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Sesshoru

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 8:45 pm


loginbin3000
loginbin3000
What would happen... if i commited suicide...?

*Being serious*
I can tell you that you would be missed. I'm sure most of us have been through the suicidal stage, and I don't know about most people, but I can tell you that it isn't worth it.

What's the point in giving up life, when you've been so lucky to receive it? Bad things only affect you if you let them. I suffer from depression on my dads side, but honestly, I can almost gaurantee you that ever since I've taken up a new leaf, for the longest time I've been happier than almost any other person out there in the world.

What reasons do you have for comitting suicide? And once you've figured that out, what reasons do you have for living? Almost all bad things in life are temporary, but something like, say, finding love, will last a hell of a lot longer than say, some school bully that makes you want to kill yourself.

Well, that's all that I've got to say on the subject. Hope this helped.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 9:21 pm


i have chronic depression... (i think its called that) Its apparantly wher your body uses more negative than positive moods?! i can't exactly explain it.

existentialGuy
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Sesshoru

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 9:28 pm


Bah, I don't know the technical mumbo jumbo, but I know what you're talking about. I have it too. Did anything I say get through to you?
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 9:33 pm


Sesshoru
Bah, I don't know the technical mumbo jumbo, but I know what you're talking about. I have it too. Did anything I say get through to you?

Yeah. smile

existentialGuy
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Sesshoru

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 9:38 pm


loginbin3000
Sesshoru
Bah, I don't know the technical mumbo jumbo, but I know what you're talking about. I have it too. Did anything I say get through to you?

Yeah. smile
*licks you* I'm glad. I've had to deal with depression, and with other peoples depression. I've gotten pretty good at the prep talk. wink
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 9:39 pm


Sesshoru
loginbin3000
Sesshoru
Bah, I don't know the technical mumbo jumbo, but I know what you're talking about. I have it too. Did anything I say get through to you?

Yeah. smile
*licks you* I'm glad. I've had to deal with depression, and with other peoples depression. I've gotten pretty good at the prep talk. wink

lol
:p

existentialGuy
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caitsalad

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 8:43 am


Sesshoru
loginbin3000
loginbin3000
What would happen... if i commited suicide...?



Well, I can tell you, i had a friend of mine commit suicide about 5 months ago...When i woke up finding that he hung himself, I started cutting again. I didn't understand why i had to go through that. Actually, ALOT of my friends began to cut as soon as they found out about eddie. Because of a choice Eddie made, i began putting myself through pain, and even tried to kill myself multiple times since then. Its not worth the pain others go through.

And if you ever need to vent or anything like that, then just PM me because i'm DEFFINALTLY here to give advice. First hand i know what its like to be seconds from death and praying that you'll survive...Everytime i've attempted, right before i could have feasably died, i regreted it, and luckily I was able to stop myself...I hope i helped a little... sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 8:58 am


kiarri
Sesshoru
loginbin3000
loginbin3000
What would happen... if i commited suicide...?



Well, I can tell you, i had a friend of mine commit suicide about 5 months ago...When i woke up finding that he hung himself, I started cutting again. I didn't understand why i had to go through that. Actually, ALOT of my friends began to cut as soon as they found out about eddie. Because of a choice Eddie made, i began putting myself through pain, and even tried to kill myself multiple times since then. Its not worth the pain others go through.

And if you ever need to vent or anything like that, then just PM me because i'm DEFFINALTLY here to give advice. First hand i know what its like to be seconds from death and praying that you'll survive...Everytime i've attempted, right before i could have feasably died, i regreted it, and luckily I was able to stop myself...I hope i helped a little... sweatdrop

Ive been going through this bad stage longer than i anticipated to find out i have chronic depression

existentialGuy
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Dark Pentacle

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 10:40 am


Sesshoru
loginbin3000
loginbin3000
What would happen... if i commited suicide...?

*Being serious*
I can tell you that you would be missed. I'm sure most of us have been through the suicidal stage, and I don't know about most people, but I can tell you that it isn't worth it.

What's the point in giving up life, when you've been so lucky to receive it? Bad things only affect you if you let them. I suffer from depression on my dads side, but honestly, I can almost gaurantee you that ever since I've taken up a new leaf, for the longest time I've been happier than almost any other person out there in the world.

What reasons do you have for comitting suicide? And once you've figured that out, what reasons do you have for living? Almost all bad things in life are temporary, but something like, say, finding love, will last a hell of a lot longer than say, some school bully that makes you want to kill yourself.

Well, that's all that I've got to say on the subject. Hope this helped.
not me i'm still in the thinking stage the only thing holding me here believe it or not is a girl not a guy
PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 10:42 am


go to www.suicide.com
the site name dosnt do it justice its helped me so far...

existentialGuy
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cloakedinshadows

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 4:51 pm


Eh, ever since I told one of my friends in my new school that I was bi she has been on my case about telling my mother. I know she means well but I really don't know a) how to tell her, or b) if it would be best to wait until later to tell her. I was just wondering if I should tell my mother, or if it really matters when I tell her.....sorry this sounds stupid now that I typed it out....
PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 4:18 am


cloakedinshadows
Eh, ever since I told one of my friends in my new school that I was bi she has been on my case about telling my mother. I know she means well but I really don't know a) how to tell her, or b) if it would be best to wait until later to tell her. I was just wondering if I should tell my mother, or if it really matters when I tell her.....sorry this sounds stupid now that I typed it out....

You should only tell her once you feel confortable about it.

existentialGuy
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Domira Koreyne

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 7:15 am


cloakedinshadows
Eh, ever since I told one of my friends in my new school that I was bi she has been on my case about telling my mother. I know she means well but I really don't know a) how to tell her, or b) if it would be best to wait until later to tell her. I was just wondering if I should tell my mother, or if it really matters when I tell her.....sorry this sounds stupid now that I typed it out....

does not sound stupid. having the same problem myself. I'm just going to wait until it seems comfy to tell her, like login said.it's worked before...i hope something works for you 3nodding
PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 11:05 am


Domira Koreyne
cloakedinshadows
Eh, ever since I told one of my friends in my new school that I was bi she has been on my case about telling my mother. I know she means well but I really don't know a) how to tell her, or b) if it would be best to wait until later to tell her. I was just wondering if I should tell my mother, or if it really matters when I tell her.....sorry this sounds stupid now that I typed it out....

does not sound stupid. having the same problem myself. I'm just going to wait until it seems comfy to tell her, like login said.it's worked before...i hope something works for you 3nodding

biggrin 3nodding smile

existentialGuy
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Newra

PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 1:07 pm


suicide solves nothing. ur soul will not be freed from the pain that drove you to it. it will be increased. your soul will be submitted to the pain that your death caused to others. it's pointless... or that is what i belive... my girlfriend was cutting herself... before we got together... and it was because she thought i would run a mile if she told me that she loved me... she thought id hate her... but i wouldn't let her go before she told me what was going on... why she was doing what she was doing.... and when she told me... she got a shock... i didn't run a mile... i told her the one thing she hadn't prepared an answer for... that i loved her back..... for i while, the cutting stopped.... but then it started again... and everytime i found out... she saw and felt my pain... i said something very harsh... but it portrayed the hurt that i felt...."every time you do this, you may as well redirect what ever it is that you are using or doing and point it at me, because everytime you do this, another part of me dies."... its sounds like i started because of this... but it was more of a mental thing.... this is where my belief of your soul neve being freed from pain because of suicide. she was forced to feel my pain through my tears and words... her cutting herself didn't bring her release... it just made it worse.
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