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I don't know if it counts as a rhyme because the syllables are off. The last words at the end of the sentances rhyme but I mean the rhymes don't match up.

Alright, know what I absolutely cannot stand?

"At least my boyfriend's prochoice."
"Well, then there should be no problem if you get pregnant."
"I wouldn't want an abortion!"
"Well, then he'll respect your choice, right?"
"Well..."

Right after that I knew it was all gonna go downhill.

"I couldn't really do that to him. It would ruin his reputation, he'd distance himself if I had it. We already decided that's the best way to go."
"So you'd abort even though you wouldn't want to because he wants you to?"
"Of course."

Not only is she okay with it, he's perfectly fine treating her like that, our friends find nothing wrong with this arrangement (then again our friends are all pro-choice, so I suppose I shouldn't expect them to realize what an unwanted abortion can do to a woman), and her mom has even told her before that she shoudln't have sex because if she gets pregnant she'll have to have an abortion.

How the hell is this a choice? "The rest of the world wants me to abort, so I'm having an abortion." Why is it perfectly fine to all of these "feminists" for this girl's boyfriend to treat her like this? Why aren't they even the tiniest bit concerned that he's said, and I quote, "I'd ******** her but I wouldn't marry her. It's not like I love her." Sure, they b***h and complain whenever I mention I'm prolife, but then when she's being freaking used by some jerk, they're perfectly fine with it and call him an example to other men because he's pro-choice? I give up. These people make no sense to me. I know not everyone is like this, but this particular group of pro-choice feminists are really screwed up with their priorities.

What a crappy relationship, she allows him to control her for what his pathetic repution that nobody would care about later in life? So she would rather take a life whuch would make them look worse so he wouldn't have to worry? Sad really. They should of thought about that before having sex in the first place. Their being used like puppets!

I don't care if my boyfriend would want me to abort ( not that I have one or get in that mess in the first place, try avoid all that. which is why i'm waiting until a serious comminted relation, like engagement or marriage). I won't do it unless I know something is seriously wrong with the baby or my life is indanger and I want to be sure first.

It is a sad relationship she is in.

It's never a choice if someone else decides it for you. It is no more appropriate for her boyfriend to coerce her into getting an abortion than it is for him to coerce her to remain pregnant. It is terribly sad that any girl would let someone else make that very personal decision for her no matter what way the decision would go. I can only imagine what sort of relationship hers would develop into if she does everything the man in her life demands of her.

I'm not pregnant! Huzzah!

I tried to tell the guys at the hospital that I wasn't, but they just smiled and nodded and said, "Of course you can't be," probably because my parents were there. Does pregnancy cause seizures or something? I just love how that's the first thing they tested for. Well, I guess that makes sense since they did things with radiation, but still.

Ug. I just had a seizure and my parents followed the ambulance, so there was none of that trouble. There were four people crowed into my little curtained area and they had to kick my sister and her boyfriend out. I'm always afraid my appendix will burst, and I have no idea why, but now I REALLY hope that doesn't happen because I think my mom will kill me if I worry her like that again.

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