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Well, when I was fifteen I told my parents I was bi; my dad would ask of there any girls I liked, when I said no he would then ask about boys, and I would say no; I really didn't want to share my love life with my parents. Anyways so Then I go out with this girl for a year, then we break up and after a year of being single I meet Tristan and the two of start to date.

My dad heard me over the phone talking to a friend about Tristan, though he was a girl, took me to Ohaycon and offered to buy me condems, until I said Tristan was a guy. My parents flip, and I'm going "What the hell stare ?" My mother actually cried. She kept asking "Why can't you be normal?" and "Why can't you give girls a chance?" And I'm still going "I'm bi, I like girls, even if all the girls I go out with are unfaithful bitches" (I didn't really say the last part, but I really wanted to)

I came out to my friends when I was fifteen too, before to my parents, they said that it was cool. I really didn't expect them to disown me, after all we were on our way to see RENT.

I came out to my cross country team too a year later. That was special. Someone made the comment that (sorry girls) "Women suck, that's the only thing they're good at, and sex." And I, being me, had to be a smartass and say "And sometimes guys are better at that, so there's no real need for women." (again, I'm sorry) and everyone looked at me, I looked around, smiled and said, "Oh, didn't you know? I'm bi! biggrin "

Yep, that's my outing story.

My mom ended up asking me one night because she suspected it heh and shes really cool with it

I haven't fully come out, just most of the people at school have an idea about me. I am bisexual, and a lot of people are ok with it.. only one of my family members know, and thats my cousin because she goes to school with me. I guess I'll let them know one day, but my cuz'n probably already gave them a hint... stare

*sigh* i hope i never have to tell my mom and that one day she'll just know and be okay with that.

^^^whiplash's (my) version of lala land.

I've come out to a few of my friends and to my brothers (my oldest brother thought i was kidding, my middle brother was scared, and my younger brother [same age as me] thinks my mind is just corrupt). My friends are cool with it, and when i found out that a friend of my [she's so pretty] is bi, we started going out (I'M SO LUCKY!!) and i've been thinking about dating my guy friend, but i love jenny too much!!

I dont' want to come out to my mom b/c i used to be suicidal [but i can't kill myself b/c we're too poor to afford a funeral] and she freaked out about that, and believe me, she'd freak out more about this.

As for my dad, he's a raving pervert and i really had a sneaking suspicion when i was 8 or 9 that he was going to try and rape me, so telling him i'm bi would just be...........not possible [e.g. he'd want proof..........if you get my drift.]

I'm basically treated normally, but it gets weird with my friends cuz i can't always say what's on my mind even if i am joking, even though most of my friends are bi.

If i ask someone out, i am not afraid to be rejected. But accidentally saying something around my friends.........and i get rejected by them would be the end.




<3 Whiplash

I grew up in a pretty different situation from the norm. My Dad is gay and my Mom is a lesbian. When I came out to my dad it was pretty easy. He was all like I pretty much figured but was waiting for you to tell me. Coming out to my Mom was a whole nother ball of wax. My Mom may be a lesbian, but I think she is ashamed of it. My whole life I grow up with her and she would try and to make me not be like her. That was a huge problem because I am a lot like my Mom, so we didn't/don't get along. So when I did finaly come out to her it was quite an ordeal. Well anyways I have it better then others that way, but not as good as one would think given my family life.

domokun

I have the same problem, though I look at the girls too but I dont know if Ill ever have crush on them but I like their bodies and I love guys their bodies and I have a crush on them ... confusing, right ???

I'm bi... but it took me a while to realize it... yeah i've always thought girls were hott too ( dont like boys much ), but i never realized what it was until a few years ago... i've told my friends and my mom but i'll never tell my dad... My mom was not so hot with the idea, but she said i am who i am and she accepts me for who i am...

My friends are all bi so they totally didnt freak ... but i found out my best friend was bi before i even knew i was...

but it took me a few weird things to find out incluing making out with several other girls..

so thast my story...