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Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:14 am

Umexchan

Why must you take a simple statement and blow it up and read into it so?

BECAUSE HE'S A GUY!!!

No offense to you Chou redface

Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:15 am

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Umexchan

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-_- Your missing details. That's why I said you had no clue. i meant no offence by it. I simply meant you were missing details.

Like what? Let's see, is she an adult? Yes. Is she a mother? Yes. Are her children in this guild? Yes. Do I think she feels obligated to be mature? Yes. My facts are straight and no details are "missing". I have pleanty "clue" so maybe you don't know what you're talking about.

-_- I meant about Rose.

What about Rose. Did she suddenly have four children, that I didn't know about, that now roam the guild?

-_- Your not grasping what I'm saying. Rose is certainly mature enough to be equal with Aileeya's maturity level, that's what I was trying to say. Forgive me for not expressing that better.

Please understand that what I meant when I said you had no clue was that I meant you didn't know Rose's situation, some things have happened that I cannot say to you, that have made her extremely mature for her age. That's all that I meant.

It matters no how she became "extremely mature for her age." I don't need to know her situation and I don't need to get the whole "I know something you don't know" vibe. Everyone has their own situations that make them the way they are. You are so confusing to me! You get angry that I don't know Rose's situation and you think I don't think she's mature? UGH!

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Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:23 am

Umexchan

It matters no how she became "extremely mature for her age." I don't need to know her situation and I don't need to get the whole "I know something you don't know" vibe. Everyone has their own situations that make them the way they are. You are so confusing to me! You get angry that I don't know Rose's situation and you think I don't think she's mature? UGH!

wahmbulance Chou, I'm going to get extremely personal and I may be flat out wrong...if I am, or IF this is too personal, I'll delete it later, K?

Ume, I don't think he was angry at all....I think he WAS trying to demonstrate "special knowledge"--he was trying to appear "in the know" in front of you--specifically because of his childhood. He has a DEEP NEED to BE special....to hold regard, respect, admiration.

He let that need take over--and completely unknowingly called you clueless---he was not actually aiming at YOU--but rather pointing to himSELF as HAVING special knowledge....in other words, he didn't mean to put you down, but to prop himself up.

Please realize through your hurt that despite his tough exterior, he is actually quite sensitive...and is TRYING to show you his vulnerability rather than reach for defense mechanisms....ok?

Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:26 am

lol--I got a PM and rushed to make a new tab thinking--uh oh--someone's going to call me on the carpet--or tell me I've majorly offended....

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Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:28 am

Hai, hai... stare

Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:37 am

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Umexchan

Why must you take a simple statement and blow it up and read into it so?

BECAUSE HE'S A GUY!!!

No offense to you Chou redface

stare Aileeya.....your on thin ice and your about to make this alot worse then it already has become, so please stop with the feminist movement.....NOW.

Let me make this clear to BOTH of you.
I was extremely calm when writting about Rose earlier.
I wasn't mad at you Ume. I didn't think you thought she wasn't mature.
I meant that SHE has fun and plays around even though she's mature.
Whilst Aileeya stays calm and doesn't really play around.
Now, let me state that NOW I'm in an irate position.
It would be fair to say that we both blew this thing way out of proportion. Me for continuing and unintentionly starting it and you Ume for continuing it.
I am sorry that I didn't state myself clearly and in that way you didn't understand it.
Now let me just say that I wrote this once before and this is the calmer version.

Chou--FIRST, hon, I'm sorry for putting more stress on you by taking a stereotype shortcut.

second, it is a stereotype precisely because there IS some truth in it. You really don't know how insulting you were to Ume, you still think it's a molehill....granted, that both of you have been expanding said hill, you're both thin-skinned at the moment.

Please accept my heartfelt apologies.

stare I AM a feminist though...a conservative CHRISTIAN pro-life polar opposite of a feminazi feminist--but a feminist nevertheless...it's NOT a dirty word. (Go Sarah Palin!)

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Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:42 am

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-_- No. That was not my intent. I was trying to say that Rose is mature and she still has fun here more than you do Aileeya. I WAS not angry, You've MADE me.

I understand that that was not your intent--but did you notice that Ume and I BOTH got the as she put it "I'm special vibe"--and you yourself said pretty much the same thing, when you re-iterated that in your childhood you had been ignored.

The NEED (and it is precisely that, a need) for admiration is something that ALL men have--lol--we've studied it in Bible and Marriage builder's class.

It's why there are several verses directed at wives to REVERE their husbands...it's not something unique to you Chou...nor am I trying to make you out to be damaged in any way....I am SORRY if I'm angering you---I'm TRYING not to!!!

I just want both of you to forgive eachother (and me I guess!) and be friendly again..... crying I hate conflict!!! crying

Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 1:00 am

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-_- Childhood = past. Remember that and MOVE ON!

I don't need admiration. I've lived my life being hated. Of course I wouldn't need admiration. Who would need admiration when they've been slapped in the face everyday of their SEEMINGLY GOD FORESAKEN LIFE!!!!!

Hey. You're argument's with the "good book" not with me....I'm moved on.

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