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 Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:08 am
EggaxSponge syketheassai EggaxSponge i think you have to wait until she gets home then. That's what I've been saying but people aren't listening. *feels smart* That's because you are.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:14 am
syketheassai EggaxSponge syketheassai EggaxSponge i think you have to wait until she gets home then. That's what I've been saying but people aren't listening. *feels smart* That's because you are. w00t!!! Somebody thinks i'm smart. *has been feeling dumb and youngish lately* AND i can spell and count. w00t! but yeah, when she gets home, i'm sure you will straighten it out a bit.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 12:10 pm
i had the same thing but i was the girl who stoped talking and it was i lost my internet and then when we got back together everthing was going wrong and he was suppose to come to me and well we got into arguement and when i tryed to answer him honestly and we ended up breaking up cause of misunderstandings so talk it out with her even try what i did with a new friend friend on the internet give her your number or ask for hers and just have a conversation i'm still friends with the guy on the net now and i moved to the same state as him and well met on coincidence and had already planed to mive here and now were great friends and i still talk to him on the net and phone. so try just dont give up, believe me you read my post about the real life problem i'm having and if i just gave up i wouldnt get no where.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 12:59 pm
lucifers-girl1988 i had the same thing but i was the girl who stoped talking and it was i lost my internet and then when we got back together everthing was going wrong and he was suppose to come to me and well we got into arguement and when i tryed to answer him honestly and we ended up breaking up cause of misunderstandings so talk it out with her even try what i did with a new friend friend on the internet give her your number or ask for hers and just have a conversation i'm still friends with the guy on the net now and i moved to the same state as him and well met on coincidence and had already planed to mive here and now were great friends and i still talk to him on the net and phone. so try just dont give up, believe me you read my post about the real life problem i'm having and if i just gave up i wouldnt get no where. Thanks. i don't want to give up. because i still think about her everyday. I hope when she comes back that she wants to talk to me. like what happened to you. I'd like to still be friends with her even if things do happen.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 1:29 pm
Ok i am going to say this only once more stop being so cold to people from what i have read everyones comments were right bang on line but your being far too defensive and that is not nice and i am not prepared to have people being verbally smacked pretty much for giving there own oppinions and spending there time trying to help you, we will talk about this through pm.
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you said yourself she goes off sometimes for a month or two at a time ever asked her why this is? ever thought to ask if she had some problems and that was why she kept going on and offline for large ammount of times, regardless of where she is now there is a thing called a internet cafe, i went to america for a month and 3 times a week i emailed my fiancee from a cafe and rung him twice a month, you have to make the effort, why do you not have her number? you really need to sit down and write a email like has been said before asking these points why you only have email contact. But by the sounds of it she has either found something better or is having problems at the moment and it could be because she felt you did not care enough to invite her which was not the case but she might not know that. It could be of those factors that she got upset and has not been online.
i am going to say this something is a bit offish here and i am sorry to be the one to say this but if she was my daughter there is not a chance in hell i would allow her to go and stay with someone expecially from online even though that is how i met my fiancee the difference is i took a chance and was 21 at the time and knew what i was doing yet even my mum protested then also. But if she was my child there is no way in hell i would let her and that could be why she is not contacting you because she simply cannot due to restrictions or her parents jumping in and cutting everything off most parents would do that now concidering how many psychos are out there.
give it a month no reply after your well thought out email then let her go your just hurting yourself in the long run.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 5:53 pm
If she goes off for sometime... maybe she's just busy or has issues at home?
If you truly feel deep down in your heart, that this relationship IS NOT working... You must end it, or you'll just be hurting yourself in the long run.
Please listen to that... I kept on trying to save a relationship, turned out it was just me that was suffering, and went on to suffer more.
x
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 6:24 pm
I think you should wait until she comes back online, and discuss perhaps calling each other. Talking on the phone would be a lot easier, and prevent a lot of misunderstanding, which is what this seems like to me.
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 4:50 am
o.k. i'm sorry i got mad at people yesterday. But i've slept on it.
Once again Ang has made several points that is a bit like running into a brick wall in a PM conversation
The second time she's "put me bang up to rights" (don't ask what that means exactly)
I tried to just give up on her once before. But it just came back.
I can't just let go like that. But Yesterday it felt like people were just telling me to E-Mail her with no thought about the fact that she might not even get the E-Mail for a month. That's because she's away. And i know she's away visiting her family.
As for her going away other times. i have said that she just gets busy with things. it's perfectly except able. As for her getting into an internet cafe Ang she hasn't. she would have logged onto her MySpace. Also she could just be having such a great time that she just forgets about getting to a computer?
xdark_angel_Rhianx: If she dumped me she would have said.
M U R D E R O T I C: most of that i already know except the bit about where i stand. i thought i had explained that origionaly?
Lyss The One In The Back: She has almost all my E-Mails. I could try sending her my mobile number. But to be honest i was eventually going to get up the courage to have an Audio conversation over IM's because we both have headphones and mics i think. (although i never got round to telling her i had some at Christmas)
Angelic_Highlights: I don't know if she has a phone. It's just never come up. I understand about your concerns as a mother. But i know that she told her relatives origionaly that she was planing to stay with a friend. i.e. me. Because they were due to go on holiday themselfs for the last few days of her trip. but because of the misunderstanding she had to get back to them and say that she couldn't stay with me some some reason or other. so they had to cancel their holiday. I don't honestly know about what she's told her parents.
Purge In My Breakfast: until she gets home i can't find out where i stand. But i will try to outline some of the things i meant to tell her in my Next E-Mail which i won't write just yet.
I think that covers everything for now. and like i said. I'm sorry i got angry.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 8:55 am
sounds like she told her parents your age and they jumped in =/ were not saying anything to annoy you if she does not get the email for a month so what you will know it has been sent and feel a bit more at peace because it was gotten off your chest that is the important thing in the long run your hurting more so than you would if she had gone on holiday because of the lack of knowledge and whats more also the lack of actually getting everything you want to say off your chest. this will be a huge burden inside you. i say go for it and write the email solely to know you have said everything you could have said, done anything you could have done, if it takes a week or a month you know it has been done and she wont be confused reading ten ton of emails because if you dont you will keep thinking maybe i should email, maybe i shouldnt.
things left not said is never good sounds to me like her parents stepped in bigtime and that is something she will need to sort out or you will need to wait if she is willing until she is 18 then she can do what the hell she likes and be with whoever she wants.
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 9:30 am
Well as far as i know her parents don't actuly know anything about me. And maybe she didn't tell her parents about staying with somone else? i don't know.
But if her parents found anything out would she at least have told me?
And if her parents did find out. Then they found out before i found out. And even if her parents did find out, would they have have actuly stoped her from communicating with me for nearly 4 months?
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 4:45 pm
the answer to all that is yes she is there little girl and i would stop her myself to be honest. She is under 16 so they can do anything they want and if she told them your lucky they didnt do anything more as in this day and age some parents go as far as trying to sue to girl or guy involved for leading there child astray sad i know. But i would have stopped her having contact any parent would to be honest and i doubt if it was me in that situation tell you because it would cause me more problems to do so. i wouldnt be surprised if they cut the net entirely.
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Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2007 2:47 am
o.k. Ang fair point. But i know they did not cut her net.
Her last logged in date for her MySpace account proves that's not the case because every couple of day's it updated when she was at home
And like i said before. i don't know if her parents actually found out or not. Although it may have been that her parents blocked her IM's again. (Last time was not because of me)
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 1:36 pm
that could be the case, leave her a message on her myspace if she checks that. she will see the message when she comes back from her holiday.
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:03 am
Angelic_Highlights that could be the case, leave her a message on her myspace if she checks that. she will see the message when she comes back from her holiday. Well I E-Mailed her trying to outline a number of things a few day's ago. I haven't tried writing her a MySpace message. Although she's never replyed to previous messages i've sent her on MySpace. And it was quite a surprise yesterday morning to notice that she had logged on earlier on that morning. But what that means? i don't know.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 4:04 am
Hm well give her a week it show's she is indeed online now which is one of the possible answers out of the way but let's just see if she replies now and if not in a week pm her on myspace asking what she is playing at and if still no reply i say let her go stop contact and move on as hard as it may be.
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