting more dates, not their height. Tom Cruise is short, he seems to be a-ok.
Tom Cruise is a nut job, no offense. Well I used to have a bit of a complex, but hey a guy threatening to rape you because you're, "Small and supple," can leave a bit of an impression on you. eek Would be funnier if I weren't joking... who am I kidding, the South is a laugh riot! Really I end up dating girls taller than me quite often, XD, I don't really mind so much though. I mean this girl I'm after now is probably a good 2 or 3 inches taller than me, do I care, to be honest no... and I look back on being picky about my height admit the utter ignorance. I always had a bit of a complex though because I'm the shortest guy in my family, only 5'5'... and there's really a huge height gap, I mean my 12 year old brother is already over 6'1".
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 9:51 am
MangaJoe The Dread Pirate Ghosty MangaJoe No offense, but stuff like that is why short guys usually have a complex. neutral
I don't even find it to be a problem what I said, I stated I tend to be attracted to taller guys, just as another girl stated. When asked "How tall is tall" I'm not going to lie and be like "OH, ANYBODY OVER 5' IS TOTALLY TALL!" because I think we all know that would be a lie since that is below average. That doesn't mean they're not attractive, or not as good as other guys... it means they have different strengths.
For shorter girls, my height (5'7") might be considered tall, for me tall starts at 5'11" but I prefer 6'-6'3". My boyfriend is exactly my height, he doesn't have a complex and he knows I prefer taller guys... he's completely cool with it and with himself because obviously I can still find him attractive despite his height.
Short guys usually have a complex 'cause they got made fun of when they were kids by the other guys around them, and because they're too stupid to realize it's their complex that keeps them from getting more dates, not their height. Tom Cruise is short, he seems to be a-ok.
Tom Cruise is a nut job, no offense. Well I used to have a bit of a complex, but hey a guy threatening to rape you because you're, "Small and supple," can leave a bit of an impression on you. eek Would be funnier if I weren't joking... who am I kidding, the South is a laugh riot! Really I end up dating girls taller than me quite often, XD, I don't really mind so much though. I mean this girl I'm after now is probably a good 2 or 3 inches taller than me, do I care, to be honest no... and I look back on being picky about my height admit the utter ignorance. I always had a bit of a complex though because I'm the shortest guy in my family, only 5'5'... and there's really a huge height gap, I mean my 12 year old brother is already over 6'1".
I just don't think any short guy should be hurt at a girls preference for tall guys... 'cause any girl that turns you down for your height isn't worth your time.
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 2:57 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty MangaJoe The Dread Pirate Ghosty MangaJoe No offense, but stuff like that is why short guys usually have a complex. neutral
I don't even find it to be a problem what I said, I stated I tend to be attracted to taller guys, just as another girl stated. When asked "How tall is tall" I'm not going to lie and be like "OH, ANYBODY OVER 5' IS TOTALLY TALL!" because I think we all know that would be a lie since that is below average. That doesn't mean they're not attractive, or not as good as other guys... it means they have different strengths.
For shorter girls, my height (5'7") might be considered tall, for me tall starts at 5'11" but I prefer 6'-6'3". My boyfriend is exactly my height, he doesn't have a complex and he knows I prefer taller guys... he's completely cool with it and with himself because obviously I can still find him attractive despite his height.
Short guys usually have a complex 'cause they got made fun of when they were kids by the other guys around them, and because they're too stupid to realize it's their complex that keeps them from getting more dates, not their height. Tom Cruise is short, he seems to be a-ok.
Tom Cruise is a nut job, no offense. Well I used to have a bit of a complex, but hey a guy threatening to rape you because you're, "Small and supple," can leave a bit of an impression on you. eek Would be funnier if I weren't joking... who am I kidding, the South is a laugh riot! Really I end up dating girls taller than me quite often, XD, I don't really mind so much though. I mean this girl I'm after now is probably a good 2 or 3 inches taller than me, do I care, to be honest no... and I look back on being picky about my height admit the utter ignorance. I always had a bit of a complex though because I'm the shortest guy in my family, only 5'5'... and there's really a huge height gap, I mean my 12 year old brother is already over 6'1".
I just don't think any short guy should be hurt at a girls preference for tall guys... 'cause any girl that turns you down for your height isn't worth your time.True, but being turned down simply for height does hurt ones ego, I've been rather unfortunate when it comes to a lot of things about life, but I get by I guess. I'm more ok with my body now than I was maybe 2 years ago, I mean hell I'm damn near proud of it. ^_^ How many guys can sit at a computer all day and still manage to have defined abs? woot! blaugh I know there have been some hardly admirable women come into my life, but sometimes things can still hurt quite a bit... I dunno rambling, ignore mein pity party. XD
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 4:58 pm
I'm a girl with some junk in the trunk dating a muscular/athletic guy :3
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 3:51 am
sail away with me, honey... RAWRAWRAWRAR I AM BRINGING THIS THREAD BACK TO LIFE!
And I shall say that I am a skinny girl who has dated very large dudes in the past, but now I'm dating an average guy. ALTHOUGH. This is good because now he wants me to gain weight. To which I say, YIPPEE.
I do certainly like bigger guys, and I miss having squishytimes, but I don't think it would work on my current boyfriend if he was chubby. Also, I think dumping someone for not being fat is just as heartless as dumping someone for not being skinny. And that's no good.
i put my heart in your hands.
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Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 12:31 am
This thread doesn't seem to be really active, but what the heck. *shrugs*
For as long as I can remember, my ideal guy was always at least a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'2", it's not too hard) and solidly built. Skinny just makes me insecure. My boyfriend fits that quite well, but I have dated or crushed on guys that were quite thin and/or not much taller than me. Appearance may cause the initial attraction, but one would have to be pretty shallow to let that keep them around when personalities are incompatible.
The original topic didn't really ask about same sex couplings, but I might as well throw that in, too, neh? I have to admit a weakness for girls that are on the short side and soft in all the right places. Ultra skinny girls look like they'd be painful to cuddle with. Though my romantic tastes are particular, I do have an appreciation for the female body in all shapes and sizes. It is a beautiful thing. ^_^
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