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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 10:44 pm
Hey, Shadow, no suicide kay? I thought we decided on this...?
"The hardest thing in this world is to live in it", right? Well, you should listen to Buffy sister kay? (My god, I can't belaive I'm quoting Dawn...)
Rain, I hadn't heard that version on Pansexuality. All I know is that mine (sexuality) is seriously ******** up... stare So I decided to use the term "pansexual" xd xd
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 3:23 am
Kage Tsuki Hey, Shadow, no suicide kay? I thought we decided on this...? "The hardest thing in this world is to live in it", right? Well, you should listen to Buffy sister kay? (My god, I can't belaive I'm quoting Dawn...) Rain, I hadn't heard that version on Pansexuality. All I know is that mine (sexuality) is seriously ******** up... stare So I decided to use the term "pansexual" xd xd Erm... what do you mean no suicide? it has nothing to do with this thread sweatdrop Erm.. thenk god im bi O_o
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 6:10 pm
Okay, I broke up w/ one girl for another, but that's all over. The chick I'm dating now is somewhat . . . open with her body. I adore her and would do anything for her. So when she asked me if she could be with other GUYs ( so I could be too ) I said yes. The thing is . . . she has been with other guys and since ours is a same-sex relationship she doesn't see it was cheating. But I don't want to be in an open-ended relationship. Being bisexual is so very confusing.
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 9:04 pm
hazel_dreamer Okay, I broke up w/ one girl for another, but that's all over. The chick I'm dating now is somewhat . . . open with her body. I adore her and would do anything for her. So when she asked me if she could be with other GUYs ( so I could be too ) I said yes. The thing is . . . she has been with other guys and since ours is a same-sex relationship she doesn't see it was cheating. But I don't want to be in an open-ended relationship. Being bisexual is so very confusing. Too true crying
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 11:28 am
hazel_dreamer Okay, I broke up w/ one girl for another, but that's all over. The chick I'm dating now is somewhat . . . open with her body. I adore her and would do anything for her. So when she asked me if she could be with other GUYs ( so I could be too ) I said yes. The thing is . . . she has been with other guys and since ours is a same-sex relationship she doesn't see it was cheating. But I don't want to be in an open-ended relationship. Being bisexual is so very confusing. That's a common problem. It looks like she dosn't value the relationship the same way you do. Ask her this, if she were dating a guy, would she ask to be with other guys/girls? Would she expect the guy to say yes? If she sees what you two have as a REAL relationship, not just something you do every now and then for kicks, than she should know better than to ask you something like that. Monogomy (one on one relationship only) works in all types of relationships, strait, bi, ect. And you have every right to expect it from her. If you want her to yourself, TELL HER don't expect her to just know, specialy if you already told her it was ok. Remind her that you value what the two of you have together. And like i said, would she expect the same with a guy and another guy? Lots of teens think that being bi means it's ok to be a littlel lax with things. Well, if your relastionship is serious, then you have every right to expect her to act serious. Hope this helps, and that i'm not just rambling, but me and my gf (of FIVE years, omg!) have gone through from crud like this so....yeah!
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 1:56 pm
does any one know the best way to do it with your self if your a boy
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 2:55 pm
well from what i found out lol a popsicle with a condom works really well and whan you ya with your ya do it hard.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 6:28 pm
crying My best friend is really mad at me...
Okay, so way back in 6th grade (woah, ah whole, what 2 years ago? stare ) my friend met this boy named... uh-Chris Bannex is his user name here. And he had this crush on her, this year (8th grade) he came to this school. Well my friend (Kai-Hikari) started to like him this winter, just as he was starting to like me. I of course was stuck between becuase they're both really close with me.
Then of course my Hikari tells Chris that she likes him (over e-mail) and he replied that he didn't really like her. And things were tumbulent with them, mean while four days before she sent this letter he told me that he had a crush on me. I just said that I wasn't really interested in him like that and liked him mostly as a friend. But of course this made me think that, you know I kind of did, which last friday I told him.
Today, at school I told my friend (Hikari) about it. And since she had been feeling left out and the last to be told things (my pan-sexuality) so we decided to tell her today. She was sutibly angry. And depressed, and all things. It of course didn't help that I'm really awkward around Chris, being new to this girl friend-y-ness.
And now I feel really bad that I'm doing something I want to to be doing...
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 8:14 pm
How should I go about asking out a bi curious guy? stressed
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 9:01 pm
Stiffler469 How should I go about asking out a bi curious guy? stressed I'd suggest you dont just 'ask them out' incase they arn't. Stick with them for a while, and if you know 'em well enough, they or you ccould drop hints..
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 2:08 pm
(omg, my first post here) I am very very confused. I have fallen in love with a couple of guys, but I am finding myself being physically attracted to girls. Is there a possibility that I am bi? Or could it be that my teenage hormones are just going crazy? This has just been a moderately recent occurrance, and I am very bewildered. Please help?
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 3:20 pm
EntropyTea (omg, my first post here) I am very very confused. I have fallen in love with a couple of guys, but I am finding myself being physically attracted to girls. Is there a possibility that I am bi? Or could it be that my teenage hormones are just going crazy? This has just been a moderately recent occurrance, and I am very bewildered. Please help? I had the same issue. You may just have hormones but I came through and acknowledged my bisexuality. I'm dating a girl and never been happier. If you're not dating why not try something with a girl?
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 9:32 pm
I really like this guy in my Biology class...we talk to each other barely in public but text each other countless of times. He's a sweet guy, when I was sick he couldn't stop worrying about me. I'm a very shy person at heart, and I want to tell him I like him but I'm afraid of being rejected. I don't know it will become a relationship that will continue...right now I can't stop thinking of him.......What should I do?
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 9:36 pm
Tai Chi Quan Genius I really like this guy in my Biology class...we talk to each other barely in public but text each other countless of times. He's a sweet guy, when I was sick he couldn't stop worrying about me. I'm a very shy person at heart, and I want to tell him I like him but I'm afraid of being rejected. I don't know it will become a relationship that will continue...right now I can't stop thinking of him.......What should I do? smile I honestly don't think you should take my advice, considering i've just been cutting myself and am abit emotional... Aw Sweet =D good on you dude. My advice would be to probably not go up to him straight away, but drop hints perhaps?
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 9:26 am
Shadow! Cutting falls into 'no-no' land. But I guess I can't really talk can I? I've been cutting for so long... Well I stopped at first in the begining, but I can't live with out it any more. I started last year, in April-ish. Then I stopped, and was mostly fine, then things just started building back up again. And yes you did say loginbin3000 i need to die... can someone come over and kill me PLEASE If I do recall correctly...? Any way. I think the hints idea is pretty good, then when you get a feel for his sexuality maybe ask him out. Or just some time go hang out after school, just as buddies, then sometime let it drop that you are attrachted to men, if he runs of screaming don't take it personally, just leave him alone, but pretty much no matter what he is, he'll need time to think it over. (Unless he's already guessed) I think I've replied enough. No I shall rant!! Nah, actually you one needs to hear it again, you can check it out in my journal if you really want to....
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