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 Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 5:18 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:02 pm
T^T -pats Phoenix-
a month late:
omg, Vie, my daughter did the exact same thing the other day (without the cursing). xP
and you don't sound awful at all, you sound like you're having a normal reaction to someone's irrational behavior. -patpat-»» Kae
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:10 pm
Snarky users bite the big one. »» Kae
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 8:52 pm
I can't even think straight now, but here's what happened.
At the beginning of June, my sister got into an argument with my mom, and my mom pushed her. Not hard, just a push. From there it just got worse. She got really mad, and stayed outside on the phone with her friend. Next thing I know, she pulls out a suitcase and says she's moving out. My dad tells her not without the police making him let her go. So that's what happens. She called her friends and told them to call the police if we don't let her go. She's slowly inching to the door, and all of a sudden, someone's hammering on the door. It's her best friend's boyfriend, and she throws open the door and tries to make a run for it with her baggage. My dad tackles her down and they both fall on the steps, but she doesn't look back. He gets up and tackles her again, and this time, her friend tries to get her away, but my dad keeps her pinned. The whole time, she's screaming bloody murder, and when I come out her friend's boyfriend and sister are cussing at all of us, telling us how we aren't any good and why are we just standing there not helping. I'm trying to figure what's going on, but no one's saying anything besides insults. The police come soon enough, and they say that since she's legal, she can do what she wants. But they don't know, she's mildly retarded, and acts like she lives in a drama where she is the victim. This is how she acts all the time at home, and is generally rude. She's been telling them all this time that we put her down, and abuse her, when the truth is, no one's touched her, and we try to encourage her. Now, I've talked to her and her friend since then, but now today, my cousin calls me to look at her friend's myspace page. 'She was being abused...we rescued her...she's one of us now...' I'm so so so so sick right now.
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 8:21 am
@ 3@ That's... graah. Sorry Vie. D: Did the police even talk to your parents? Or did they just say "She's legal, she can go."
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 6:59 pm
They said the 'she's legal...' part. I don't who I should be mad at, or if I can just dump all my feelings. That's actually what I want to do. But it's like they keep egging us on, and are quick to say 'we'll press charges' It makes me sick, and I think the worse part yet is that they really think what they did was right.
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:41 am
 I'm SO frustrated right now...
and the thing is... I know friends like Danni and Essence have it worse off than me, but for once... I wish I could be the one worse of, because then I could justify it to myself. >.< I want.. I don't even know what I want anymore...
Essence, that's messed up. Seriously ******** up. It actually sounds somewhat close to what happened in my family. Without the police part.
It seems like everyone has older-sister problems... Or at least, Essence, Danni and me.
I know this sounds horrible... but given the chance I think I actually would if not kill then at least badly hurt my sister. It's not just sisterly tension... I don't think anyone could actually understand why or how much I hate her, but I do...
Right now... I wish I could cry. Or punch something. Some way to let out my frustration.
Nothing I do is ever good enough. My friends can do sort-of-okay work and get endless praise for it, while I can try my hardest, turn out something brilliant and just get 'meh, it's okay' or 'What IS it?'
I can't EVER enjoy my Saturdays anymore. Either my two best friends go out without me (which is ******** unfair, ESPECIALLY since they wouldn't even know each other if not for me), or we go out and Hannah is all bitchy and sulky and won't let me do anything I want to. We always have to do what SHE wants to do. It's not fair...
I'm having an art block, I can't write anything, it's 3.36pm on Saturday and I'm not even dressed. I can't cry, my mother won't leave me alone, I don't know what I want anymore. The only friend I have right now (since I'm not counting Pip and Hannah) is away, and everyone else lives in a different country.... I need a ******** hug.
People always LIE to me! No one ever cares, all my earphones have broken...
I know my life doesn't suck that much... But right now, I don't CARE!
People always tell me that being upset isn't my character, and they're right.
But... why is it that I'm always the one that answers questions and cheers people up... and yet when I have questions, when I need cheering up, I have to fend for myself? I've seen life burn bright, seen it shimmer
Then fade like starlight to a glimmer
I've seen life flow by, like a river
So full-of twilight, dreams that glitter
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:04 pm
*hugs* It's okay. Sometimes you hit the lowest point, and feel that way. It happens to me too. I've gotten the same lectures and everything.
But you should stand up for yourself when it comes to your friend. I hate when people do that, part of the reason my sister and I used to bump heads a lot. That and she was spoiled rotten.
I think you should let her know, and keep pointing it out even if you end up doing what she likes. It might be annoying, but at least she'll know you mean business.
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Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:51 am
I feel like I'm abusing this thread now. D: So. My cousin who's had colon cancer for over a year now, died on Saturday. He was only 27. We were supposed to go see him at the beginning of June, when my sister had her b***h fit. I don't know how to feel, so I'm trying not to feel anything. Oh yeah, don't let me forget to include the fact that she was apparently raped at the beginning of the month, and shouldn't be directly scolded by me. rolleyes I got a headache from all this tonight. Miss her, hate her, miss her, hate her. I need therapy. x___x; A little added bit just for the heck of it, my cousin doing the makossa((or whatever it is)) dance: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGTLyGmAlLo
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Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 2:11 pm
=/ Don't feel that way, Essence! You aren't abusing this thread!
I guess all I can say is that all of us are here for you, so don't feel that you're alone. Even if we can't be there for you in real life, you can talk to us.
Raped? Pfff. Your sister sounds more and more like mine every time I hear about her. I've seen life burn bright, seen it shimmer
Then fade like starlight to a glimmer
I've seen life flow by, like a river
So full-of twilight, dreams that glitter
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 1:49 pm
Xx T i g e r L a d y xX =/ Don't feel that way, Essence! You aren't abusing this thread!
I guess all I can say is that all of us are here for you, so don't feel that you're alone. Even if we can't be there for you in real life, you can talk to us.
Raped? Pfff. Your sister sounds more and more like mine every time I hear about her. I've seen life burn bright, seen it shimmer
Then fade like starlight to a glimmer
I've seen life flow by, like a river
So full-of twilight, dreams that glitter You're so sweet. *huggle* Anyway, I really am done ranting, even though some more stuff has happened since. It's just so crazy though, I think I'd fit better on Dr. Phil or Maurry. X.x
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:20 pm
gonk
-hugs every single person in the guild-»» Kae
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 7:31 am
I REALLY ******** HATE IT WHEN YOU POUR YOUR HEART OUT TO PEOPLE, AND THEY ACT LIKE YOU HAVEN'T SAID ANYTHING AT ALL.
crying
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Posted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 9:20 am
Dear everyone,
When you're talking to someone who's emotionally abused, and who has low self-esteem, and you want to have a positive impact, you have to really try to STEP LIGHTLY. Making them feel stupid and like they're doing everything wrong is NOT GOING TO HELP. It will make them run away from you. Far, far away.
When said person is in a dangerous situation, and you want to help get them out of it, making them feel stupid, and like they're doing everything wrong is NOT GOING TO HELP. It will make them run away from you. Far, far away.
When there are 14 other people yelling at them, and trying to make them listen, making them feel stupid, and like they're doing everything wrong is NOT GOING TO HELP. It will make them run away from you. Far, far away.
I just hope she comes back. gonk
Love,
Kae
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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 12:57 am
That's some hard truth there. *shudder*
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