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Chaotic Rose Vice Captain
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 Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 12:55 pm
Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose Some do. I honestly believe that. They know it is coming so they make the most out of the time they have and I'm sure spending it with you made him very happy. I really dont know what to do anymore.. Follow his wishes and continue my life like normal?.. I cant do that...It just seems to hard..I visited him pretty much all the time and we did nearly everything together..and at 92 you have to be amazed that he knew how to skateboard..
But yes you can do it. I know it seems hard right now but you will be able to do it and you'll be able to smile thinking of all the great times you and your grandpa shared. Well he had 'hung' up his board at 70 but he was always good at it.. I really hope that he is in a good place.. Im going to his funaral next tuesday..so i may be online a few hours after than i am normally...
Take as much time as you need. I'll be here when you return. Its going to be hard seeing him in his tux...
I wasn't so lucky with Mommom.
I think that is why it is so hard for me to let go. You know the closer and all.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:07 pm
It's always hard to let go, whether there's closure or not.
My boyfriend's father died when he was eighteen and delivered the speech at the funeral. But he has never let it go. An empty space is always there.
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Chaotic Rose Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:11 pm
That's very true Muri. I had to deliver a speech as well, but I volunteered.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:14 pm
Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose A 92 year old skating grandpa is pretty cool.
But yes you can do it. I know it seems hard right now but you will be able to do it and you'll be able to smile thinking of all the great times you and your grandpa shared. Well he had 'hung' up his board at 70 but he was always good at it.. I really hope that he is in a good place.. Im going to his funaral next tuesday..so i may be online a few hours after than i am normally...
Take as much time as you need. I'll be here when you return. Its going to be hard seeing him in his tux...
I wasn't so lucky with Mommom.
I think that is why it is so hard for me to let go. You know the closer and all. You didnt get to see her?...Why?..
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Chaotic Rose Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:17 pm
Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose A 92 year old skating grandpa is pretty cool.
But yes you can do it. I know it seems hard right now but you will be able to do it and you'll be able to smile thinking of all the great times you and your grandpa shared. Well he had 'hung' up his board at 70 but he was always good at it.. I really hope that he is in a good place.. Im going to his funaral next tuesday..so i may be online a few hours after than i am normally...
Take as much time as you need. I'll be here when you return. Its going to be hard seeing him in his tux...
I wasn't so lucky with Mommom.
I think that is why it is so hard for me to let go. You know the closer and all. You didnt get to see her?...Why?..
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:29 pm
Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose Bitinged Chaotic Rose I have a good feeling he is.
Take as much time as you need. I'll be here when you return. Its going to be hard seeing him in his tux...
I wasn't so lucky with Mommom.
I think that is why it is so hard for me to let go. You know the closer and all. You didnt get to see her?...Why?.. They didnt let you see her before they cremated her?!? ..Why do veterans always want a cremation?..Thats what my Grandfather wanted..I can see why he would want it but i dont think i can witness my grandfathers ashes being thrown somewhere..
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Shiro Ookamitoko Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 2:39 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 2:43 pm
Aww, never mind. You guys aren't on anymore. *pouts*
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Shiro Ookamitoko Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 2:46 pm
Dang it. Just missed everyone.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:13 pm
*appears standing in the middle of the floor of the den and looks around* gonk Why is everyone on right after I leave? *acts childish and pouts* its not fair!
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:15 pm
Ravenna182 *appears standing in the middle of the floor of the den and looks around* gonk Why is everyone on right after I leave? *acts childish and pouts* its not fair! Ume-chan's head pops up out of the shadows benieth Ravenna. "I'm still here," she says.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:26 pm
Umexchan Ravenna182 *appears standing in the middle of the floor of the den and looks around* gonk Why is everyone on right after I leave? *acts childish and pouts* its not fair! Ume-chan's head pops up out of the shadows benieth Ravenna. "I'm still here," she says. YIPE!!! gonk *jumps so high she puts a hole in the roof*
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:30 pm
Ravenna182 Umexchan Ravenna182 *appears standing in the middle of the floor of the den and looks around* gonk Why is everyone on right after I leave? *acts childish and pouts* its not fair! Ume-chan's head pops up out of the shadows benieth Ravenna. "I'm still here," she says. YIPE!!! gonk *jumps so high she puts a hole in the roof* The rest of her body emerges from the shadows as she watches Ravenna jump through the roof. "Ooo, that's gonna leave a mark," she mutters to herself. "You okay?" she then asks.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:38 pm
*walks in listening to sad music*
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:40 pm
Hellboy3280 *walks in listening to sad music* "Hey HB!" Ume-chan says smiling, completely oblivious to the music playing.
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