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 Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 3:22 pm
WatersMoon110 I.Am Also, slightly unrelated, but it annoys me how Pro-Choicers don't really have to worry about this. I mean, real Pro-Choicers who support the woman's choice; If their girlfriend turns out to be Pro-Life, okay, that's a choice. If their girlfriend's Pro-Choice and has an abortion, okay, that's a choice too. If they're women and they find out their boyfriend's Pro-Life, it's still not going to affect whether she can get an abortion or not, even if it would add guilt and the complication of a likely breakup to the getting of an abortion. It does suck that the only people who really, really have to worry about this are Pro-Life males. Actually, when it comes to pregnancy, men really do usually get less say in the matter. Think of a Pro-Choice male and a Pro-Life female - she gets pregnant and he says "I'll pay for the abortion." then takes off when she says she's keeping it. She sues him for child support and the state garnishes (I don't think that's how you spell it...) his wages to pay for the child. And in mixed relationships, it will probably always be a huge fight, and often a break up, when they disagree over an unexpected pregnancy (even mixed as in, one Pro-Choice completely and one Pro-Life personal).
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 3:27 pm
That's why I'm planning on going to Maldova and look after orphans.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 3:34 pm
FreeArsenal That's why I'm planning on going to Maldova and look after orphans. Good for you.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 4:08 pm
men like that, who are pro-choice to save themselves from responsibility, are scum and don't have the balls to be called men.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 4:32 pm
WatersMoon110 WatersMoon110 I.Am Also, slightly unrelated, but it annoys me how Pro-Choicers don't really have to worry about this. I mean, real Pro-Choicers who support the woman's choice; If their girlfriend turns out to be Pro-Life, okay, that's a choice. If their girlfriend's Pro-Choice and has an abortion, okay, that's a choice too. If they're women and they find out their boyfriend's Pro-Life, it's still not going to affect whether she can get an abortion or not, even if it would add guilt and the complication of a likely breakup to the getting of an abortion. It does suck that the only people who really, really have to worry about this are Pro-Life males. Actually, when it comes to pregnancy, men really do usually get less say in the matter. Think of a Pro-Choice male and a Pro-Life female - she gets pregnant and he says "I'll pay for the abortion." then takes off when she says she's keeping it. She sues him for child support and the state garnishes (I don't think that's how you spell it...) his wages to pay for the child. And in mixed relationships, it will probably always be a huge fight, and often a break up, when they disagree over an unexpected pregnancy (even mixed as in, one Pro-Choice completely and one Pro-Life personal).
My current boyfriend doesn't have a stance on it, however he leans more towards pro-life. Partly, I believe, because he's adopted himself, also I think he'd simply be extremely upset if the person he was with had an abortion.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 6:58 pm
WatersMoon110 WatersMoon110 I.Am Also, slightly unrelated, but it annoys me how Pro-Choicers don't really have to worry about this. I mean, real Pro-Choicers who support the woman's choice; If their girlfriend turns out to be Pro-Life, okay, that's a choice. If their girlfriend's Pro-Choice and has an abortion, okay, that's a choice too. If they're women and they find out their boyfriend's Pro-Life, it's still not going to affect whether she can get an abortion or not, even if it would add guilt and the complication of a likely breakup to the getting of an abortion. It does suck that the only people who really, really have to worry about this are Pro-Life males. Actually, when it comes to pregnancy, men really do usually get less say in the matter. Think of a Pro-Choice male and a Pro-Life female - she gets pregnant and he says "I'll pay for the abortion." then takes off when she says she's keeping it. She sues him for child support and the state garnishes (I don't think that's how you spell it...) his wages to pay for the child. And in mixed relationships, it will probably always be a huge fight, and often a break up, when they disagree over an unexpected pregnancy (even mixed as in, one Pro-Choice completely and one Pro-Life personal). That's why I specifically said a man who's really Pro-Choice and supports any choice the woman makes. If she's Pro-Life, that's a choice and he shouldn't have a problem with it, since it's the woman's choice.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 8:07 pm
it wouldn't really matter with me because we wouldn't be having sex. unless she was militantly "MY BODY MY CHOICE LIFERS WANT TO ENSLAVE ALL WOMEN AND MAKE THEM BAKE FOOD AND TAKE AWAY OUR VOTING RIGHT" person, because i couldn't stand being NEAR such a person, let alone emotionaly close
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 2:12 pm
divineseraph it wouldn't really matter with me because we wouldn't be having sex. unless she was militantly "MY BODY MY CHOICE LIFERS WANT TO ENSLAVE ALL WOMEN AND MAKE THEM BAKE FOOD AND TAKE AWAY OUR VOTING RIGHT" person, because i couldn't stand being NEAR such a person, let alone emotionaly close To be fair, I don't like to be around people who are militant/fundamentalist anything, because they usually aren't the type of people who I enjoy being around, or, for that matter, who would want to spend time with me. People who yell especially. I don't like loud things.
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 2:15 pm
I.Am WatersMoon110 WatersMoon110 I.Am Also, slightly unrelated, but it annoys me how Pro-Choicers don't really have to worry about this. I mean, real Pro-Choicers who support the woman's choice; If their girlfriend turns out to be Pro-Life, okay, that's a choice. If their girlfriend's Pro-Choice and has an abortion, okay, that's a choice too. If they're women and they find out their boyfriend's Pro-Life, it's still not going to affect whether she can get an abortion or not, even if it would add guilt and the complication of a likely breakup to the getting of an abortion. It does suck that the only people who really, really have to worry about this are Pro-Life males. Actually, when it comes to pregnancy, men really do usually get less say in the matter. Think of a Pro-Choice male and a Pro-Life female - she gets pregnant and he says "I'll pay for the abortion." then takes off when she says she's keeping it. She sues him for child support and the state garnishes (I don't think that's how you spell it...) his wages to pay for the child. And in mixed relationships, it will probably always be a huge fight, and often a break up, when they disagree over an unexpected pregnancy (even mixed as in, one Pro-Choice completely and one Pro-Life personal). That's why I specifically said a man who's really Pro-Choice and supports any choice the woman makes. If she's Pro-Life, that's a choice and he shouldn't have a problem with it, since it's the woman's choice. Sorry - I sort of missed that. Though even some real Pro-Choicers will get upset if they feel that someone is making the wrong choice (my mother was upset at first when she heard my sister was keeping her pregnancy, because she thought my sister was too young and that she wouldn't finish college - though she did finish, and everyone loves my nephew).
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 11:32 pm
If I couldn't convert him. I'm leave him. Because It would be a big ordeal if I got pregnant He'd say abort it I'd say no and dump him and the baby would have no father. Then I'll think for the rest of my life "Should have dumped that damn pro-choicer."
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 9:30 pm
Moo_moo123 If I couldn't convert him. I'm leave him. Because It would be a big ordeal if I got pregnant He'd say abort it I'd say no and dump him and the baby would have no father. Then I'll think for the rest of my life "Should have dumped that damn pro-choicer." Techniquely speaking, he'd be considered pro-abortion. xd A lot of guys are "pro-choice" so they can ask their girlfriends to abort though, that's true to an extent.
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 9:44 am
I think I've said this before, but . . . there's no way I could get emotionally close to anyone who though it okay to kill an unborn baby. End of story. xp
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 10:44 am
GreenInkling I think I've said this before, but . . . there's no way I could get emotionally close to anyone who though it okay to kill an unborn baby. End of story. xp That works... I'm sick and tired of watching death...
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Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2006 1:32 am
I could date a pro-choicer, explain to them why abortion of convenience is ethically inhumane and if they still stood by their view that would be the only date they would have with me
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2006 6:35 pm
Lady_Amalthea I could date a pro-choicer, explain to them why abortion of convenience is ethically inhumane and if they still stood by their view that would be the only date they would have with me Have you ever been in such a situation before? Just curious.
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