ThePenguinKingx
@Auggie
Yes, that's a good way to put it. Giving a little push in that direction, knowing how all parties will react to that little push, and it ending in a break up in about 2 months. Is it bad for me to do that?
Being a girl that was recently dumped by someone she loved, this is where I step in.
Yes. That is absolutely cruel to both you and her. If you don’t care about her enough to stay with her, end it now. If you drag it out, you will only hurt her more. And trust me when I say that she WILL ask how long you’ve been thinking of it. Then it will go one of two ways:
1. She will cry and rage at you for dragging it out so long and then she will fall into an utter depression that will last for weeks, or 2. she will find out that you lied, and key your car.
You’ll only be wasting your life and hurting her if you drag it out any longer. And a clean break will be necessary. No one ever stays friends after a breakup. When she asks to stay friends, tell her no. Make it clean, and quick. Like a Band-aid. Yeah, it hurts, but you have to do it sometime, and if you do it as soon as possible, and make it quick, it will be painful, yes, but it will give you and her more time to grow and to heal.
Trust me.
I cry myself to sleep almost every night because my last boyfriend did the opposite in every way to me.
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