Oooh that's right, I haven't told most of you this story yet.
So, long story short, I have to move back home to my family for a while. My job pays absolute s**t, and not enough for me to continue living where I do. Especially with my student loan payments, my other debt, and the fact that my roommate has had to cover my rent for a few months.
This means that, rather than continue to live near my friends-family--the people I care about, the people I belong with--I get to move back in with my family-family--the people who told me I ruined my father's life when I was born, who've attempted to pray my gay away, who pushed me to attempt suicide three different times in my life.
I'm stronger now than I was then. I'll survive this. I'll thrive in this, and I'll be back on my own two feet as soon as I can. But I couldn't leave Chapel Hill, NC without getting something like this done.
I needed a reminder that, just because I won't be seeing the people I love as often, doesn't mean I don't have them. They're around, and I have them when I need them.
The Fenian Claddagh is a variation on the standard claddagh ring of Ireland, with two hearts and no crown. The two hearts typically stand for Ireland and North Ireland, without the 'crown' of British rule in Ulster.
I like the Fenian Claddagh more than the regular because, well, I don't do crowned. If I give my heart to someone, I expect theirs in return. My relationships are partnerships, and no one will ever have a crown over me.
So I took the design, overlapped the hearts, and though I am not an arist, I talked with my tattoo artist and he refined the design into what was tattoo'd.
So now I get my reminder, and something else to piss my grandmother off. I pretty much win here already.
Technologist Tony Stark
We're industrial buddies. 8D An industrial in the right ear, with a tragus piercing coming soon I hope. Two orbitals in the left ear, in about the same places as an industrial would go. And more planned--though I don't know when they'll happen.