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I agree with you with everything in your rant. ninja I can't stand tweens who look like wanna-be whores, it makes me sick.

However, it was taught in one of my college's psychology/criminology classes that how one dresses has nothing to do with them being kidnapped or raped, or anything like that. It's to do with the mind of the disturbed person and whatnot.

Rant Time!

I really hate my family right now. Enough to strangle them! Well... not that far but stilll! grrrrr.... They never respect my wishes, for instance, I don't want them to watch my rugby game but they told my brother that they're going to go anyways and think I won't notice them there! ha! I'm going to ******** burn them out. Jeez, if my games weren't important enough to come to when I was 7, don't come when I'm 16 cause I don't want you there. They never support me, just brag about my accomplishments that I worked for by myself, without their help!

And then my sister. Thinks shes so ******** wise, she's only 5 years older then me. Constantly telling me to "be a good person" and tells me how I'm going to feel in a couple years... she doesn't know how I feel now and she sure can't tell the future! Then her ex b/f who's she still friends with heard some kids on a bus talking about me, saying how smart and pretty I am (random I know) and he said "good job raising your sister" I don't even remember her when i was little or when she was a teen! She was NEVER home, always gone to friends house. Why does everyone take credit for who I am, last time I checked, I made me. I may have been influenced but by 16, you're you and no one can take credit for that as long as you do what you want.

Then my brother takes temper tantrams, punches holes in the wall, swears like a ******** sailor, it's so damn annoying. He's selfish too, he always has to come first and if things don't go his way, get out of the way.


okay, i'm done. that feels better sweatdrop

oh ******** i failed a math test too, I thought I got like an 80%, ended up being a 40%, Jesus...

I think the creepy thing is how those type of clothing are available! You can buy little kid g-strings and stuff in big name shops and other revealing clothes, for some unfathomable idea. stare

I know im still a virgin but if you want to give your virginity when your only a teen be my guest. Im also 14 and i think it's wrong to be having sex at this age. I believe in giving my virginity to the one that i know will be there the longest...like when i get married. Well thats all i have to say right now.

My parents treat me like I'm ten years old.

I'm seventeen and in my first serious non-long-distance relationship. We'll have been together four months next Thursday. Me and my partner see each other every day and my mum said I could stay out until ten. That was fine by me. I'd come home at ten, and he'd leave my house at ten. I was happy with it like that.

About a month ago, my mum played the "You're not spending enough time with me!" I said whatever and kept going as I was. I didn't want to spend time with her, I preferred being with my boyfriend. Arguments escalated and in the space of a month she was making me cry pretty much every time I came home. It didn't help that I was trying to sort out university applications at the same time.

Last weekend things got really bad. She finally saw my personal statement and assumed because I'm pro-choice that I'd had an abortion. I haven't even been pregnant. She said I wasn't sensitive like I'd put down so I yelled at her for not knowing me at all. She called my dad up for a second opinion and he said it looked mostly okay.

She said "That's what I said and she yelled at me!" Even though she did nothing of the sort. I'm always being compared to my older sister as being "worse" and my younger sister gets away with so much more than I do. I hate being the middle child.

Saturday evening I asked if I could spend the night at my boyfriend's house. She said no and when I asked why she said she didn't have to give me a reason. This made me so angry. I'm two months from my eighteenth birthday and she doesn't have to give me reasons for decisions she makes that affect ME? I went to bed at half eight and she did more accusing of me never being there or wanting to spend time with her.

The next morning after I woke up I went through to speak to her. She said more of the same and I said if you want to spend time with me so badly then why don't you organise things for us to do? She said she wasn't my entertainment manager. Then she said she didn't have time to listen to me mumble and left to walk the dog. I got dressed and went to my boyfriend's house, spent a lovely afternoon with his dad and partner, and went home in the evening.

Oddly enough my mum was civil. My boyfriend stayed until 9pm before he left to go home, and I went to talk to my parents. The discussion culminated with some new fairly ridiculous rules that make me angry whenever I think about them: "Family evenings on Sundays where we all spend time together." Fair enough, y'know? I can handle that. "You MUST be in and he MUST be out by about 9pm." Um, excuse me? I'm seventeen with a 9pm curfew even though they never have to drive me home anymore? THAT is the one that makes me angriest. And "Only allowed to sleep over at boyfriend's house/have him sleep over sometimes." I'm pretty much okay with that.

But 9pm for a 17 year old is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of.

My boyfriend is 22 but living with his parents until he finishes pilot training for the Air Force and his curfew is 11:00PM! I find that a bit weird, but I've met his parents and they just worry about him a lot.

Though it is hard for me to let him leave my house early enough to make it home on time for his curfew.

I am 17, I sort of have a curfew. I live in college dorms most of the time so none there, but at home I have to be home at 10:00 unless I give my parents a reasonable explanation as to why I'll be home later, and even then no later than midnight.

Parents just like giving curfews because it reminds them that you are still their child even if you are growing up.

He wants to be able to spend the night with me. We aren't sexually active, but really enjoy snuggling next to each other to sleep. He doesn't mind that much about the curfew except that he can't spend the night with me.

Meh Rant:

Ok so first my mommy left for Rohde Island today. Not a big thing, but I'm a little sad. Miss her. Then in math I realized I forgot my homework at home so I had to redo it in class and HAND IT IN TO BE GRADED! English and Social studies were fine, they always are.

Then in science I was drawing, the teacher cought me and told me to throw the paper away! It was a drawing I had been working on for TWO DAYS! And then I threw it away, not crumpled, so I could get it out after class. And there was another paper under is (then ontop of it because I threw it away upside down...) Two REALLY ANNOYING PEOPLE purposely faked sneezes and got multiple tissues, throwing them on top of the paper that wasn't the main drawing. After class I carefully got, without touching the other paper, the drawing. Everybody said I was gross, then in literature, next class my crush said I was Gross. So did other people.

The rest of the school day was long, and I had a headache, was exhausted, and my ankle hurt the enitre day. After school I had to babysit this kid for an hour. He's autistic and today was one of those days where things got out of hand a bit. And he's not that much autistic. So I ran around for an hour after a hyper kid with a headache and a sor ankle.

Then on the way home, I just saw my crush kissing his girlfriend. Teh end.