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 Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:04 am
Owwin Kuzodav Because a bond as strong as the one people have/search requires so much maintainence and time that it's only possible to have it with one person. Not only that, but jealousy, selfishness, and other such things. I'd be happier with one girl i really cared for and could spend most of my spare time with, rather than, a bunch of girls i share a loose connection with seperating my time and trying to make it equal. and don't forget it's also naturally to like something/someone more than something/someone else. And maybe 1 person is worth the sacrafice of a polygamous because you care for them that much that you really don't need anyone else. I have strong bonds with all of my real (and hopefully some of my internet wink ) friends. Bonds that I would never care to compromise. Bonds that took a lot of time to build and more to maintain. I always thought romantic love was that, but with the added element of sexual drive. I could never put one person I love above all the rest just because the added element of sexual drive. I am obviously missing something here. Yeah, you are. It's not just sexual drive. There's just a degree of comfortableness. Like no matter WHAT you can turn to them it's a kind of counting on each other that has a unique companionship. Sparing myself searching for the right poetic words. It's spiritual. Not like ghosts. Just a strong bond thatasdlkjfa;sldhga can't think of words. 5 in the morning haven't slept. Anyway, it's not about the tits It's about what's behind her tits and yours.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:04 am
auS-e-Dude Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! If you don't think you are good enough then they aren't! I kid.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:05 am
auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin Kuzodav Hashire Kazemeijin At least yu can say yu've had relationship experience. That's a luxury(?) some people like myself don't get to have. You know there's an 'o' in 'you', right?
@Auron: I don't think there's too much more I can do. I'm apparantly just not a likable person IRL. From Preschool to High School graduation, I was the guy everyone loved to hate. I'm somehow just naturally repulsive.You'd think that, but there's someone. There's always someone. You just have to pull your finger out and start looking.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:06 am
Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin Yes, but as I've explained before, it's a personal taste and habit I've developed when I spell any version of "you" except for "your".
@Auron: I don't think there's too much more I can do. I'm apparantly just not a likable person IRL. From Preschool to High School graduation, I was the guy everyone loved to hate. I'm somehow just naturally repulsive. You'd think that, but there's someone. There's always someone. You just have to pull your finger out and start looking.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. You've never had a friend that's a girl?
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:07 am
auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin Kuzodav Hashire Kazemeijin At least yu can say yu've had relationship experience. That's a luxury(?) some people like myself don't get to have. You know there's an 'o' in 'you', right?
@Auron: I don't think there's too much more I can do. I'm apparantly just not a likable person IRL. From Preschool to High School graduation, I was the guy everyone loved to hate. I'm somehow just naturally repulsive.You'd think that, but there's someone. There's always someone. You just have to pull your finger out and start looking.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. This.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:07 am
Owwin auS-e-Dude Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! If you don't think you are good enough then they aren't! I kid. 'Standards' are for pricks.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:08 am
Holy s**t I was "This"'d on help about relationships.
Achievement Unlocked
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:08 am
auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin Yes, but as I've explained before, it's a personal taste and habit I've developed when I spell any version of "you" except for "your".
@Auron: I don't think there's too much more I can do. I'm apparantly just not a likable person IRL. From Preschool to High School graduation, I was the guy everyone loved to hate. I'm somehow just naturally repulsive. You'd think that, but there's someone. There's always someone. You just have to pull your finger out and start looking.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. You've never had a friend that's a girl?
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:09 am
Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin I've heard (most) of that before and I'd love to believe it, but I honestly can't see it happening for me with my naturally skewed/abstract personality and tastes.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. You've never had a friend that's a girl? Judging by your random signature, you're into Loli, yes?
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:10 am
Kuzodav Yeah, you are. It's not just sexual drive. There's just a degree of comfortableness. Like no matter WHAT you can turn to them it's a kind of counting on each other that has a unique companionship. Sparing myself searching for the right poetic words. It's spiritual. Not like ghosts. Just a strong bond thatasdlkjfa;sldhga can't think of words. 5 in the morning haven't slept. Anyway, it's not about the tits It's about what's behind her tits and yours. But why can't you have that degree of comfortableness with everyone? I tell my hopes and fears and dreams and secrets to all of my friends. Why aren't we allowed to do that? If that is the case I am in love with a lot of people. Some of them are guys... You just ruined my day Kuzo
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:11 am
auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin I've heard (most) of that before and I'd love to believe it, but I honestly can't see it happening for me with my naturally skewed/abstract personality and tastes.
Then lower your standards. Then before you know it, BAM, the one is starring right in front of you, crushing on you. You've never had a friend that's a girl? Judging by your random signature, you're into Loli, yes? =OOOO
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:11 am
Owwin Kuzodav Yeah, you are. It's not just sexual drive. There's just a degree of comfortableness. Like no matter WHAT you can turn to them it's a kind of counting on each other that has a unique companionship. Sparing myself searching for the right poetic words. It's spiritual. Not like ghosts. Just a strong bond thatasdlkjfa;sldhga can't think of words. 5 in the morning haven't slept. Anyway, it's not about the tits It's about what's behind her tits and yours. But why can't you have that degree of comfortableness with everyone? I tell my hopes and fears and dreams and secrets to all of my friends. Why aren't we allowed to do that? If that is the case I am in love with a lot of people. You make it sounds like it restricts your ability to have bonds with everyone else. It's not that at all. It's just like a bond with your friends ascended.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:12 am
auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin Not a single one IRL. Like I said, there's gotta be something there that's working as a deterrent. Judging by your random signature, you're into Loli, yes?
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:12 am
Aurons_Blade auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin auS-e-Dude Hashire Kazemeijin After 19 years of not even WALKING with a girl on purpose, standards aren't really something I can afford in the first place. Not much lower they could go. You've never had a friend that's a girl? Judging by your random signature, you're into Loli, yes? =OOOO Don't say I'm the only one that came to that conclusion.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 3:14 am
Kuzodav You make it sounds like it restricts your ability to have bonds with everyone else. It's not that at all. It's just like a bond with your friends ascended. I really just don't get it. That makes no sense to me.
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