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 Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:21 pm
i just told my aunt, well one of them i was bi. she said she had friends who were gay and didn't mind it, though she doesn't fully approve, but she said it's my life. she even asked me if i experimented and if that had a part in determinig my preference. she's always been pretty cool. however, she told me that i probably shouldn't tell my mom about it.
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:23 pm
Kami Neko Yes, my attraction to women has definitely reached the sexual level... Man. I am learning more and more about myself all the time. It's liberating, yet a little frightening as well. It's been in the back of my mind for years now that I might be bi, but I just kept brushing it aside...with no idea why. Perhaps because I've heard from so many people, including plenty of homosexual people, that being Bi is some joke, that people should pick one or the other. Anyway, now coming face to face with it, I'm realizing how very real and big of a discovery this is, to seriously contemplate if these are the true feelings I am having or not...though it actually seems that they are undeniably so.... same situation here. i've been having "thoughts" about a friend of mine a lot lately. when i look back on my childhood i notice i seemed to have more of an attraction to females than males. maybe i was a lesbian, i don't know. *shrugs* i'm still trying to figure things out.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2004 7:02 pm
RevanStar I've always been bi (So very on the eage of les) o.o I've made out with a few girls before it even crossed my mind whee I came out, last june'04 at school at lunch. b***h Magen"Are you les?"(It was a random question ment as a joke) Me "No,...I'm bi" b***h "Ewwww, thats so gross!" Friend Joanna "Your kidding? Thats...worng" Me "No, its not worng or gross, I've always been bi" Bunch of random s**t happened. I walked away and cryed for a bit because my friends where being homophobs Later, I come back and the b***h has been telling everyone that walked by stare To this day she wont let it drop. She uses my sexualty as a insalt. She dosent like me, so she herasses me, even after I told her to stop My friends are a little...eh about it. I havent really talked or seen them over the summer. Only two of them treat me like they always have. One is a guy, the other is a girl stare My older sister(18, les) knows as well as her girl friend. Of corse there happy I feel happy with my self enough to come out so openly Now, if only I knew how to tell my dad btw when i came out i told my most trustworthy friend, and then her bf then, a couple days later, i told my mom...mom almost barfed when i told her...but now she's out of shock and supporting me ^_^
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Posted: Fri Nov 26, 2004 7:03 am
I haven't told anyone yet. ninja
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Posted: Fri Nov 26, 2004 9:41 am
Well, this year has been intresting for me to say the least. Ive been bi for about 7 years now, but I hid that fact untill last year when I started telling me close friends. This year, Ive become VERY open about it and it has opened new doors for me. Its intresting the things Ive learned since I started being open about liking women. Like a little while ago while scouting for boys with a gay friend of mine I realized that I dont notice guys, for me to see a cute boy I have to single guys out and think "hmmm.... is he cute?" as where I can point out a pretty girl without any thought or attention. Ive noticed that I find nothing attractive about the male body, it was just something I "put up with" ect, ect. At the moment Im pretty sure that Im gay, but IM not 100% yet. Im bold enough to say it on Gaia, but in the real world (yes shockingly enough there IS a world outside of Gaia, but its not a happy place, I wouldnt recommend it) Im still "bi". heh, make sense?
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Posted: Fri Nov 26, 2004 12:29 pm
well I told my best friend/sister after telling her bf, he told me just to tell he and she will alwasy be my sister, well after an hour me and her got on the subject and i told her...i thought she was gonna hate me, but instead of pushing me away like she had alwasy done, she took me in2 her arms, i cryed for like 3 hours. To this day were best friends and sisters! But rencly some bad things have been happening at home and my parents preashed me to tell them where my perencese lied, I told them that i was bi, 2 bad they homophobs crying O well they can bite me.
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Posted: Fri Nov 26, 2004 4:50 pm
I had a good time with my friends. . . My family and school I wasn;t so lucky.
~Friends~
Me:hey, I gotta tell ya somthing.
kiho:Yeah?
me:I'm Bi
Kiho:I knew it all along. Its because of me, baby!
Me: X.X;; well, that is sorta true in its own way.
And then I went on about how I liked her and all. And now, we are togeather. w00t
~Family~
Me:Loretta?
Loretta:Yes?
Me:I'm bi
Loretta:You don't know yet, you are to young.
Me:Whatever you say.
~ Dad:Nicole, you don't know what you are. Perisod.
Me: *shrug* whatever you say *walk away*
~School~
Some random kid:Hey, your BI???????*freaked out look on face*
Me:Yeah, wanna make something out of it?
*5 min later* Half the school:OMG YOUR BIIIIIIIIII??????????
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2004 4:33 pm
Well, I'm bi. I have alot of trouble talking to people about relationships (straight or gay) so because I didn't talk about guys my friends used to joke that I was gay. Last year was a big turning point...I kind of figured out what I was...but only this year have I admitted it to myself.
I've told my friends, but...you know. I'm not sure if they believe me.
Some of my friends are really conservitive, so I think they may distance themselves from me.
I only talk to one of my friends about being bi (he is too) and it's really good to be able to talk to him.
I haven't told my parents, mum wouldn't really mind, but dad absolutely HATES gay people. sweatdrop So...hmmm lol. We'll see what the future brings... biggrin
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 9:54 am
Ah hah, well, I finally came out to another of my friends. ^_^; He took it really well. o_o Mn...and...so now two of my friends know my secret. ^_^; Ah hah. And...recently my mother's been asking...a lot. -_-; Heh. I'd tell her the truth if she said something comforting like "you can tell me, I won't judge you," but, instead it's more like "please say no, that'd be too weird." -_-; Meh. Oh well. Heh. I shoulda told her while she was still understanding like...years ago. ^_^; Ah hah. Oh well. Cest la vie.
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 12:17 pm
I came to terms with my sexuallity a year and a half ago, I finally came to terms with the fact that I was staring at girls longer than I should have and I also finally realized that I liked one of my best friends who told me before that, that she was bi. I do like men still for I still have a sexual attraction towards them but now I also find women attractive. But I guess it's a good thing because if I didn't figure it out, I would have the most wonderful girlfriend I could ever have right now, we had been best friends for a while and than one night she asked me out...
Jess (g/f): Your bi right?
Me: Yeah... why?
Jess: Do you like me?
Me: yeah we're good friends
Jess: no I mean do u like-like me?
me: oh!... um... yeah(I had whispered that)
Jess: Would you ever go out with me?
Me: yeah
Jess: Would you go out with me?
Me: R you serious?
Jess: yes
Me: okay
I had been upset that night also cause it was my grams death-birthday, she died that night two years ago... I didn't think anyone could like me back than either. The next day when we told me they thought we were joking because it was april fools day.
I never had a problem with my friend accepting who I was, my parents on the other hand r still trying to deal with it. My aunt found out and freaked so now i don't really want to see her for christmas. But I'm glad that my parents r trying to put an effort in trying to accept the way I am and the fact that I am now dating a girl instead of a guy.
the people I meet at my school in classes don't really care when I tell them I'm dating a girl, most people in my high school are accepting of this kinda stuff though so that's a good thing for my part. My first high school I went to though weren't as nice, most people were to high up on themselves so that didn't help. SO i decided to move to a better high school where I knew a few people and made a new name for myself, so I'm glad I moved there, me and Jess became closer friends and we even found love in our relationship. We've been going out for 8 months now and for christmas I bought her a ring so I'm really happy biggrin
BUt you know what, if you have problems with people who are homophobs than maybe their just jelous of you, maybe their really the ones who can't come out. They still probably don't know their sexuallity also so they don't know what their missing.
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 12:30 pm
let's see...when I first came out to people...their only reactions seemed to be "*blinkblink*.....*thinks about it*...It figures..."
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2004 12:36 pm
When i came out:
Me- Uh.......Im bi
Mom-*blinkblink* really?
Me-Yup
Mom-Oh
Then she wandered off and had a cup of tea
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2004 12:38 am
first identical word that i heard when i came out was the word: KIT, IKAW NA? In english: KIT, IS THAT YOU?
hehehe...
people in our place can't believe that i am indeed what they are afraid of... they thought at first that i was just acting like gay but mentally or emotionally, i am straight... so definitely, they were shocked to see me coming out in the open with this kind of dress... biggrin biggrin biggrin
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2004 7:55 am
I am not coming out unless my boyfriend doesn't want me anymore, which I couldn't see that will happen. I am screw. blaugh
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2004 8:37 am
This is translated from spanish, its really odd and sounds like its not real. Because its not, Its just a translation, If you want to hear it in spanish then pm me.
The first person I came out to was a reealy good friend of mine. Shes a girl, She gave me a ride home and eventually this topic just came out.
her: I have some gay friends who have actually tought me not to hate that kind of people.
Me: Really cuz Im Gay.
Her: Hugs me.
My old group of friends. They were sayng stuff about most child molestors being gay.
one of them: Ahh that is just wrong imagine jourself like a four year old being ******** by a 14 inch black.
Me: Hey stop it thats not necesarily true.
Another one of them: Are you a f** or something.
Me: NO... yes
They alll: ajj your gross go the ******** away and shut up.
My new group of friends. They are allways joking, they have no problem, eventually it just came out.
Me: Im gay
One of them: really, ok you can be a trannsexual and we will want you that way.
Me: Well I dont want to be such, but thanx, I guess.
This is translated from spanish so if it sounds odd, its cuz it wasnt the way they actually said it.
But before that My old friends just bringed anything about gay people and I said you never know I mean I hide it real good. Then they Shocked, but I always said, come on you know I not likke that.
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