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It sounds like you already know what you should do. He's not keeping his promises, he's playing you and you don't feel loved or safe. You should never feel inferior to anyone in your boyfriend's eyes.

stare Girl, dont' fall for that crap! You know better! I know you know better, because that's what these people have been pounding into your eyes through a computer monitor for the past page!! Don't take your ex back, especially if he did something to hurt you! AND DON'T keep going out with this jerk! He's not worth your time and effort! I agree, kick his butt, kick his groin, kick him in the shin, kick the crap out of him, then get over him, and find yourself a man instead of a boy! It'll take a while, watch a lot of Moulin Rouge, and Gone With the Wind, eat bunches of ice cream, then go run it off, and start all over again. biggrin It's either that, or keep feeling derogatory 24/7, and have a depressing high school career, and frankly, I like the first option, myself.

MY TURN!
Okay, so it's good when a guy laughs at you a lot for those stupid little acts that come from being as weird as I am, and picks on you a whole bunch for wearing hobbit ears on your first date, and other little acts such as that? confused

a. how old are you

and b. where in the country do you reside? rofl

If he teases you then that's a good thing. If he likes you then he probably considers the unusual things that you do to be "cute".

I see... how about... Pride and Prejudice? biggrin I just said Moulin Rouge, because that was part of my massive chick-flick day a few years ago after splitting with Robert because he cheated on me gonk

@Scarred & Torch: It doesn't always make me feel stupid, I mean, come on, I was wearing hobbit ears, but HE was the one with corn on his hat! Yeah, whenever he teases me, I tend to tease back whee He's adorable! His ears stick out just a tad bit 4laugh Yeah... sweatdrop anyway, he had been picking on me during our trip to Nauvoo ((the stake took us, I happened to sit in front of him stare he freaked me out at first, then annoyed me, then tried to hug me and I cringed))
... where was I? Oh, yeah, he was picking on me at KFC, and I was upset, but not too upset, I had to clean up his mess, and he'd better be grateful for it the little stare .... When we were outside, him (5'8"), Brittany (5'10"), and Ben (6'5"), were picking on me (5'5"), by holding quarters over my head, saying "reach! reach!" I finally gave up, and stood away sort of pouting, and he comes over, puts his arm around me, laughs, then says, "I like you, you're funny," and kisses my temple ^-^ It was way cute, but it was in front of a leader, so... yeah... we didn't get in trouble, though xd

why is it that men seem to think that they should be all kind and nice, then once they feel that their girlfriend won't leave they become cruel and mean? cry

my WAS soon-to-be-hubby did something that I never would have expected him to do. he had literally destroyed all the trust I ever had in him. he knows i have a hard time opening up and trusting people, yet what he said, i don't know if i can or even should forgive him.

for that matter he might not even know what he did wrong, but he was so cruel, what he said... cry

I thought i have finally found the right guy, who wouldn't betray me, who would care for me, just goes to show... in life there was one over all rule i learned about humans, i found the words for my code of life at three. Humans are evil, and can not be trusted. my should be ex, just proved it to me. cry

Not all guys are like that. sure, most are, but definitely not all. me and my g/f have been together for 6 months, I know she won't leave me, and I am still as nice as I possibly can be, and keep trying to be nicer. Just keep your eyes peeled for the right guy who won't turn into a jerk once he knows you won't leave. (and to verify my story, just ask Seikia)