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 Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 12:40 am
Drama is for llamas...
Hoooray, 100 pages of bitching.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 5:39 am
ok, this is probably the first b***h post I've ever posted....
Am I too good of a friend for people?
yeah this is another rant about how much I hate my luck with women.
It seems that everytime i fall for someone, that they see me as a "safe" person.
A safe person is one who knows you like them and they enjoy it, but they don't want to return the affection. They know you are the 'safe' person they can always run to without ever having to worry about you hurting them. They know they can run to you for advice, because you'll always be looking out for their best.
To be honest, I'm f*cking sick and tired of falling for someone only to have them break my heart by telling me that I'm too good of a friend to give up, or they'll always be my friend but nothing more.
One thing I hate more than anything else is being lead on, to have someone you've fallen for tell you that they like you, tell you they have feelings for you, only to turn around and slap you in the face with "I only want to be friends", or they don't "like you like that".
Why does this always happen to me? Am I really too good of a friend?
Every single girl I've taken a serious interest in has done this to me.
They tell me they like me only to crush me down the road.
I just want someone to love me for who I am, not tell me I'm too good of a friend, or lead me on and then take my heart and destroy it, whether its on purpose or not.
I think I'm done with this stupid little game, if a girl likes having me as a friend because "I'm there for her" , "I really like talking to you" , "you always know what to say" they'll have to work for it. All of my life I've given my friendship freely,saying I don't want anything in return, but half expecting something, only to get scorn and heartbreak in return. From now on, if someone wants my friendship, they'll have to work for it. they'll have to work HARD for it.
I'm so sick and f*cking tired of hearing "I only want to be friends," all it means is that they have absolutely no intentions to pursue anything else, and they have no other nice way of putting it. When girls say, "Just be friends," it is their nice way of saying they are not interested. Unfortunately, being blinded in the moment I usually end up thinking it means, "I still don't know you well enough to make a decision."
I'm done with this game.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 11:11 am
Gemineye ok, this is probably the first b***h post I've ever posted.... Am I too good of a friend for people? yeah this is another rant about how much I hate my luck with women. It seems that everytime i fall for someone, that they see me as a "safe" person. A safe person is one who knows you like them and they enjoy it, but they don't want to return the affection. They know you are the 'safe' person they can always run to without ever having to worry about you hurting them. They know they can run to you for advice, because you'll always be looking out for their best. To be honest, I'm f*cking sick and tired of falling for someone only to have them break my heart by telling me that I'm too good of a friend to give up, or they'll always be my friend but nothing more. One thing I hate more than anything else is being lead on, to have someone you've fallen for tell you that they like you, tell you they have feelings for you, only to turn around and slap you in the face with "I only want to be friends", or they don't "like you like that". Why does this always happen to me? Am I really too good of a friend? Every single girl I've taken a serious interest in has done this to me. They tell me they like me only to crush me down the road. I just want someone to love me for who I am, not tell me I'm too good of a friend, or lead me on and then take my heart and destroy it, whether its on purpose or not. I think I'm done with this stupid little game, if a girl likes having me as a friend because "I'm there for her" , "I really like talking to you" , "you always know what to say" they'll have to work for it. All of my life I've given my friendship freely,saying I don't want anything in return, but half expecting something, only to get scorn and heartbreak in return. From now on, if someone wants my friendship, they'll have to work for it. they'll have to work HARD for it. I'm so sick and f*cking tired of hearing "I only want to be friends," all it means is that they have absolutely no intentions to pursue anything else, and they have no other nice way of putting it. When girls say, "Just be friends," it is their nice way of saying they are not interested. Unfortunately, being blinded in the moment I usually end up thinking it means, "I still don't know you well enough to make a decision." I'm done with this game. Here I can relate. Every girl either turned me down because I was a good friend, or because I was a year younger than them (I was a grade ahead all throughout school. What the ********!) It also didn't help that because of this I was always very shy and fearful of most women. In fact, it takes a very special lady for me to even want to talk to. Not on the internet anyways, internets different. My experiece with girls has been nothing but the Paris Hilton wannabees. The few girls I would want to associate with were already taken...usually by assholes or good friends. I'm hoping college will be better. My only true relationship all through school was only started cause we both met at a party, and got drunk. I got lucky, she didn't have a boyfriend like she normally did. But as far as college goes, I've only met a few girls I like, but they were all taken. Otherwise its back to the Gucci Sunglasses....and I just cant deal with that. But sometimes I think.....why do I have to be the nice friend, and not the dominant boyfriend. My last girlfriend Dominated the hell out of me. I didn't want to make her feel bad or angy and she used that to her advantage. I constantly see guys who practically have there girlfriends trained. They treat them like bastards, AND they get all the sex they want. But is this worth being a complete and utter a*****e and everything you ******** HATE! Ugh...even if I wanted to I couldn't Man...I wish I was gay.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 11:32 am
lolno you don't, then you'd be the gucci glasses wearing one giving all the suckuy sucky dramallama
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 11:33 am
You have to know how to translate what women say in these kinds of situations.
What she says: I think you're sweet
What she means: I'm going to get an abusive boyfriend and try to change him into you
What she says: I want you to know that we can still be friends
What she means: Whereas before you seemed merely weird, you now strike me as weird and extremely threatening
What she says: You'll find someone else and forget all about me
What she means: You belong with a broken, desperate lizard-woman
What she says: I've never had a secret admirer before
What she means: I've never had a stalker before
What she says: I'm afraid I'm not looking for a relationship right now
What she means: I'm having an affair with the milkman right now
What she says: I've promised my boyfriend I'll consider his marriage proposal
What she means: I'm having an affair with the milkman right now
What she says: I'm very flattered but ...
What she means: If you ever so much look at me again, I'm calling the police
What she says: If you ever so much look at me again, I'm calling the police
What she means: I'm calling the police
I think that just about covers everything
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 1:46 pm
Yeah, girls...girls suck.
At least your girlfriends never broke down every night "because you were too good to her" and that made her somehow "feel like s**t" so she'd condenscend herself and you all the time. Constantly dragging you down with her bullshit. And would go all psycho crazy when you said you weren't gonna leave her and blah blah. And then yells at you on the phone for arguing with her. And then the next day is all "I'd do anything for you, baby. <333", only to repeat the cycle the next night.
Pfft. Y'all haven't seen anything yet. rolleyes
Men lie too~ We all do. Women just usually try to say it in euphemisms instead of being all straight forward like most men are. .-.
Would you rather her say "******** off, you're creeping me out?" or would you rather her say, "You know...I don't think this is going to work out." .-.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 1:53 pm
KFactor!
Would you rather her say "******** off, you're creeping me out?" or would you rather her say, "You know...I don't think this is going to work out." .-."I want you to know that we can still be friends" sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 1:57 pm
Now, boys, what about the opposite end of the spectrum?
I'm, what, a month in college now. I've been experiencing the same as you lot, but, y'know, the other side.
I've been told that I'm the best friend someone could ever have. To me it just clarifies that yes, I'm nothing more than a guy-pal in a woman's body. Joy.
I try not to be selective of men. As long as you aren't fake and/or an asshat, I'll talk with you. But why, WHY do men go for such extremes? The delicate feminine things, bitches in control, or the Gucci girls? (Which, btw, is practically what every sorority is, and it makes me sick. "academic integrity?" hah, you must be joking.)
It makes me wonder: do I have to be one of those rail-thin bottle-blonds toting brand-name bags to be noticed? And if so, who would I be noticed by? Dickheads who want me for the tits and a**.
Guys, I mean no offense directed to any of you. As I'm sure you're aware, s**t happens with us, too.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 1:57 pm
In-co KFactor!
Would you rather her say "******** off, you're creeping me out?" or would you rather her say, "You know...I don't think this is going to work out." .-."I want you to know that we can still be friends" sweatdrop
At least being friends is better than nothing? You still get to be pretty close to them and see them every so often.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:02 pm
Honestly, I'd rather be friends, albeit the relationship being awkward for a few days/weeks, than to abandon a person entirely.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:07 pm
[Teh Dixie.] Honestly, I'd rather be friends, albeit the relationship being awkward for a few days/weeks, than to abandon a person entirely.
And then having a general awkward relationship period for years? Yeah. It's not just they don't wanna be hurt, it's they really don't want to bring you down as well either. .-.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:21 pm
I would rather someone tell me that she never wanted to see me again instead of her pretending to be my friend and acting all akward around me.
Yeah, I'd be sad, but I'd get over it. It's harder to get over someone that you see going out with other people and haveing a fun time without you. neutral
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:32 pm
In-co I would rather someone tell me that she never wanted to see me again instead of her pretending to be my friend and acting all akward around me. Yeah, I'd be sad, but I'd get over it. It's harder to get over someone that you see going out with other people and haveing a fun time without you. neutral
Some people don't pretend. Some people like you but just know that it seriously won't work out.
That happens all the time. It's a part of life. And if you feel so bad about it then maybe you should say or do something~ .-.
Like I said, I loved Nessa and I probably still do, but she was ******** crazy so we split up for the better and I STILL feel like s**t over it.
Being friends is about liking someone enough to let them be happy with someone else instead of forcing them into a relationship they probably don't want and it'll just add to more stress later on.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 8:26 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 9:05 pm
I think leading a person on is one of the most despicable and cruel things you can do.
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