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 Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:31 am
lady_lantir fee ,hunny it's not a problem you are who you are and you are a very nice person :] you really are we all love you at anyway =D
3nodding
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:32 am
 Kleine is Kleine ^^
bulimic or not.
really we all have our problems, something we can not do anything about and something we are just afraid of.
anyway
you are still like one of the smartest people I know ^^
and I luff you biggrin 
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:39 am
hi.. im jessica and i'm new here... i don't know what to do...
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:13 am
'^^ well you can always introduce yourself... and post around ^^
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:28 am
Fee.
I Still Luff You.
I Don't Feel Any Different Now That You Have Told Me.
I Am Here If You Need Me.
I Might Be Young, And You Might Have A Problem.
But Together, We Can Get Through It.
But I Feel Happy That You Confessed It.
<3
-Huggles-
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:28 am
MelanHoliC Kleine is Kleine ^^
bulimic or not.
really we all have our problems, something we can not do anything about and something we are just afraid of.
anyway
you are still like one of the smartest people I know ^^
and I luff you biggrin
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:32 am
*luffs all of you*
See? This is why I wanted to let it out, here. I knew you guys would be nice about it and not just throw anger or pity in my face. heart You don´t know how much that means to me.
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:34 am
TonyTokyo *Not a hag* cool
All right. Well, first off, I suggest a different diet than whatever one you have. No, I'm not talking you become a vegatarian or anything of the sort. I'm just saying you might want to get some meat, whole bread, and anything else. I suggest the Atkin's diet, which I've been on for a week to get ready for the Megacon.
- Eat when you're hungry.
Until you fall into a normal routine of three meals a day, just eat a semi-large meal until you're full, and then wait for yourself to be hungry again. Slowly changing when and how much you eat, I think, is the best course.
- Food is for our survival
It's not a comforting pat on the shoulder, as you know; binges aren't worth it. It might feel good the first thirty seconds, but you'll feel terrible afterwards. Try to throw yourself deeply enough into a hobby and eat only when you are hungry.
((I'm sorry, I'm sort of pretending I know more than I do. pirate )) I do have a really good diet, though. x_x It´s just that every once and a while I get this insatiable urge to just.. keep eating.. sometimes it´s because of PMS and other times it´s just random. So, on a normal basis I eat like a normal healthy person, but every once and a while when I get that urge and eat like... everything I can find... I get it back up because I feel guilty and can´t stand having that much food in me. gonk *huggles* Thank you for the advice, though. You really do sound like you know a lot. 3nodding heart
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 9:04 am
*Laughs* Oh, god, then, you're fine! Well, you're not fine, but as soon as you accept yourself completely you will be. I binge when I'm PMSing and such, so you do not need to worry about it. As long as you're not doing it every day, or every other day, then that's normal.
Gosh, you know, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. We all do that, I'm promising you right now, all right?
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:33 pm
Okay.
This is serious. If you are looking for help, please go to a doctor and psychiatrist. It wasn't right for them to explode at you, but I really understand where they are coming from. If you are trying to lose weight, listen, there are better healthier ways. Trust me, I know.
I had a friend, who did it for "attention". She didn't understand the seriousness of it. Then one day she claimed she was anorexic. You don't change from the diseases suddenly. Sorry if I be offensive to you at any point because she was friggin' ridiculous.
I have the same problem with feeling bad when I eat non healthy, or too much. But it's a mind thing you have to let it pass. "I made a bad choice, but it's not going to kill me." I often struggle with the weight thing because 2 of my close friend have had issues. One I mentioned earlier, the other lost weight dramatically, good she is sooo friggin skinny it's scary...
Please pull yourself out of it while you still can.
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 3:23 pm
I´ve been trying to recover for a while now, and I´m proud to say that before last night I hadn´t done it in over 5 months.
I´m reluctant to seek help through doctors because.. well.. I´ve been there before and it´s never been helpful or in any sense pleasant. They´re mostly really mean about it and don´t seem to understand, and think that the only reason I´m doing it is because I want to look like a model, I want attention... which just isn´t true. I´m also just seriously against how they treat people in rehab centers... I have friend who´ve gone before, and they make you eat garbage, they won´t let you exercise, and they just pump you full of antidepressants which they think will just fix everything or just shut you up... which I think is terrible because that´s no way to cure someone... to cure someone you need to beat healthy practices in their heads, not make them gain a lot of weight, sometimes too much weight, and tell them that being like that is okay. x_x
.. heart ..
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:26 pm
Seek help with someone you trust, and will listen to why you do it. Ex: Friend.
Then, maybe go to psychiatrist with them so you got a second opinion who knows what you are talking about, to maybe get an emotional breakthrough.
Though doctors are more concerned for you health, it's also a mental battle more so.
I'm glad to hear that you don't do it often.
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 7:15 pm
I wish I could help you with it, but I don't know how to deal with situations like these. ;__;
So, for what it's worth, I think no differently of you than I did before (which is good; I've always looked up to you as a Girl's Only member, no joke! *hugs*)
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:35 am
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:28 am
mellee115 Seek help with someone you trust, and will listen to why you do it. Ex: Friend.
Then, maybe go to psychiatrist with them so you got a second opinion who knows what you are talking about, to maybe get an emotional breakthrough.
Though doctors are more concerned for you health, it's also a mental battle more so.
I'm glad to hear that you don't do it often. I do talk to some friends about it, but only online friends... because I´ve told an irl friend before, and they basically just told me that I was stupid. x_x
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