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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:37 pm
Well, it IS personal...I don't know if I really should hear it(considering the circumstances). If you want to talk though I'll hear you out.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:40 pm
Not really personal, just my feelings for her faded. It's hard to have a relationship over long distance. That's why most of them fall apart. When we talked, it felt like just two friends talking. When I said I love you, I couldn't feel anything about it that was true. I didn't want to be in a relationship where only one person loves. neutral
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:42 pm
Were you both okay with breaking up though? Maybe your gf wants to stay with you.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:47 pm
She does, but I don't want to hurt her. I can't bare that pain. I'm not that kind of guy.
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:51 pm
The way I see it, is that you're making a mistake. She wants to stay with you. You're both faithful to each other(I'm assuming). Once you get back together you'll love each other more.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:56 pm
It's more then just that, there are more factors. That are a little personal.
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:00 pm
Okay. Then I guess all I can say is make sure you remember all the good times you had with her before you decide to end your relationship. As your friend, I'll support you. Just make sure you know what you're doing okay?
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:02 pm
Alright thank you Ukyo, we are going to talk tonight.
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:03 pm
Don't make any decisions when you're angry/upset alright? It blinds your judgement and you might regret it.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:08 pm
I'm totally fine, and I thought about everything I should of before saying anything. Trust me.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:18 pm
I disagree ucchan some of the important discisions are the ones you make when your upset
I broke up with kristian a few months after noni passed away because when that happened the last thing I wanted was to feel alone and thats how he made me feel
He was like i adore you but I cant talk to you right now.... Youre special but I only want to talk of myself and us
it was the worst
So now im happily single mrgreen
Dont let this influence you tall XD im crazy
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:19 pm
lol thanks puppet, but im fine no worries. mrgreen
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:22 pm
When you're upset it usually clouds your judgement and you might end up saying things you would wish you never said, but by then it's too late. *shrugs* Each person is different but I know I usually try to keep a level head during arguments. Of course that is meaningless when everyone else explodes at you...
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:24 pm
Yeah I know, who knows maybe tomorrow I'll break down saying how I'm going to kill myself. No one knows what the future holds. mrgreen
Edit: Anyways goodnight everyone
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UkyoKuonji2004 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:27 pm
I'm the only one allowed to have those thoughts xp
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