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 Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 3:31 pm
rubbermuleaccount Being single IS fun because you can make out with EVVVEEERRYYYONE with no girlfriend going "o__0 Hey. HEY WTF ARE YOU DOING!?" rofl I mean... >.> (lol. I actually really enjoy being in a relationship because I'm an extremely domestic, loyal person, and I love being IN love.. but I don't mind being single, I guess). xDDD -hug- :0 I like being in a relationship.
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 6:21 pm
This guy my step-dad Ray knows from work came over yesterday. Apparently, this guy has a girlfriend that's a crack whore.. who is seeing another man. Well Ray and my mom have talked to him, trying to guide him to do the right thing, which is break up with this chick.
So my mom talked to him yesterday for a bit and she told me that he asked how old I was. She thought that he might be interested in dating me. I thought it was a weird and random thought.
But today she was talking with Ray while I was in the room about him, and she mention him saying that if he said that if he could find someone else to go out with, it would make things better to move on from that girl. Then she told Ray that he asked my age.. Ray burst out saying that I need to stay away from him as if I was even thinking about doing anything with him.
Oh.. but that's not what got me extremely annoyed. My mom knows I'm a lesbian and for whatever reason she told Ray that she told this guy that I wasn't ready to date.. that I was confused. She thinks that just because I had problems with my friend Rock, I thought that I liked him at one point, that all of a sudden I'm confused and don't know what I want. She didn't even know that I liked him, I never told her because I knew she'd talk me into feeling the way she probably wants me to feel. I know she hasn't said anything to me since I came out but I know she doesn't think highly of it.
I'm SO pissed. scream
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 10:16 pm
I broke up with my girlfriend on the 14th of June, but I realized shortly after, it was a mistake. But there was nothing i could do at this point. It was bound to come. I told her I thought it was a mistake, but she agrees with me now that shes not ready to be in a relationship because she doesn't have the time to dedicate. I know she loves me, and i love her, but it just wont work. I don't know if I should keep waiting in hopes that someday she'll be ready, or just move on. I don't want to move on, because my trust is hard to gain as it is. My love is even harder. So I don't know what to do anymore...Although I don't really need advice, since I've decided maybe I should just spend time reading books instead.
Anyhow, if anyone wants to chat, you can PM me(and wait for a long time for a response), or send me a message(and get a quick response) on:
AIM: sailornep15
YAHOO: somechick_73
ICQ: 432278186
MSN: (PM FOR THIS)
I could really use some friends.
P.S. I will not cyber you so don't ask fool!
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 1:36 am
If anyone ever gets bored hit me up on IM, yes? I'm pretty chill to talk to. Haha.
SN: xles miserablesx
:]
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 2:51 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 10:44 am
Akurei,
It certianly sounds like your mother and the friend ov your step-father's needs a definition ov what you are and what you are not. Also, a line perhaps needs to be drawn to help distinguish what is allowed and isn't allowed.
If you get confused Akurei - and this earthly realm tries ever so hard to befuddle it's populace - then sit back and re-construct your own 'mission,' so to speak. There is no adamancy about the purpose or direction ov a person, Dear. They can change at whim, and your mother should not be such a person to criticize that (I am glad, however, that you stayed on this side ov the sexual preference).
From what I gather ov the situation is that you are not the one confused, but perhaps your mother is the one confused. Or not ready to announce your stance openly yet.
You are not a rebound for a crack whore, Dear. You deserve much better than that, and Ray certianly doesn't have the means nor the understanding to give you the better.
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 4:09 pm
AkureiKnight This guy my step-dad Ray knows from work came over yesterday. Apparently, this guy has a girlfriend that's a crack whore.. who is seeing another man. Well Ray and my mom have talked to him, trying to guide him to do the right thing, which is break up with this chick. So my mom talked to him yesterday for a bit and she told me that he asked how old I was. She thought that he might be interested in dating me. I thought it was a weird and random thought. But today she was talking with Ray while I was in the room about him, and she mention him saying that if he said that if he could find someone else to go out with, it would make things better to move on from that girl. Then she told Ray that he asked my age.. Ray burst out saying that I need to stay away from him as if I was even thinking about doing anything with him. Oh.. but that's not what got me extremely annoyed. My mom knows I'm a lesbian and for whatever reason she told Ray that she told this guy that I wasn't ready to date.. that I was confused. She thinks that just because I had problems with my friend Rock, I thought that I liked him at one point, that all of a sudden I'm confused and don't know what I want. She didn't even know that I liked him, I never told her because I knew she'd talk me into feeling the way she probably wants me to feel. I know she hasn't said anything to me since I came out but I know she doesn't think highly of it. I'm SO pissed. scream Gaah. That's infuriating. >< Why the hell would they even humor that possibility? Your mom has to realize you're an adult, and you're a lesbian, and at the age you are, it's pretty much certain that you'll be a lesbian for life. ><;;; I'm sorry they are like that, Onee-san.
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 1:54 am
Akurei - neutral That sucks. *hugs* Parents are dumb. Hehe.
You guys........ I think I stayed up too late.
*falls over*
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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 11:43 am
eek I have a car...
On Gaia.
where was i when this news was handed out?
stare
I like being in relationships! But when I'm single I get impulsive and yes it is nice to be able to do whatever you want with whomever you want.
but that gets old after a while.
Like now.
cry confused
I just noticed this smiley... mad haha
I am sooo non observant
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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 6:27 pm
rubbermuleaccount Being single IS fun because you can make out with EVVVEEERRYYYONE with no girlfriend going "o__0 Hey. HEY WTF ARE Except for the fact that no one ever wants to make out with me... I swear... I just repel people.
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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 11:48 pm
BakaTulip rubbermuleaccount Being single IS fun because you can make out with EVVVEEERRYYYONE with no girlfriend going "o__0 Hey. HEY WTF ARE Except for the fact that no one ever wants to make out with me... I swear... I just repel people. You just have to find someone horny and desperate enough! For instance, I have a lesbian friend who will make out with anything female that moves, no questions asked. We made out a couple of weeks ago. biggrin
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 6:00 am
xD; I've never kissed anyone....?
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 9:08 am
BakaTulip rubbermuleaccount Being single IS fun because you can make out with EVVVEEERRYYYONE with no girlfriend going "o__0 Hey. HEY WTF ARE Except for the fact that no one ever wants to make out with me... I swear... I just repel people. I swear... one of these days I'm going to convince you you're wrong. I mean, look at me. I'm totally and completely in love with two guys (who are the only reason/s I call myself bi, not lesbian). Neither of them wants me anymore, even though I know they love me too still. I have girl in NY whom I love dearly that hardly talks to me anymore. Now. You're worried about one girl who was stupid enough to leave you for bound paper?! *shakes head, smiling* Silly girl. Your heart will heal, either by her coming to her senses or you finding someone not quite that blind.
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 4:16 pm
Saivanima BakaTulip rubbermuleaccount Being single IS fun because you can make out with EVVVEEERRYYYONE with no girlfriend going "o__0 Hey. HEY WTF ARE Except for the fact that no one ever wants to make out with me... I swear... I just repel people. I swear... one of these days I'm going to convince you you're wrong. I mean, look at me. I'm totally and completely in love with two guys (who are the only reason/s I call myself bi, not lesbian). Neither of them wants me anymore, even though I know they love me too still. I have girl in NY whom I love dearly that hardly talks to me anymore. Now. You're worried about one girl who was stupid enough to leave you for bound paper?! *shakes head, smiling* Silly girl. Your heart will heal, either by her coming to her senses or you finding someone not quite that blind. It's not just her. I just... I've never been hit on in my life. Not even once.
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 6:08 pm
I get homophobically harrassed any time I go to the Rally because of my Date. I never get mean or angry, I simply talk it out logically and throw some emotional abuse in when I can.
Still. Sucks.
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