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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:40 pm
I've been lonely for 13 years. I think I deserve someone by now. XD
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:46 pm
I fell in love only to have her leave me and now I have to see her with a boyfriend 4 years older than her that doesn't respect her. I loved her he wants her to make him seem cooler. He's a p***y who is afraid to do anything more than peck her on the lips, he just wants her to raise his stats on the social ladder. He's using her, I love her, and yet she's still with him. I'd rather be in a life with out ever meeting her than this hell.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:03 pm
Oh did I mention I'm still in love with her? Yeah..Get out there and actively try to find someone and you might get someone. -sigh- She left me for an ugly short guy too...thats a big ouch....and aparently no other girl that I find atractive wants me so I'm SOL.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:16 pm
Join the club--my friend Kai's club anyway. Poor girl.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:18 pm
Meh I'm in my own club of 1....seems more fitting..
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:19 pm
Your how old? If you want someone or something so badly you've got to fight for it. Now i'm not saying go out and throw some punches. blah blah blah.
If you really love her why not show her that this guy she's with isn't good for her and that she deserves better, and that your that something better. Go about it in the right way of course..
and it may or may not work, but at least you tried right?
You guys have a long way ahead of you, embrace your youth and keep it as long as you can, because once it's gone it's never coming back
I waited 18 years to find someone who could look past my appearance, to see who i really was and i found that person. I love him more than anything in this world. Sometimes it's really really hard, because of the distance between us. But i don't give up , and i'm not going to, ever. If i gave up, i'd regret it for the rest of my life.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:22 pm
......says the crippleingly shy girl.... And I am fighting, it's so hard to make her like me with out seeming like just some jelous fool. I've talked to her boyfriends good friends, they told me what he says when she's not around, but if I told her I might seem like a sabatour that doesn't like to see her happy...it's complicaited and I have some of our closeest friends helping. I hope it's enough...
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:39 pm
stare I may be shy, but i'm not stupid.
You can't make anyone like you. That's not how it works. Start by being her friend first and foremost. If she needs someone to talk to, be the person she can turn to , be the person that listens to everything she says and don't just listen, hear what she says. Be the person who knows when to give advice and when to be silent. Show her that you care about her. Don't force her to do anything, because then she'll only hate you.
I'm not saying any of this would be easy, cause it's not going to be.
If it helps make a list of all the reasons you love her; and if the only reason you love her is that she's pretty or looks good etc. I'll find some way to hit you offside the head. Because if that's the only reason then your not really seeing her.
and i know i don't know a whole lot about relationships or what to do in sittuations like this and what not, i'm only trying to help. If it were me in a similar sittuation.. this is probably what i'd do..
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:42 pm
*cheers for Kahara* You tell him girl!
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:47 pm
* Was able to get together with Kahara because I actually listened and helped her with her problems*
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:52 pm
Aww, Kahara got herself a nice boyfriend *pinches Vamp's cheek*
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 2:13 pm
3nodding yes.. i did .. ^_^
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 2:27 pm
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:19 pm
-rolls through- Are ya'll really together?
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:24 pm
Jes we are. A few more days and it will be our 1st annervesry
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