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 Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:20 pm
charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath I should have a new phone on Thursday, though. I can try driving down there that night and pray he's not so ticked he won't meet me.
oh well, it happens, though never to me...
does he work? study? do you know of somewhere he goes regularly? you could go to one of those places to see if he's ok...and if it tingles you, you could follow him afterwards...(too movieish??)
if you want to talk to him, try to make the encounter casual, nobody likes being followed...
try to make him talk and you listen, try to ask him if he believed in you before and if he could do it again, and if not...why not?
give him your support (tell him) even if he says he hates you, you love him too much to forget everything and let him die alone...you can't and mustn't let him escape in anger...if you feel it, cry...
CONVINCE HIM AT ALL COSTS TO LISTEN! (after all of before)
i dunno what else to say...just don't let go untill you can't hold grip...
i won't be around for the next 2 days at least, so i won't know how it went (if you tried), just be confident and believe...
i'm sure you can do it...Well I did it, and it totally back fired. Apparently he's talking to his sister again, and she's convinced him never to talk to me again. I drove all the way down there and called him from a pay phone. He answered, found out it was me, said he wasn't suppoused to talk to me and hung up. Several quarters later, and some random guy starts answering. So yeah, I'm not doing very well at all at the moment.
ok...so his sister won the race of who did what first....this wasn't on my mind...and there's something that bothers me about it...
"how can you fix something that has already been set?", well, there aren't much options...
first of all, you didn't ask him why he wasn't supposed to talk with you? or did he hang before you asked?(or reacted?) and if this random guy started answering, he could've been jeffs friend...why didn't you ask him if he was there? or if he could be your medium to him?? or asked him things like "could you ask jeff (if he's there) why he cant talk with me?"
uhhhh. *sighs* this isn't going well huh? so i guess i have a part to blame! sweatdrop emo
there's not much more i can do for you in this case, more than feel guilty...
but i tell you, look at the bright side of things...he's still there and alive...and that's good...
the bad part is that it seems he already has cuffed-up his mind and won't listen...i sure wish he would, you seem to be a very nice person and it'd be very bad for both of you to lose people like you two from each other...
some things never should've happened...(not that what you had, i mean his mom or sister or things like that)...
i'll give all the spiritual support i can give...
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:24 pm
Fairy~Nuff Oh.
sad
Screwdrivers + electrical object x Fairy = BANG!
in no time you'll dominate it, and you have alot of time to investigate before proceeding...so give it a try..."in order to swim, you gotta jump in the water!"
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:43 pm
Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath I should have a new phone on Thursday, though. I can try driving down there that night and pray he's not so ticked he won't meet me.
oh well, it happens, though never to me...
does he work? study? do you know of somewhere he goes regularly? you could go to one of those places to see if he's ok...and if it tingles you, you could follow him afterwards...(too movieish??)
if you want to talk to him, try to make the encounter casual, nobody likes being followed...
try to make him talk and you listen, try to ask him if he believed in you before and if he could do it again, and if not...why not?
give him your support (tell him) even if he says he hates you, you love him too much to forget everything and let him die alone...you can't and mustn't let him escape in anger...if you feel it, cry...
CONVINCE HIM AT ALL COSTS TO LISTEN! (after all of before)
i dunno what else to say...just don't let go untill you can't hold grip...
i won't be around for the next 2 days at least, so i won't know how it went (if you tried), just be confident and believe...
i'm sure you can do it...Well I did it, and it totally back fired. Apparently he's talking to his sister again, and she's convinced him never to talk to me again. I drove all the way down there and called him from a pay phone. He answered, found out it was me, said he wasn't suppoused to talk to me and hung up. Several quarters later, and some random guy starts answering. So yeah, I'm not doing very well at all at the moment.
ok...so his sister won the race of who did what first....this wasn't on my mind...and there's something that bothers me about it...
"how can you fix something that has already been set?", well, there aren't much options...
first of all, you didn't ask him why he wasn't supposed to talk with you? or did he hang before you asked?(or reacted?) and if this random guy started answering, he could've been jeffs friend...why didn't you ask him if he was there? or if he could be your medium to him?? or asked him things like "could you ask jeff (if he's there) why he cant talk with me?"
uhhhh. *sighs* this isn't going well huh? so i guess i have a part to blame! sweatdrop emo
there's not much more i can do for you in this case, more than feel guilty...
but i tell you, look at the bright side of things...he's still there and alive...and that's good...
the bad part is that it seems he already has cuffed-up his mind and won't listen...i sure wish he would, you seem to be a very nice person and it'd be very bad for both of you to lose people like you two from each other...
some things never should've happened...(not that what you had, i mean his mom or sister or things like that)...
i'll give all the spiritual support i can give...
Neither of them gave me any chance to talk. He just said his sister had told him not to talk to me and that was it. Thinking back, I think the guy answering may have been one of his old friends from Florida. Which would explain alot because that particular friend has never been nice to me at all. He thinks any girl that doesn't look like a stripper is disgusting. I've pretty much given up, but I'm more then a little hurt by his actions. I'm not even sure how to move on, because I don't even want to try trusting anyone else or putting so much effort into something like that again.
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 3:47 pm
Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath I should have a new phone on Thursday, though. I can try driving down there that night and pray he's not so ticked he won't meet me.
oh well, it happens, though never to me...
does he work? study? do you know of somewhere he goes regularly? you could go to one of those places to see if he's ok...and if it tingles you, you could follow him afterwards...(too movieish??)
if you want to talk to him, try to make the encounter casual, nobody likes being followed...
try to make him talk and you listen, try to ask him if he believed in you before and if he could do it again, and if not...why not?
give him your support (tell him) even if he says he hates you, you love him too much to forget everything and let him die alone...you can't and mustn't let him escape in anger...if you feel it, cry...
CONVINCE HIM AT ALL COSTS TO LISTEN! (after all of before)
i dunno what else to say...just don't let go untill you can't hold grip...
i won't be around for the next 2 days at least, so i won't know how it went (if you tried), just be confident and believe...
i'm sure you can do it...Well I did it, and it totally back fired. Apparently he's talking to his sister again, and she's convinced him never to talk to me again. I drove all the way down there and called him from a pay phone. He answered, found out it was me, said he wasn't suppoused to talk to me and hung up. Several quarters later, and some random guy starts answering. So yeah, I'm not doing very well at all at the moment.
ok...so his sister won the race of who did what first....this wasn't on my mind...and there's something that bothers me about it...
"how can you fix something that has already been set?", well, there aren't much options...
first of all, you didn't ask him why he wasn't supposed to talk with you? or did he hang before you asked?(or reacted?) and if this random guy started answering, he could've been jeffs friend...why didn't you ask him if he was there? or if he could be your medium to him?? or asked him things like "could you ask jeff (if he's there) why he cant talk with me?"
uhhhh. *sighs* this isn't going well huh? so i guess i have a part to blame! sweatdrop emo
there's not much more i can do for you in this case, more than feel guilty...
but i tell you, look at the bright side of things...he's still there and alive...and that's good...
the bad part is that it seems he already has cuffed-up his mind and won't listen...i sure wish he would, you seem to be a very nice person and it'd be very bad for both of you to lose people like you two from each other...
some things never should've happened...(not that what you had, i mean his mom or sister or things like that)...
i'll give all the spiritual support i can give...
Neither of them gave me any chance to talk. He just said his sister had told him not to talk to me and that was it. Thinking back, I think the guy answering may have been one of his old friends from Florida. Which would explain alot because that particular friend has never been nice to me at all. He thinks any girl that doesn't look like a stripper is disgusting. I've pretty much given up, but I'm more then a little hurt by his actions. I'm not even sure how to move on, because I don't even want to try trusting anyone else or putting so much effort into something like that again.
i said i had been dumped, but i feel i was toyed with...i had given so much effort and time and...and...well, you get the point...
the thing is i felt so awed and shocked of how quickly she got another bf (like some 4-6 days later) after spending more than a year together...there are ppl who marry at that time, and profesionals (consultants) say a year is minimum for it...and we had all these things in common...but in the end she took her friends advice (like jeffs sister, comparing cases) and left me rather than going on...that left me so very sad and depressed, i hardly know why i'm still here...
now everything seems so dark cuz if all this time it was like a game for her, and i came to believe she wasn't one of those, what can i expect from the rest? i may never be able to do the same thing again with nobody, making me stall...
i had tolf her once that she gave me strength to keep walking, but now alone i also dunno how to move on...i can't trust in someone like i had before, not again...i won't give all i gave before cuz most of what i had i gave to her...
if i do find someone else...who knows...i wish i could give all i had once done...
but don't be sad, girl you've got alot of time ahead...don't be desperate...i'll support you if you want...
and don't give in like this, there's always a chance...don't be afraid...
i really don't know what to say...but there still is some one out there for you, i know that...God does...you still can pick wisely, and now you have your eyes more open than before...
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 3:52 pm
Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath I should have a new phone on Thursday, though. I can try driving down there that night and pray he's not so ticked he won't meet me.
oh well, it happens, though never to me...
does he work? study? do you know of somewhere he goes regularly? you could go to one of those places to see if he's ok...and if it tingles you, you could follow him afterwards...(too movieish??)
if you want to talk to him, try to make the encounter casual, nobody likes being followed...
try to make him talk and you listen, try to ask him if he believed in you before and if he could do it again, and if not...why not?
give him your support (tell him) even if he says he hates you, you love him too much to forget everything and let him die alone...you can't and mustn't let him escape in anger...if you feel it, cry...
CONVINCE HIM AT ALL COSTS TO LISTEN! (after all of before)
i dunno what else to say...just don't let go untill you can't hold grip...
i won't be around for the next 2 days at least, so i won't know how it went (if you tried), just be confident and believe...
i'm sure you can do it...Well I did it, and it totally back fired. Apparently he's talking to his sister again, and she's convinced him never to talk to me again. I drove all the way down there and called him from a pay phone. He answered, found out it was me, said he wasn't suppoused to talk to me and hung up. Several quarters later, and some random guy starts answering. So yeah, I'm not doing very well at all at the moment.
ok...so his sister won the race of who did what first....this wasn't on my mind...and there's something that bothers me about it...
"how can you fix something that has already been set?", well, there aren't much options...
first of all, you didn't ask him why he wasn't supposed to talk with you? or did he hang before you asked?(or reacted?) and if this random guy started answering, he could've been jeffs friend...why didn't you ask him if he was there? or if he could be your medium to him?? or asked him things like "could you ask jeff (if he's there) why he cant talk with me?"
uhhhh. *sighs* this isn't going well huh? so i guess i have a part to blame! sweatdrop emo
there's not much more i can do for you in this case, more than feel guilty...
but i tell you, look at the bright side of things...he's still there and alive...and that's good...
the bad part is that it seems he already has cuffed-up his mind and won't listen...i sure wish he would, you seem to be a very nice person and it'd be very bad for both of you to lose people like you two from each other...
some things never should've happened...(not that what you had, i mean his mom or sister or things like that)...
i'll give all the spiritual support i can give...
Neither of them gave me any chance to talk. He just said his sister had told him not to talk to me and that was it. Thinking back, I think the guy answering may have been one of his old friends from Florida. Which would explain alot because that particular friend has never been nice to me at all. He thinks any girl that doesn't look like a stripper is disgusting. I've pretty much given up, but I'm more then a little hurt by his actions. I'm not even sure how to move on, because I don't even want to try trusting anyone else or putting so much effort into something like that again.
i said i had been dumped, but i feel i was toyed with...i had given so much effort and time and...and...well, you get the point...
the thing is i felt so awed and shocked of how quickly she got another bf (like some 4-6 days later) after spending more than a year together...there are ppl who marry at that time, and profesionals (consultants) say a year is minimum for it...and we had all these things in common...but in the end she took her friends advice (like jeffs sister, comparing cases) and left me rather than going on...that left me so very sad and depressed, i hardly know why i'm still here...
now everything seems so dark cuz if all this time it was like a game for her, and i came to believe she wasn't one, what can i expect from the rest? i may never be able to do the same thing again with nobody, making me stall...
i had tolf her once that she gave me strength to keep walking, but now alone i also dunno how to move on...i can't trust in someone like i had before, not again...i won't give all i gave before cuz most of what i had i gave to her...
if i do find someone else...who knows...i wish i could give all i had once done...
but don't be sad, girl you've got alot of time ahead...don't be desperate...i'll support you if you want...
and don't give in like this, there's always a chance...don't be afraid...
i really don't know what to say...but there still is some one out there for you, i know that...God does...you still can pick wisely, and now you have your eyes more open than before...I'm sorry you had to go through this too. Hurts like hell. Is it pathetic that I still have hopes of him going back to his old self and, IDK, realizing just how much we had? The other thing is, I pretty much know he won't be able to replace me. That may sound arogant, but it's not really that. He just trusts no one anymore, and Jeff has some seriously dark secrets in his past that he told no one but me. I don't think he'll ever be able to tell anyone them again. Infact, he told me he wouldn't, so no one will ever really know him and he'll never be truely comfortable like he was with me.
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 5:09 pm
plypox Fairy~Nuff I was multitsking trying to make my poor old laptop go faster.
I only managed to make it stop though. sad
Still! I's back now! biggrin Whats your Laptop anyways? Brand and specs...
It's black....... xd
nah, I'm not that rubbish! It's a Toshiba Satellite, stupidly old, need a new one really but this'll do for now. Just wish it would go FAST like my old pc. Never thought I'd miss anything from my old job but I do miss my computer. sweatdrop
Outcast-ghosT I was one of those kids who loved to unscrew all their toys to see how they worked! xd The only thing I didn't manage to murder was my Eagle-eyes Action Man! lol, and that was only because I couldn't find a screwdriver small enough to poke his eyes out with!
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 7:50 pm
Fairy~Nuff plypox Fairy~Nuff I was multitsking trying to make my poor old laptop go faster.
I only managed to make it stop though. sad
Still! I's back now! biggrin Whats your Laptop anyways? Brand and specs...
It's black....... xd
nah, I'm not that rubbish! It's a Toshiba Satellite, stupidly old, need a new one really but this'll do for now. Just wish it would go FAST like my old pc. Never thought I'd miss anything from my old job but I do miss my computer. sweatdrop
Outcast-ghosT I was one of those kids who loved to unscrew all their toys to see how they worked! xd The only thing I didn't manage to murder was my Eagle-eyes Action Man! lol, and that was only because I couldn't find a screwdriver small enough to poke his eyes out with!
i had to bust some things in order to know how they worked and with what to be careful with...and even now i have care with electronics, but i have to manage em cuz it's part of my carreer! I could blow some stuff to pieces, lol...but it hasn't happened yet...
dont be afraid...go ahead! my dad's got a toshiba satelite and it's slow, but it's full of crap so he's kinda emptied it a bit, but it's still awfully slow...you could use google chrome, it's faster and weighs less than other explorers
You could also close useless apllications so your virtual memory is less occupied...
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:01 pm
charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath Outcast-ghosT charamath Well I did it, and it totally back fired. Apparently he's talking to his sister again, and she's convinced him never to talk to me again. I drove all the way down there and called him from a pay phone. He answered, found out it was me, said he wasn't suppoused to talk to me and hung up. Several quarters later, and some random guy starts answering. So yeah, I'm not doing very well at all at the moment.
ok...so his sister won the race of who did what first....this wasn't on my mind...and there's something that bothers me about it...
"how can you fix something that has already been set?", well, there aren't much options...
first of all, you didn't ask him why he wasn't supposed to talk with you? or did he hang before you asked?(or reacted?) and if this random guy started answering, he could've been jeffs friend...why didn't you ask him if he was there? or if he could be your medium to him?? or asked him things like "could you ask jeff (if he's there) why he cant talk with me?"
uhhhh. *sighs* this isn't going well huh? so i guess i have a part to blame! sweatdrop emo
there's not much more i can do for you in this case, more than feel guilty...
but i tell you, look at the bright side of things...he's still there and alive...and that's good...
the bad part is that it seems he already has cuffed-up his mind and won't listen...i sure wish he would, you seem to be a very nice person and it'd be very bad for both of you to lose people like you two from each other...
some things never should've happened...(not that what you had, i mean his mom or sister or things like that)...
i'll give all the spiritual support i can give...
Neither of them gave me any chance to talk. He just said his sister had told him not to talk to me and that was it. Thinking back, I think the guy answering may have been one of his old friends from Florida. Which would explain alot because that particular friend has never been nice to me at all. He thinks any girl that doesn't look like a stripper is disgusting. I've pretty much given up, but I'm more then a little hurt by his actions. I'm not even sure how to move on, because I don't even want to try trusting anyone else or putting so much effort into something like that again.
i said i had been dumped, but i feel i was toyed with...i had given so much effort and time and...and...well, you get the point...
the thing is i felt so awed and shocked of how quickly she got another bf (like some 4-6 days later) after spending more than a year together...there are ppl who marry at that time, and profesionals (consultants) say a year is minimum for it...and we had all these things in common...but in the end she took her friends advice (like jeffs sister, comparing cases) and left me rather than going on...that left me so very sad and depressed, i hardly know why i'm still here...
now everything seems so dark cuz if all this time it was like a game for her, and i came to believe she wasn't one, what can i expect from the rest? i may never be able to do the same thing again with nobody, making me stall...
i had tolf her once that she gave me strength to keep walking, but now alone i also dunno how to move on...i can't trust in someone like i had before, not again...i won't give all i gave before cuz most of what i had i gave to her...
if i do find someone else...who knows...i wish i could give all i had once done...
but don't be sad, girl you've got alot of time ahead...don't be desperate...i'll support you if you want...
and don't give in like this, there's always a chance...don't be afraid...
i really don't know what to say...but there still is some one out there for you, i know that...God does...you still can pick wisely, and now you have your eyes more open than before...I'm sorry you had to go through this too. Hurts like hell. Is it pathetic that I still have hopes of him going back to his old self and, IDK, realizing just how much we had? The other thing is, I pretty much know he won't be able to replace me. That may sound arogant, but it's not really that. He just trusts no one anymore, and Jeff has some seriously dark secrets in his past that he told no one but me. I don't think he'll ever be able to tell anyone them again. Infact, he told me he wouldn't, so no one will ever really know him and he'll never be truely comfortable like he was with me.
nobody can replace who you were, cuz everybody's unique, so i don't think what you said was arrogant in any way...i think that you know how important you were for him during that time....i'm not sure how important i was...
maybe that's in what we differ... neutral
don't get me wrong when i say you sound bitter about it...i think you have to be like water, being able to mold and transform when needed to; being as hard as rock, as cold as ice, as warm like springs or delightful like in swimming...
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:26 pm
Sometimes it depends on the day. For example, ED has a nasty tendency to suck when the sun is up...Though I stopped coming ever since the mods proved themselves to be ban-happy, even if you weren't breaking the ToS.
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:35 pm
Oh my...With what is now a non-sequitor have I killed this conversation?
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 9:12 pm
Matasoga Oh my...With what is now a non-sequitor have I killed this conversation? Nah! There's several conversations on this thread going on simultaneously, the two main ones being Fairy's ill-luck with her computer, and the other being my 6'5" 'issue'- LOL! I don't think you have to worry about killing them.
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 9:32 pm
charamath Matasoga Oh my...With what is now a non-sequitor have I killed this conversation? Nah! There's several conversations on this thread going on simultaneously, the two main ones being Fairy's ill-luck with her computer, and the other being my 6'5" 'issue'- LOL! I don't think you have to worry about killing them. Do excuse the very laziness that this thread was created to combat, but as I am multi-tasking, might you nut-shell that 6'5" convo for me?
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 9:39 pm
Matasoga charamath Matasoga Oh my...With what is now a non-sequitor have I killed this conversation? Nah! There's several conversations on this thread going on simultaneously, the two main ones being Fairy's ill-luck with her computer, and the other being my 6'5" 'issue'- LOL! I don't think you have to worry about killing them. Do excuse the very laziness that this thread was created to combat, but as I am multi-tasking, might you nut-shell that 6'5" convo for me? 6'5" ex-boyfriend who broke up with me 'temporarily' so he could 'find his space' (while still remaining in contact as if we were dating) while becoming a depressed alcholic who just decided to cut off all contact with me because his family just lost all their money, and somehow that translates to him not trusting anyone. Yeah, 3 years of something very special destroyed in a few months for very dumb reasons. There's that in a nut shell!
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 9:48 pm
charamath Matasoga charamath Matasoga Oh my...With what is now a non-sequitor have I killed this conversation? Nah! There's several conversations on this thread going on simultaneously, the two main ones being Fairy's ill-luck with her computer, and the other being my 6'5" 'issue'- LOL! I don't think you have to worry about killing them. Do excuse the very laziness that this thread was created to combat, but as I am multi-tasking, might you nut-shell that 6'5" convo for me? 6'5" ex-boyfriend who broke up with me 'temporarily' so he could 'find his space' (while still remaining in contact as if we were dating) while becoming a depressed alcholic who just decided to cut off all contact with me because his family just lost all their money, and somehow that translates to him not trusting anyone. Yeah, 3 years of something very special destroyed in a few months for very dumb reasons. There's that in a nut shell! Ah, sorry to hear that. How are you dealing with it? Holding up alright?
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