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I think I can out a little too soon into high school. I was a freshman and people almost instantly hated me. I've even had someone put a knife to my throat.

Yeah...I've only come out to five people. pretty much everyone except my homophobic brother (I think he'd be ok after a little bit...) and my dad and stepmom I don't care wheather they know or not, so I'm not trying to hide. I'm just not wearing it on my sleeve...yet... twisted

My boyfriend was the hardest to tell. One morning I went, "Hey, Nick, I need to tell you something" He's like...ok..go ahead. Then I'm like....there's too many people here. He started to get worried. I was seriously freaking out (I have anxiety disorder, so i REALLY freak over things) and by the end he was to...he's like, it's better out an the open then what I'm imagining festering in my brain and my stomich. He thought I was going to break up with him. So I tell him, and he pauses and goes....So you're ending this because you're in love with a woman? I'm like....noo....he's like. Oh. Ok. then he starts laughing and gives me a hug and is like..you silly girl. You thought I'd freak about that? You're so silly. You're still my lovely Annelise.
3nodding I have a cool bf.

im lez, ive never liked guys that much [i a love way, ther fine as friends tho]
when i came out, my parents wer in utter shock and to this day they still dont believe me, by bro was cool tho he showed me some good lez and yuri sites and after making my swear on everthing important that he could dig up, his porn collection too smile
my friends were less pleasent most of them avoided me, they didnt tease me, just stayed away which was kinda worst in a way
it doesnt matter now tho i have new more accepting friends, most are guys, some bis and lez's

I guess you just have to tell them and see how they react, since there's like a zillion reactions. Just be ready for anything and the absolute worst...which for me was my mom beat me...so, like i said just try to be ready. I pretty much went up to my dad while he was reading a book

HOW it happened:

(highlight to read, it's my personal expierence so...)-->

(i'm in my pajamas and it's like 11:15 at night)

"Daddy i have to tell you something"
"Yes?"
"Daddy i'm gay."
"Is that all?"
"Your not mad?"
"No, why would i be?"
"Well...i dunno...there aren't alot of parents that are tolerent i guess you could say..."
"It doesn't matter if your gay or not, your still my son. A very femine one, but still my son non the less. Besides it's not that hard to figure out your gay, baby."
"Oh. ok. So...can Jack spend the night over?"
"Jack? Have a boyfriend already?"
"Well it's the same Jack i use to play with all the time when i was little...i've been going out with him for like a month now."

And he gets up and walks over to his desk and opens a drawer and closes it then walks to me and gives me 3 condoms.

"It'd be ignorant of me to say that you'll never get curious, that you won't have sex, or that you haven't already had sex. I would like to to protect yourself and take the whole 5-10 seconds it takes to have them put this on. OK?"

Of course i wasn't excpecting this.

"Well i haven't had sex yet... but i was thinking about it."
"I know, why else would you want Jack to come over this late at night on a friday?"

I blushed like 50 million shades of red, tell ya that.

"Well...i....we.....uh..."
"He can come over, but keep quiet and use the condoms ok? we can talk tomorrow afternoon."
"Afternoon?"
"I doubt you'll only have one round. You'll be out for quite a while i'm sure."

Then he pat my head and sent me away so he could finish reading. <--

That was my comming out.
3nodding

or in your case a sister
but my coming out wasnt so bad, sure i lost all my friends but some ppl got it alot worse, my parents were never mad at me because they dont believe me, which is better that them being angry and disowning me, ppl talked about me behind my back but never teased me to my face, and some ppl have been threatened and such, thats never happened to me

I've told most of my closer friends, one of them doesn't like the idea but she still talks to me. Toboe and one of my other friends just kind of looked at me and said "Awwwwww....." and still tend to when I'm around Murasaki-san. But I haven't told my mum yet, four months and I can move out maybe then she'll know.

After I told my aunt if I asked if a guy just a friend guy could come over she would tell me know, then yell at me and probly kick me out. She literally hates gay society and I have no idea what her problem is she wrote me this really long letter about how wrong it is and stuff and the I showed it to a friend and she wrote back my aunt I didn't have the courage to give it to her but it was sure funni. Thats why I love my friends I know they'll always be there for me no matter what.

Talk about dense and I thought I was dense. Hehe