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 Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:54 am
You guys asked for it.
So, I have a friend. Or possibly had one. He used to be a cool guy, really nice. But then, for some reason, he began to change - he began to start fighting with some of my other friends for seemingly no reason whatsoever. I offered to mediate, but since I didn't have any authority at the time, I couldn't do much.
Anyway. So, a couple of days ago, I'm reading the friendslist for one of my journals, and I read an entry from this guy. In it, he takes a huge steaming s**t on one of his oldest friends and one of my own friends. To add insult to injury, a lot of my other friends are like, "well, yeah, she's a useless b***h anyway! ******** her, you're awesome!"
And it kind of felt like I'd witnessed my own murder I was the victim of a serious crime I'd been kicked in the stomach. Not only because of that on its own, but because a couple of weeks ago, he s**t all over my boyfriend and a couple of my other friends right where they could see it, and just dismissed it as "a bad day."
I mean, yeah, I've had bad days myself, and I've been really snappish. But I was just totally hurt by that myself. Maybe I'm getting a bit overly sensitive in my old age, but that's just my opinion.
Maybe it's because this kind of hits home for me - one of my own friends dumped me for someone who was "better" (she also used to be my friend until she turned back into a conniving b***h) and pretty much spent two months doing nothing but talking about how awesome this other friend was like no one else existed. But it's like...I know I should probably stay out of it, but it freaking kills me to see this happening.
And if push comes to shove, I'm afraid that I'll have to just...cut him out of my life, like he never existed. I genuinely liked him, but it seems that all he does now is just treat people I respect like s**t.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:54 am
Must stay out of the A/M/C
Must stay out of the A/M/C
Must stay out of the A/M/C
Must stay out of the A/M/C
Must stay out of the A/M/C
I think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:58 am
LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk ... I don't know what is wrong with you guys. Where is your internet desensitization? talk2hand The crappy posts, either my mind skips over them or I see them, check them out, and have a laugh -- and they there are still a few good threads a day to make up for the others.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:01 am
Phoenix Goliathane You guys asked for it. So, I have a friend. Or possibly had one. He used to be a cool guy, really nice. But then, for some reason, he began to change - he began to start fighting with some of my other friends for seemingly no reason whatsoever. I offered to mediate, but since I didn't have any authority at the time, I couldn't do much. Anyway. So, a couple of days ago, I'm reading the friendslist for one of my journals, and I read an entry from this guy. In it, he takes a huge steaming s**t on one of his oldest friends and one of my own friends. To add insult to injury, a lot of my other friends are like, "well, yeah, she's a useless b***h anyway! ******** her, you're awesome!" And it kind of felt like I'd witnessed my own murder I was the victim of a serious crime I'd been kicked in the stomach. Not only because of that on its own, but because a couple of weeks ago, he s**t all over my boyfriend and a couple of my other friends right where they could see it, and just dismissed it as "a bad day." I mean, yeah, I've had bad days myself, and I've been really snappish. But I was just totally hurt by that myself. Maybe I'm getting a bit overly sensitive in my old age, but that's just my opinion. Maybe it's because this kind of hits home for me - one of my own friends dumped me for someone who was "better" (she also used to be my friend until she turned back into a conniving b***h) and pretty much spent two months doing nothing but talking about how awesome this other friend was like no one else existed. But it's like...I know I should probably stay out of it, but it freaking kills me to see this happening. And if push comes to shove, I'm afraid that I'll have to just...cut him out of my life, like he never existed. I genuinely liked him, but it seems that all he does now is just treat people I respect like s**t. *hugs* Sadly, sometimes people change over time. Have you actually talked to this guy about the way he's acting? Sometimes people don't realize they've been acting like assholes until you tell them. And if he doesn't seem to care...then cut him loose. Real friends don't treat each other with disrespect. I know you have great memories of a really wonderful person, but if he doesn't see that he's treating people like crap, or if he does see and he doesn't care, then there's not much you can do. If you have a bad day and you snap at someone without reason, you usually apologize, right? There's a difference between having a bad day and being a d**k. Just my $.02
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:03 am
Skizzors LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk ... I don't know what is wrong with you guys. Where is your internet desensitization? talk2hand The crappy posts, either my mind skips over them or I see them, check them out, and have a laugh -- and they there are still a few good threads a day to make up for the others. It's probably because I haven't frequented the AMC in a while, and the past few days I've been poking my nose in... rofl Just seeing what the fandom is turning into on Gaia makes me sad. While there are a few good threads out there, sometimes I don't feel like wading through the crap to find the gold.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:22 am
LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk Yaoi - Who's that? rofl
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:27 am
Kinetic Dream LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk Yaoi - Who's that? rofl The fact that it dissolved into a bunch of Naruto slash pics killed me... rofl
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:28 am
LunaInverse Kinetic Dream LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk Yaoi - Who's that? rofl The fact that it dissolved into a bunch of Naruto slash pics killed me... rofl teeeentacles
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:50 am
teh CB Grah, research paper due tomorrow scream Soon I will be able to hang out in guild for prolonged periods of time crying
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:55 am
IT IS SNOWING. TODAY, I SEE BEOWULF.
(events not actually related)
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:55 am
LunaInverse *hugs* Sadly, sometimes people change over time. Have you actually talked to this guy about the way he's acting? Sometimes people don't realize they've been acting like assholes until you tell them. I haven't said it directly, because it's far too confrontational to say, "You know, you're a d**k." But I have been like, "You know, that's not cool." Quote: And if he doesn't seem to care...then cut him loose. Real friends don't treat each other with disrespect. I know you have great memories of a really wonderful person, but if he doesn't see that he's treating people like crap, or if he does see and he doesn't care, then there's not much you can do. He does see, I think. But I'm not sure whether he cares - like, insulting your friends to their faces? Yeah. Quote: If you have a bad day and you snap at someone without reason, you usually apologize, right? There's a difference between having a bad day and being a d**k. Just my $.02 He does apologize. I'm just not sure whether I should bother believing him anymore.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:01 am
Phoenix Goliathane You guys asked for it. So, I have a friend. Or possibly had one. He used to be a cool guy, really nice. But then, for some reason, he began to change - he began to start fighting with some of my other friends for seemingly no reason whatsoever. I offered to mediate, but since I didn't have any authority at the time, I couldn't do much. Anyway. So, a couple of days ago, I'm reading the friendslist for one of my journals, and I read an entry from this guy. In it, he takes a huge steaming s**t on one of his oldest friends and one of my own friends. To add insult to injury, a lot of my other friends are like, "well, yeah, she's a useless b***h anyway! ******** her, you're awesome!" And it kind of felt like I'd witnessed my own murder I was the victim of a serious crime I'd been kicked in the stomach. Not only because of that on its own, but because a couple of weeks ago, he s**t all over my boyfriend and a couple of my other friends right where they could see it, and just dismissed it as "a bad day." I mean, yeah, I've had bad days myself, and I've been really snappish. But I was just totally hurt by that myself. Maybe I'm getting a bit overly sensitive in my old age, but that's just my opinion. Maybe it's because this kind of hits home for me - one of my own friends dumped me for someone who was "better" (she also used to be my friend until she turned back into a conniving b***h) and pretty much spent two months doing nothing but talking about how awesome this other friend was like no one else existed. But it's like...I know I should probably stay out of it, but it freaking kills me to see this happening. And if push comes to shove, I'm afraid that I'll have to just...cut him out of my life, like he never existed. I genuinely liked him, but it seems that all he does now is just treat people I respect like s**t.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:03 am
Skizzors LunaInverse Kinetic Dream LunaInverse Must stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CMust stay out of the A/M/CI think I lost several IQ points just glancing at threads... gonk Yaoi - Who's that? rofl The fact that it dissolved into a bunch of Naruto slash pics killed me... rofl teeeentacles
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:07 am
LunaInverse Phoenix Goliathane You guys asked for it. So, I have a friend. Or possibly had one. He used to be a cool guy, really nice. But then, for some reason, he began to change - he began to start fighting with some of my other friends for seemingly no reason whatsoever. I offered to mediate, but since I didn't have any authority at the time, I couldn't do much. Anyway. So, a couple of days ago, I'm reading the friendslist for one of my journals, and I read an entry from this guy. In it, he takes a huge steaming s**t on one of his oldest friends and one of my own friends. To add insult to injury, a lot of my other friends are like, "well, yeah, she's a useless b***h anyway! ******** her, you're awesome!" And it kind of felt like I'd witnessed my own murder I was the victim of a serious crime I'd been kicked in the stomach. Not only because of that on its own, but because a couple of weeks ago, he s**t all over my boyfriend and a couple of my other friends right where they could see it, and just dismissed it as "a bad day." I mean, yeah, I've had bad days myself, and I've been really snappish. But I was just totally hurt by that myself. Maybe I'm getting a bit overly sensitive in my old age, but that's just my opinion. Maybe it's because this kind of hits home for me - one of my own friends dumped me for someone who was "better" (she also used to be my friend until she turned back into a conniving b***h) and pretty much spent two months doing nothing but talking about how awesome this other friend was like no one else existed. But it's like...I know I should probably stay out of it, but it freaking kills me to see this happening. And if push comes to shove, I'm afraid that I'll have to just...cut him out of my life, like he never existed. I genuinely liked him, but it seems that all he does now is just treat people I respect like s**t. *hugs* Sadly, sometimes people change over time. Have you actually talked to this guy about the way he's acting? Sometimes people don't realize they've been acting like assholes until you tell them. And if he doesn't seem to care...then cut him loose. Real friends don't treat each other with disrespect. I know you have great memories of a really wonderful person, but if he doesn't see that he's treating people like crap, or if he does see and he doesn't care, then there's not much you can do. If you have a bad day and you snap at someone without reason, you usually apologize, right? There's a difference between having a bad day and being a d**k. Just my $.02
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:01 am
So..I'm heading out for now. I might be able to get online before work tomorrow being I work at 5:30pm. But that depends on if my mom decides to give me a ride to work or not. Oh, and my room is pretty much done when it comes to paint. It's a matter of clearing it out and getting my stuff up there now. BYE! heart
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