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Erasmuses

PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 11:39 am


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Erasmuses
I don't think this debate will ever move out of first gear. Why the leap to defense when justifying killing your offspring? It's not offending you, or maliciously attacking you.

I seriously hate how victimized people get. It's like the second someone is offended or feels offended, you have to sit around apologizing and backtracking because ohhhh their feelings got hurt. That entire attitude sucks in other facets of life, but it's ridiculous when you're talking about WOMEN (oh) HAVING (my) BABIES (God!).

And anyway, why cite bodily anything when you're the one who put it in jeopardy in the first place? That's the part I don't get.


It's one of the better ways to justify abortion, other then, 'it's legal, so I can?'
I know that were I in a situation where I *had* to have an abortion, I'd justify it any way that I could.

But on the other hand, consent to sex =/= consent to jepordizing your bodily integrity. Also consent to sex =/= consent to pregnancy.


But using bodily integrity as a means to justify abortion is like trying to cover something that's 8 feet wide with something that's 4 feet wide.

Bodily integrity belongs in discussion concerning issues that solely pertain to you, i.e. rape. But when there's another life involved, it's not as simple as "oh, it's my body, so I'll do whatever I want". It IS that simple, to a point. That point stops when it's not just you we're concerned about.

No man is an island, and nothing we do bears zero effect. Life isn't linear, so all the things you just said aren't true.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:24 pm


Okay, look. Just because someone consents to sex does not mean that they consent to pregnancy, that is absolutely true. Otherwise, we would have to say that every time you have sex, you should -want- to get pregnant. And saying that, "Everything is connected" is bull, Erasmus, it's like saying that whenever I get in a car I'm looking to run someone down just because cars sometimes run into people or other cars.

However, just because you aren't consenting to pregnancy does not mean that you aren't responsible if you get pregnant. Pregnancy is a direct result of sex, simple as that. I believe that people who are having sex should know that pregnancy is a possible result, and accept the consequences if and when it happens. People who are having sex shouldn't be able to get away with killing another human being just because they took every precaution and don't want to be pregnant.

I do see bodily integrity as the only logical Pro-Choicer argument, as one should be in control of one's body. However, I agree that the bodily domain of the fetus should be protected as well, and since the fetus is within the woman's bodily domain by her actions, it's bodily domain + right to life trumps hers in this case.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:26 pm


And you are being fairly inflammatory, Erasmus. Not only are you calling a Pro-Choice argument bullshit, but you are basically saying you shouldn't have sex if you don't want to get pregnant, something many Pro-Lifers disagree with as well. It's perfectly understandable that they would get defensive.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:30 pm


Erasmuses
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It's one of the better ways to justify abortion, other then, 'it's legal, so I can?'
I know that were I in a situation where I *had* to have an abortion, I'd justify it any way that I could.

But on the other hand, consent to sex =/= consent to jepordizing your bodily integrity. Also consent to sex =/= consent to pregnancy.


But using bodily integrity as a means to justify abortion is like trying to cover something that's 8 feet wide with something that's 4 feet wide.

Bodily integrity belongs in discussion concerning issues that solely pertain to you, i.e. rape. But when there's another life involved, it's not as simple as "oh, it's my body, so I'll do whatever I want". It IS that simple, to a point. That point stops when it's not just you we're concerned about.

No man is an island, and nothing we do bears zero effect. Life isn't linear, so all the things you just said aren't true.


How does rape/the killing of one's rapist not include another's life?

I didn't say that anything we did bore zero effect, please refrain from putting words into my mouth. I didn't say that you wouldn't/shouldn't get pregnant after having sex, merely that consenting to the action of having sex does not mean that you consent to becoming or remaining pregnant.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 7:38 am


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Erasmuses
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It's one of the better ways to justify abortion, other then, 'it's legal, so I can?'
I know that were I in a situation where I *had* to have an abortion, I'd justify it any way that I could.

But on the other hand, consent to sex =/= consent to jepordizing your bodily integrity. Also consent to sex =/= consent to pregnancy.


But using bodily integrity as a means to justify abortion is like trying to cover something that's 8 feet wide with something that's 4 feet wide.

Bodily integrity belongs in discussion concerning issues that solely pertain to you, i.e. rape. But when there's another life involved, it's not as simple as "oh, it's my body, so I'll do whatever I want". It IS that simple, to a point. That point stops when it's not just you we're concerned about.

No man is an island, and nothing we do bears zero effect. Life isn't linear, so all the things you just said aren't true.


How does rape/the killing of one's rapist not include another's life?

I didn't say that anything we did bore zero effect, please refrain from putting words into my mouth. I didn't say that you wouldn't/shouldn't get pregnant after having sex, merely that consenting to the action of having sex does not mean that you consent to becoming or remaining pregnant.


I wasn't putting any words in your mouth, so please refrain from accusing me of such. You did, after all, respond to me. Not the other way around.

I was merely saying that I disagree with your point, and explained why. Everything we do has some effect, whether we take the time to "consent" or not. Consent to cause is consent to effect.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 8:32 am


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Okay, look. Just because someone consents to sex does not mean that they consent to pregnancy, that is absolutely true.

Pregnancy is a direct result of sex, simple as that.


So you're not consenting to pregnancy, you're consenting to a risk of pregnancy.

Abortion is not about consenting to pregnancy, it's about deciding not to continue a pregnancy. You can't abort a pregnancy if you're not pregnant.

And "no man (or woman) is an island" does indeed apply here. Defending one's bodily domain is different when it comes at the expense of another's life. To spin an old argument, if I need a heart transplant, I can't protect my bodily domain by killing someone and taking their heart.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:05 am


Erasmuses
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Erasmuses

But using bodily integrity as a means to justify abortion is like trying to cover something that's 8 feet wide with something that's 4 feet wide.

Bodily integrity belongs in discussion concerning issues that solely pertain to you, i.e. rape. But when there's another life involved, it's not as simple as "oh, it's my body, so I'll do whatever I want". It IS that simple, to a point. That point stops when it's not just you we're concerned about.

No man is an island, and nothing we do bears zero effect. Life isn't linear, so all the things you just said aren't true.


How does rape/the killing of one's rapist not include another's life?

I didn't say that anything we did bore zero effect, please refrain from putting words into my mouth. I didn't say that you wouldn't/shouldn't get pregnant after having sex, merely that consenting to the action of having sex does not mean that you consent to becoming or remaining pregnant.


I wasn't putting any words in your mouth, so please refrain from accusing me of such. You did, after all, respond to me. Not the other way around.

I was merely saying that I disagree with your point, and explained why. Everything we do has some effect, whether we take the time to "consent" or not. Consent to cause is consent to effect.


You still haven't answered my question about how rape/the killing of one's rapist doesn't include another's life.

How/why is consent to cause consent to effect? Or rather, if I consent to the cause of being pregnant, and then consent to the effect, why should I be forced to continue the consent to being pregnant?

Also, I keep seeing 'you should deal with the consequences of sex/pregnancy' ... having an abortion is dealing with the 'consequence'.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:08 am


La Veuve Zin
I.Am
Okay, look. Just because someone consents to sex does not mean that they consent to pregnancy, that is absolutely true.

Pregnancy is a direct result of sex, simple as that.


So you're not consenting to pregnancy, you're consenting to a risk of pregnancy.

Abortion is not about consenting to pregnancy, it's about deciding not to continue a pregnancy. You can't abort a pregnancy if you're not pregnant.

And "no man (or woman) is an island" does indeed apply here. Defending one's bodily domain is different when it comes at the expense of another's life. To spin an old argument, if I need a heart transplant, I can't protect my bodily domain by killing someone and taking their heart.


....is it different when I kill my rapist as he's raping me?

I don't like this 'bodily domain is fine so long as it only pertains to your own body' argument, as it completely rules out the fact that you can kill your rapist as he is raping you. confused

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:16 am


La Veuve Zin
So you're not consenting to pregnancy, you're consenting to a risk of pregnancy.

That's a much more concise way of putting it, thank you. 3nodding

miyo_esparanza


....is it different when I kill my rapist as he's raping me?

I don't like this 'bodily domain is fine so long as it only pertains to your own body' argument, as it completely rules out the fact that you can kill your rapist as he is raping you. confused

Except that, in that case, it was their actions that resulted in the violation of your bodily integrity, whereas in the case of abortion, you are killing someone who is "violating" your bodily integrity by no fault of their own, except that of existing, but rather by your actions.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:52 pm


ShadowIce
Texas Gypsy
Never getting pregnant is a far cry from creating a life and then ending it.

Non-existence vs. deliberate killing.

I don't think they are the same, I think they are morally equivalent. Kind of like how stabbing someone in the heart and shooting them in the heart are very different actions, yet I would say that they have the same moral value. Deliberate killing does cause non-existence. I just don't see the moral difference between deciding I don't want to be pregnant and abstaining and deciding I don't want to be pregnant and having an abortion. Both lead to no baby being born. I understand that you see things differently, but this is how I feel.

Furthermore, not all abortions are deliberate killings, but are rather deliberate attempts to not be pregnant when there is no way to not be pregnant except via killing.

Texas Gypsy
How is that hard to understand?

I'm not exactly sure why you included this question, as I'm pretty sure that you don't actually want me to answer it. neutral


The bolded parts above are exactly why pro-lifers and pro-choicers are so vehemently opposed, I'm afraid. When I try to wrap my mind around such a point of view, I get almost physically ill. Either all blameless human life is sacred, or we're all just so many cockroaches and it doesn't matter who gets crushed underfoot.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:22 pm


Texas Gypsy
The bolded parts above are exactly why pro-lifers and pro-choicers are so vehemently opposed, I'm afraid.

Well, don't hold all Pro-Choicers accountable for my beliefs. Just because I agree with the bolded parts doesn't mean all Pro-Choicers do.

Texas Gypsy
When I try to wrap my mind around such a point of view, I get almost physically ill.

I'm sorry that my views make you feel ill. I can only imagine how difficult that might be. After all, although I disagree with Pro-Lifers, nothing they believe makes me feel sick. I think my being really liberal while living in a conservative area just makes me more used to people holding views that baffle the heck out of me. However, the fact that you feel ill does not make my views wrong. It must means you don't like them.

Texas Gypsy
Either all blameless human life is sacred, or we're all just so many cockroaches and it doesn't matter who gets crushed underfoot.

Tell me, do you think that the life of a benign tumor is sacred? I'm going to hazard a guess that you don't. Now, I know you are probably going to respond with a, "A benign tumor completely different than an embryo because a benign tumor won't ever turn into a fully developed human being!" but the simple fact is that I don't think that an embryo's potential grants it any inherent value. You think it does, but I don't. The entire argument that if it's fine to kill embryos than it's fine to kill born human beings rests on the premise that I think embryos are equal to born humans. It's like someone ranting about how you can't remove benign tumors because benign tumors are innocent human life. It rests on the premise that a benign tumor is equal to fully developed human beings. If I reject that premise, your argument can't stand. And I do reject that premise. I don't see an embryo as any more innocent or any more valuable than a sperm or ovum.

Honestly, what you are proposing is a false dilemma. I don't have to either think it is fine to kill all "innocent" human life or think it is wrong to kill all "innocent" human life. The very fact that you say innocent human life and not just human life proves that a person can in fact make exceptions.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:39 pm


I'm curious to know why birth equals person for you. I'm just wondering.

I mean, seriously, a baby is only a potential toddler. A toddler is only a potential teenager. A Teenager is only a potential adult. In the same manner, a fetus is only a potential baby. A baby is certainly not a completely developed human, but again, this is going with the assumption that you think a baby is a person, and if I'm mistaken and you are among those that do not believe a baby is a person, I apologize.

But the thing is, the life of the human organism that has the potential to be an adult begins in the womb. A fetus is not a potential human organism.

There are people who argue that babies aren't people. So to them, if they said that adopting a baby out and shooting a baby is morally equivalent because it ends with not being a parent anymore, it might disgust some people and yes, make them physically ill. It's the same thing here. I'll accept that your views aren't wrong only if nothing is wrong because everything depends on each person's point of view and we can each decide who is a person and who is not, based on random criteria decided by each individual. If you need to be a certain age, which is the case in the US right now, so be it. If you need to be a certain race, that's fine. Morals are relative, and we shouldn't feel ill when people are killed by the millions because the people doing the killing don't think the victims are people, they're subhuman.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:51 pm


lymelady
I'm curious to know why birth equals person for you. I'm just wondering.

Not birth, higher level brain function.

lymelady
I mean, seriously, a baby is only a potential toddler. A toddler is only a potential teenager. A Teenager is only a potential adult. In the same manner, a fetus is only a potential baby. A baby is certainly not a completely developed human, but again, this is going with the assumption that you think a baby is a person, and if I'm mistaken and you are among those that do not believe a baby is a person, I apologize.

Right now I am of the opinion that babies are people (because they have higher level brain function). However, I am examining the idea that babies aren't people. It's an interesting one.

lymelady
But the thing is, the life of the human organism that has the potential to be an adult begins in the womb. A fetus is not a potential human organism.

Oh, absolutely agree that it isn't a potential human. It is human. I just don't care that an embryo is a potential adult. To me, it's value must be independent of what it has potential to become.

lymelady
There are people who argue that babies aren't people. So to them, if they said that adopting a baby out and shooting a baby is morally equivalent because it ends with not being a parent anymore, it might disgust some people and yes, make them physically ill.

Apart from ancient writings, all the people I've encountered who believe that babies aren't people still believe that infanticide is wrong.

lymelady
It's the same thing here. I'll accept that your views aren't wrong only if nothing is wrong because everything depends on each person's point of view and we can each decide who is a person and who is not, based on random criteria decided by each individual. If you need to be a certain age, which is the case in the US right now, so be it. If you need to be a certain race, that's fine. Morals are relative, and we shouldn't feel ill when people are killed by the millions because the people doing the killing don't think the victims are people, they're subhuman.

I'm not arguing for moral relativity. I'm arguing that 1) A person feeling sick at something doesn't automatically make it wrong. People are "nauseated" by things like homosexuality all the time, but most of us would agree that such a response doesn't make homosexuality wrong. 2) If you make an argument that rests on a premise that I don't accept, then I'm not going to be able to accept your argument. For example, let's take this argument:

1) If X is a person and it is wrong to kill people, then it is wrong to kill X.
2) It is wrong to kill people.
3) X is a person.
4) Therefore, it is wrong to kill X.

If I reject premise 3, then the whole argument doesn't work for me. Now, it maybe true that X is a person (in which case I would be wrong in rejecting 3) but simply repeating the argument isn't going to help. Making further arguments that depend on 3 isn't going to help. The only way to make progress in the argument is to attempt to make me accept all the premises.

EDIT: From my point of view, the whole discussion seems to be going like this:

Pro-Lifer - 1) If embryos are people and it is wrong to kill people, then it is wrong to kill embryos
2) It is wrong to kill people.
3) Embryos are people.
4) Therefore, it is wrong to kill embryos.

Me - I reject premise 3. I think embryos aren't people.

Pro-Lifer - 1) If it is ok to kill some people, then it is ok to kill all people.
2) It's is not ok to kill all people.
3) Therefore, it is not ok to kill some people
4) Embryos are some people.
5) Therefore, it is wrong to kill embryos

Me - I reject premise 4. I don't think embryos are people.

And the cycle repeats. Now, I am not an adherent of moral relativism, so I do believe that one of us is right and the other wrong. I freely admit that I am fallible, and as such I may be wrong in rejecting your assertion that embryos are people. But the simple fact is that I do reject your insistence that embryos are people. To the best of my knowledge, you only have two workable options given that I am rejecting your premise: 1) Try to convince me that embryos are people (and thus get me to accept your premise) 2) Make an argument that doesn't depend on embryos being people (and thus try to work around my rejection of your premise). For me personally, I don't know how to accomplish the first option when it comes to abortion. This is the reason that I never make legal arguments that depend on embryos not being people, and instead go with the second option.

And I apologize for how huge my post got.
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 11:28 pm


My problem with your previous logic and, I would believe, Texas' problem with your logic, is that you are saying that having an abortion and not getting pregnant are equal.

The problem is that in one case, the life simply didn't exist. In the other, you exterminated it. How is that equal?

Now as for your argument against potential, you are the one defining higher brain function there. I would judge that a newborn infant has virtually no higher brain function, and a fetus right before birth has the same amount of higher brain function that it does right after birth. (Speaking of which, I don't know if you hold a cutoff date for abortion?) Further, I'd say that a one year old doesn't have much higher brain function either. At that age, they still don't have much more intelligence than a dog, say. Certainly they are not my equal mentally. It's been a while since I've dealt with a one year old, but I'm pretty sure they are still having trouble feeding themselves at that age. What makes them people when fetuses aren't?

And as for your calculations, I personally don't believe that personhood should be considered at all. The idea of a "person" has only ever been used to divide humanity into the people and the sub-people, as in the cases of slavery, genocide, many wars, etc. Personhood has never done humanity any good, so I argue that abortion is wrong because it is human.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 11:58 pm


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My problem with your previous logic and, I would believe, Texas' problem with your logic, is that you are saying that having an abortion and not getting pregnant are equal.

Morally? Yes. I'm not trying to claim that physically the same, but I do believe that they are morally equivalent.

I.Am
The problem is that in one case, the life simply didn't exist. In the other, you exterminated it. How is that equal?

Exterminating life is not inherently bad. For example, if I don't get pregnant, countless human cells will die prematurely when I menstruate. Ovum, blood cells, the list goes on. Is this bad? I don't think so, but I'm not arguing that having human DNA gives something the right to live. The way our world is set up, we can't avoid dying.

I'm having some trouble articulating this, so forgive me. Basically, I don't see what difference it makes if I say, "I do not consent to be pregnant," and have an abortion compared to if I say, "I do not consent to be pregnant," and don't have sex. To me, both are deliberate actions aimed to prevent children from coming into being. I understand that to Pro-Lifers, having an abortion is creating a child and then killing it, but to me, an embryo isn't morally different from the cells in my cheek. I understand that to Pro-Lifers the fact that an embryo can develop into an adult and a cheek cell can't makes a difference, but to me it doesn't. I don't know what else to say. I could lie and say something that would please more people, but that wouldn't change what I really believe. If my beliefs make people physically ill, then that makes me sad, but I'm pretty much stuck.

So I guess I have a question for you (which anyone can answer if they so please). Just what is it about human DNA that makes you think it is so special? That makes it worthy of a respect that no other DNA code deserves? What makes human cells worthy of a right to life that no other entity shares? Maybe you can help me understand.


I.Am
Now as for your argument against potential, you are the one defining higher brain function there. I would judge that a newborn infant has virtually no higher brain function, and a fetus right before birth has the same amount of higher brain function that it does right after birth.

I'm not certain that I'm managing to communicate what I mean. I'm talking about having a functioning cerebral cortex. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

I.Am
(Speaking of which, I don't know if you hold a cutoff date for abortion?)

Actually, I do. Viability, which is the point where the fetus can be removed without it dying. There are exceptions of course (For example, if the fetus is going to die anyway, I don't see the point in making the woman go through the trauma of birth just so it can die outside the uterus). This is unrelated to my view of personhood. Legally, I don't think it makes a difference if the fetus is a person or not; abortion should be allowed when there is no other option to end the pregnancy but to have an abortion. Happily enough for me, viability is around when higher brain function comes into being. I only bring personhood up in regards to personal morals.

I.Am
Further, I'd say that a one year old doesn't have much higher brain function either. At that age, they still don't have much more intelligence than a dog, say.

See above.

I.Am
Certainly they are not my equal mentally.

I don't think you have to possess the mental abilities of an adult to be a person.

I.Am
It's been a while since I've dealt with a one year old, but I'm pretty sure they are still having trouble feeding themselves at that age.

I don't count "being able to feed oneself" as a higher brain function. I count it as a physical skill or ability.

I.Am
What makes them people when fetuses aren't?

A functioning cerebral cortex.

I.Am
And as for your calculations, I personally don't believe that personhood should be considered at all. The idea of a "person" has only ever been used to divide humanity into the people and the sub-people, as in the cases of slavery, genocide, many wars, etc. Personhood has never done humanity any good, so I argue that abortion is wrong because it is human.

Ah, but many times throughout history, the argument wasn't that, "We can subjugate them because they aren't people." Instead, it was, "We can subjugate them because they aren't human." For example, when blacks were slaves, people didn't just believe that blacks were not people; instead, there was the belief that they were of a different species. Same thing with the Jews; they were believed to be genetically inferior. So, in my opinion, just tossing out personhood wouldn't stop slavery, genocide, or war.

Besides, I think the idea of personhood is very important. One reason is that I think it is overly human oriented to declare that being human is what makes something worthy of rights. What if tomorrow we encountered something that wasn't human (or fully human) but had all our mental abilities? Would it be perfectly okay to kill them because they didn't share our genetics? Or what if one human being causes a second human such harm that the second human becomes brain dead while their heart keeps beating? Has the first human committed murder because the second human's consciousness is gone, or is the first human's crime signficantly less serious because the second human's heart is still beating?
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