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 Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:14 pm
I'm not sure whether or not I'm bi or gay. I think I like girls, but I'm not attracted to them. I'm attracted to guys. I also want to know what the easiest way on your friends and family to come out and let them know you are gay/bi?
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:15 pm
Black_Rain Transsexual: Means that you change from one sex to another and the sexuality is thus referred to as Transsexuality. Pansexual: It's similar to bi-sexuality but it is more fluid. A person who could honestly find love despite the sex. Rather than just being attracted to the same sex. Bisexual: Being physically or emotionally attracted to both sexes. Heterosexuality: Being physically attracted to people of the opposite sex. Homosexual: Being physically attracted to people of your same sex. Male Identified Lesbian: A man who isn't gay but identifies himself as a lesbian in personality and mannerisms. Kinda like a male feminist. Thanks, that clears up alot. And as to a gender switch, go for it! Girls have a lot of fun. But make sure it's really wat you want to do frst. Course, after a year of having to waer the clothing and actrouments of a woman, you'll be sure. (they make you do that wen you ask about the surgery)
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:15 pm
WitchyKitty Jyger KnightBlazer my mom hates gays and has told me shed throw me out if i were. my other firend wants ot make an alliance for gays and bi's in our school which is a middle school. im afraid of being thrown out cause my mom is serious ...Dude, I hate to say this, but in my opinion, yer Mom's a b***h. Seriously. i dunno if i'd go that far, she's just not open minded? people are grown up to believe what they are taught... and some just keep to that. she calls my dad a f*****t........
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:16 pm
Get caught in the act!!!!
Any R rated activity will do!!
Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:17 pm
Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:18 pm
WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.>
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:20 pm
Iwakura WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.> my friends understand. 2 of them love yaoi. and the other three are also bi. XD my aunt is gay so she knows. i dont want any other family to know
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:24 pm
KnightBlazer Iwakura WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.> my friends understand. 2 of them love yaoi. and the other three are also bi. XD my aunt is gay so she knows. i dont want any other family to know I just want to make coming out easy on my family and friends...I deserve to be out and have my freedom, but they also deserve a way that is easy for them.
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:26 pm
Iwakura KnightBlazer Iwakura WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.> my friends understand. 2 of them love yaoi. and the other three are also bi. XD my aunt is gay so she knows. i dont want any other family to know I just want to make coming out easy on my family and friends...I deserve to be out and have my freedom, but they also deserve a way that is easy for them. tell your best friend first. work from the person you trust the most
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:28 pm
Well, being easy on them is nice, but you shouldn't make yourself suffer for fear of stepping on someone's toes. They're your family, they should love you anyway, even if it's hard at first.
Just make sure that video tape doesn't get online
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:28 pm
KnightBlazer Iwakura KnightBlazer Iwakura WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.> my friends understand. 2 of them love yaoi. and the other three are also bi. XD my aunt is gay so she knows. i dont want any other family to know I just want to make coming out easy on my family and friends...I deserve to be out and have my freedom, but they also deserve a way that is easy for them. tell your best friend first. work from the person you trust the most He tells me he hates gay people crying
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:29 pm
Silvander Well, being easy on them is nice, but you shouldn't make yourself suffer for fear of stepping on someone's toes. They're your family, they should love you anyway, even if it's hard at first. Just make sure that video tape doesn't get online Awww!!!
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:30 pm
Iwakura KnightBlazer Iwakura KnightBlazer Iwakura WitchyKitty Black_Rain Get caught in the act!!!! Any R rated activity will do!! Easiest way to come out!! 3nodding xd i second that!! and if you happen to have a video camera handy.... xd yeah, it'd be easy, but not on my family or friends >.> my friends understand. 2 of them love yaoi. and the other three are also bi. XD my aunt is gay so she knows. i dont want any other family to know I just want to make coming out easy on my family and friends...I deserve to be out and have my freedom, but they also deserve a way that is easy for them. tell your best friend first. work from the person you trust the most He tells me he hates gay people crying if he wont accept you for you then he isnt your friend now is he? i havent fully come out only because i dont want to be thrown out of my house. if my mom was more understanding i would be more open. now you have to find the friend that you trust the most who you think wont hate you
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:31 pm
I have a good idea .. find a big mouthed person and tell them you're gay. This blabber mouth won't be able to help but tell someone ... soon enough it will get back to your friends and family. Then they will have to deal with the "rumor" you are gay. When they start to ask things like, "See any cute girls today honey?"
Then you sit them down for a big conversation and come out ... by then the denial phase may have already run its course through them.
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:33 pm
Black_Rain I have a good idea .. find a big mouthed person and tell them you're gay. This blabber mouth won't be able to help but tell someone ... soon enough it will get back to your friends and family. Then they will have to deal with the "rumor" you are gay. When they start to ask things like, "See any cute girls today honey?" Then you sit them down for a big conversation and come out ... by then the denial phase may have already run its course through them. lol reminds me of a sleepover..........my two friends let me and my friends bf sleep over but we slept downstairs. when he learned i was bi from his gf he freaked out, they say the woke me up by sticking something in my a**............i hope that isnt true XD
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