|
|
| Have you come out? |
| Ya, as soon as I knew |
|
13% |
[ 46 ] |
| Ya, but it took a while |
|
41% |
[ 141 ] |
| No, I'm not sure about my sexuality |
|
17% |
[ 58 ] |
| No, it's hard |
|
21% |
[ 74 ] |
| I'm straight, thanks |
|
5% |
[ 20 ] |
|
| Total Votes : 339 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2004 12:19 pm
To my mom: She was just glad I still like guys as well as girls. She thinks I'll eventually just marry a guy, seeing as how this is all a 'phase'.
My high school friends: Flirted with the girls until they got the point, then they were all pretty ok with it.
My college friends....don't know. I'm too afraid to tell them, mostly because they are all Christians, not homophobes but think the idea of gay people is 'icky', most are straightlaced...I don't know. I don't think I can come out to them, at least not yet.
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2004 12:53 am
Ok so I think I knew a long time before I realized it. Like at night when a good little girl would dreams of a night in shining armour ( I did that to) I would sometimes dream of a really hot chick in barley nothing *goes off to dream land* And when I walked down the hall in school I would be cheeking out the girls not the guys. It only took my 5 years looking at girls buts not boys.... man I'm slow....and almost a lez *evil thoughts*. It started to get to me when all my friend were saying how cute the boys were ....and I felt nothing well there was one guy but ya.
When talking to my friend who is gay: xd xp
Me: haw do you know your gay (I was a little unsher at this point)
Him: ........... (I think he thought I was asking how he knew he was gay...)
Me: Well I think I am ....well I like girls...(falling off my seat)
Him: thought so. cool
Me: how did you know?! (fell off my seat) eek
Him: ......... neutral
There are some ether's that have guessed but not had the guts to ask me.
Well one friend did but I was not sher and panicked at the time. But I have no clue haw to come out to some of my friend... some I'm not cuz I know what they think. My parents will find out when I'm married. And the whole guild knows.
Sexuality: BI.... leaning more to lez... (Sometimes I think its just more work) sweatdrop
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2004 2:12 am
txen, you are not slow, if you are slow I am super super slow. sweatdrop It took me I think 17years for me to recongize and accept my sexuality (Les). I have been very busy in my life never thought of these things. Even the time when I have a crush with my girlfriend. I thought it is some growing up stuff, plus pressure from society and the way I brought up, I have totally ignored it. stressed
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2004 8:49 pm
I haven't told my family, but I think they have it figured out (it's pretty obvious). The subject never comes up, and I think that's comfortable for them. Denial and everything smile
I did tell me friends, however. Reactions varied between:
"Yeah...and?"
"I don't care."
"Yeah? So am I."
"Wow, that came out of left field. But anyway, like I was saying..."
My friends are pretty danged cool. smile
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2004 4:47 pm
Anyachan I haven't told my family, but I think they have it figured out (it's pretty obvious). The subject never comes up, and I think that's comfortable for them. Denial and everything smile I did tell me friends, however. Reactions varied between: "Yeah...and?" "I don't care." "Yeah? So am I." "Wow, that came out of left field. But anyway, like I was saying..." My friends are pretty danged cool. smile thats right, I would love all my friends to be like that, my god those are some good friends
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2004 11:45 pm
When I told my mom I am bi, she just said, " I already knew that, did it that you this long to figure it out?" I was kinda confused. sweatdrop
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 3:57 am
Mr.Smooth When I told my mom I am bi, she just said, " I already knew that, did it that you this long to figure it out?" I was kinda confused. sweatdrop Your mom is so cool. smile
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 7:37 am
Hmm when i told one of the people in my History class i was bi, a whole lot of people started asking me about it. Of course, I told my best friend, whom at the time I had a crush on. It's funny sorta, my sister and her girlfriend knew that I liked her before she did. xd She saw no problem with it, but she doesn't like me so..... yeah, lucky me. The only real gifts I have in my life are my mom and sisters, who are so very supportive of the female half of our family.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 10:26 am
When I told my mom I thought I might be bi, she laughed at me. stare
When I told my friend Tyrel, he was like "Good for you! I'm proud of you for being honest about it!'
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 2:50 pm
Coming out wasn't too much trauma for me... ^^; When I came out to my friends at work, they went like "That's nice, honey. In fact Charlie here has been guessing you were bi all along. blaugh "
With my pet sis and bro, they were like, "Yup, knew it all along... Kan our reliable gaydar told us you were" stare darned gaydar... spoiled the surprise again...
Only my close friends from secondary were like, "I didn't expect it"
But I'm sooo not going to tell my family right now... How can you when they're complete homophobes?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 3:08 pm
When I came out, I was accepted by all of my friends. Wanna know why? ... Almost all of my friends were Bi. o_o; Wee. I just recently came out to my mom, and she was like.. 'yeah..' and like playfully. 'Go to your room!' xD She was just playing, and nothings been said since. She didn't really care. -Shrugs.- Who should? It's just love. ^_^;
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 10:43 pm
Eh... when your bi it isn't as big of a thing, the folks take the policy:
"Well now if that is who you are take into account the fact that your life will be more difficult if you find someone of the same sex. So since you have the choice find someone nice of the same sex settle down and make babies like the rest of us."
Or they just don't believe you, since the fact that your "bisexual" means you aren't actually serious and that its some lame act of rebellion. So it's especially satisfying to see the look on those parent's faces when they see the day that little Jonny or Jane bring home a little Edward or Elizabeth => (( stressed scream ))
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2004 6:33 am
my parents hated me before and hate me now,
no big difference, my dad did break my tv though when I told him, hahahah
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 1:28 am
xXxTemptressxXx (first friend to know and is also bi) - What is it?
me- I think I am Bi
Her - What? You should tell Kevin (he knows now but he at that time was peaking over the fence listening in but we spotted him before he heared anything and we sent him back to the trailer)
Me- I don't know yet..for sure... I mean like I don't want anyone to know.
Her- I get the feeling you are copying me...
Me- No I swear I am not
Her- Ok...
Me- I guess I should probably tell you I am bi
Kevin (4 weeks later after a long talk about male bi's and weather or not it affected thier friendship)-mmm... thats nice...
I still haven't told many else (icluding my parents because I swear they would disown me)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 9:39 am
Mine is wierd everyone know but my grandparents.
It was fun commng out though.
I was on my bay cruiz dance talking to my friend hez. I told her she said cool want to dance?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
![[_Basmakesmegasm_]'s avatar](https://a1cdn.gaiaonline.com/dress-up/avatar/ava/99/36/66d4d55b133699_flip.png?t=1353867736_6.00_00)
