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Have you come out?
Ya, as soon as I knew
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Ya, but it took a while
41%
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No, I'm not sure about my sexuality
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No, it's hard
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I'm straight, thanks
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Vanessa1985

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 9:43 am


Most took it pretty well when I admitted I was bi. Some were surprised, some weren't. I probably shouldn't have told my sister while we were at my brother's wedding, but whatever.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 25, 2004 8:49 am


well i'm not totally sure about my sexuality. i don't even know to figure it out. sweatdrop and well i've had a few boyfrineds here and there. anyway besdies if i EVER told any of my family they'll freak and send me away or something. *sigh*

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 7:30 pm


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I pretty much always knew my sexuality and tried to actually push it away (I'm bi.) A few things still stick in my mind whenI learned to accept it and I came out to friends and family about 2 years ago. The only person I haven't come out to is my older sister who's 20:

Telling good girl friends on a walk:
Me - I'm bi
friend 1 - Really? Haha, right.
Friend 2 - Who's hotter: Christina Aguilera or Britney Spears?

Mom and dad (while in car fighting):
Me - Blah blah I'm bi! So there! Blah blah
Mom - Why can't you just be normal?

After telling guy friend that is gay:
Malachy - I kinda find the concept of bi people selfish. Can't you just like one sex and not feel the need to like both?
Me - I can't help how I'm born. Just because I like both sexes doesn't mean I'm a sex maniac!! I though you of all people would know considering you did say you like girls just a little.
Malachy - Ya, guess you're right.

After telling brother, he talked to my sister (one I haven't told) and she told me later about this. Of course, she though it was a joke:
Ben (bro) - Haha, remember when Krysta said she's bi? That's not true right? She's just joking.
Kaylyn (sister) - You're so friggin gullible!

Mom and me in kitchen, somehow me being bi came up:
Mom - you don't still think you're bi, do you?
Me - Uh, ya! You don't just change your mind!
Mom - But you can't be because you're with Justin (my bf of almost 2 years)
Me - What? (apparently she thinks I have to have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time or something? whee )

Ya, so those are the moments. Share yours since I haven't seen much talk on sexuality, and this is a place where we can freely talk about it.

wow.. nice... i just found out i was bi recently... dont think ill tell till way later... dont have any idea how ppl will react..
PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 7:47 pm


I had a secret girlfriend for a while and my mom knew she was lesbian then later assumed we were together. That didn't go over too well. She refused to let me se her ever again.. then my grandma found out which was even worse. She threatened my girlfriend at the time (who is now my evil ex) and called her an evil sick b*tch. It was terrible. Then i met this other chic April who I've been with for almost a year now. My mom allows me to go out with her.. which is good. Both my mom and grandma hate the fact that I'm bi but I think they've finally realized they can't control what I like and don't like.

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JoeyTheCheeseSlicer

PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 9:41 pm


i think im bi
PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 10:07 pm


My best-friend (a girl) was the first person I told I was bi. She...umm...stopped talking to me for about a day. She is the type that NEEDS to talk to people, so the silence was getting to her by the 13th hour.

Gareth Cantide


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 10:10 pm


oh i know is that im a bi
PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2005 8:37 am


A parental figure(if this person could be considered one lol), thought that I was crazy and it maybe a phase for me to be Bi. I also found that it apparently runs in the family haha.

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swedish_sara

PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2005 8:50 am


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:58 am


I had already come out to a few of my friends over the summer, and a few weeks ago I came out to some more of them.They took it rather well actually.

The next person I told was my ex-friend Lauren who has a lesbian sister

Me:Lauren, I got something to tell you
Lauren: What?
Me: I'm bi
Lauren: Ok.Thats cool

The next person I told was Laurens lesbian sister Caity

Me: Caity I'm bi
Caity: Awesome! *puts arm around me* Welcome to the club!
Me: *push her arm away* Theres a club?
Caity: Nevermind

Then I told my friend Malek, who I have a huge crush on. I told him in the middle of a duel monster card game.

Me: *plays magic card* You loose 200 LP and I have something to tell you
Malek: Damn! Ok, shoot.
Me: *plays monster* attack your facedown card! I'm bi
Malek: I hate you! *throws hand on floor.* Thats cool.I dont mind
Me: I win!

Then I told my friend Quetta. That was a day to remember.

Quetta: Hey girl. How you been?
Me: Pretty good, but I have something to tell you
Quetta: What? You finally got a boyfriend?
Me: No. I'm bi
Quetta: Oh for real? Brian is too! *points to my friend Brian*
Brian: *eyes widen and he scurries off*
Me: That was unexpected
Quetta: My friend is bi! Yay!
Me: SHH!!! I dont want to deal with homophobes this early in the year!
Quetta: *covers mouth* oops

I told my friend Gavin in ROTC and he was a little too happy bout it.

Me: I'm bi
Gavin: I suspected that, and taht was kind of random
Me: *shrugs* I know. What do you mean you suspected it?
Gavin: I dunno I just did.
Me: Ok?
Gavin: Dude, if you werent my friend that would be so ******** hot
Me: Perv
Gavin: proud

Then I told my friend Daniel.

Me: *grabs piece of paper, and writes 'Im bi* Here Daniel.
Daniel: Whats this? *reads paper*
Me: Well?
Daniel: Ok. *crumbles up paper, throws it away* Gavin told me
Me: *glares at Gavin* Oh...
Gavin: *nervous smile* he he he...oops...
Me: Yeah...oops
Daniel: blaugh

Zaxmit


Evamortte

PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 5:41 pm


i kinda randomly told my friends
they didnt believe me gonk
actualy, they still dont believe me sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2005 1:55 am


sweatdrop hehe...i kinda only told my brother, one of my older sisters, and my mother............my brother still looked at me the same way, my older sister was all to curious and asking "how to" questions, and my mother is still dissaproving, so i tell her nothing more about it.......as for the rest of my family.........they would most likely disown me, knowing what they did to my uncles too.......hmmm crying
....... biggrin But everything's groovy with my security about it heart

Amaya Sinritsu


The_Original_Gold_Autumn

PostPosted: Wed Jan 26, 2005 10:59 pm


I told my friends when i knew and they were all ok with it (except for the christian ones who didnt want to be my friend afterwards) And when i told my mum she just said "Yeah right, whatever", she wouldn't believe me until i introduced her to my girlfriend, shes still not ok with it (shes a christian). My dad on the other hand is completely fine with it (he isn't a christian).
PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 11:29 pm


I am Bi and i only just told my really close friend today. She laughed and said "I knew it!"

I've been Bi for about 6 months now and i'm proud! I've only told one other person because she is Bi to and had just been dumped. So only to people know! I'm not going to tell my mother shes convinced i'm a lesbian tho! Don't ask I dont know???

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 11:19 am


Onre of my friends flipped out the first time i told her. I just wanted to tell her because she was my best friend... i told her and she thought i was joking until i made her understand that I wasn't joking... she didn't talk to me for a month.... and usually we'd spend every weekend at each others houses.
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