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 Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 11:23 am
Our peer age-group thingy is AWESOME! Old people suck, the young people are so much more accepting (probably because upwards of 70% of them have had same-sex feelings at some time or another, and more and more are willing to admit it). *hugs you all*
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Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 1:42 pm
I had a bisexual friend and she was actually the first one I told, it was easy to tell her and because i was more confused than anything at the moment i just wanted to find out what was up. Then I told my best friend, who totally freaked out and told me to get help and kinda hurt me =/ I was sort of ashamed of the feelings I felt and tried to push them down but after a few weeks I knew I couldn't hide it. I just told all my friends and they were really accepting and cool with it.
My parents...they stole my journal when they thought i was doing drugs anddrinking (i'm streight edge >__>) And they were going to find out anyway so I told the that I was bi, although they said I had "misplaced admiration" and ended the conversation. --Sighh-- To this day when they ask me "are you gay?" when i try to defend gay rights and such, I hesitate and say no...So they really don't know. I'm really afraid to tell them because theyre VERY religious.
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Posted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 1:50 am
loginbin3000 Homie The Clown I've known for a while that I was gay. I was just denying it for a long time. About two months ago I finally began to accept it. I really want to come out and begin to tell people, but I'm nervous about it. My school isn't exactly what you'd call gay friendly and my parents are homophobes. So, I was just wondering, how did YOU come out and tell everyone? Maybe your stories can help me. I went along this same sorta path
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 3:46 am
I haven't, it'll be ridiculously hard. This is kinda why I wish I was a girl, girls are so much more accepting and friendly, at least, from my point of view here.
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 6:27 pm
Today I came to realize a few things and why I won't come out to any other family members.
We were having a big dinner and somehow the 13 years olds were talking and they said they thought it would be great to meet a bisexual. My godfather asked them what they said and said don't ever say that again.
I wanted to cry, I was sitting IN the room.
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 6:35 pm
I haven't yet sweatdrop My mom nearly found out when my snooping cousin saw it on my myspace, but I made up and excuse...I don't plan to come out until I'm at least 18.
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 12:32 pm
The only person who knows I'm bi is my best friend because she is too and next year I'm going to a new school where I don't know anybody so I still don't know how's it going to be there (if people are open-minded and such). sweatdrop
I guess when the right time comes I can tell it to my mother because she is open-minded and she once told me that she will always love me very much no matter what ^__^
But with my father it's a different story, along with my grandparents. They want me to be like the most perfect person in the world and they see me as they want me to be, not really as I am. And my father isn't very open to those things. He's really bad dealing with my feelings and all rolleyes
If I'm not like he wants me too he thinks I'm an inferior person. I guess that's why lately he is always saying bad things about me. Because I'm starting to show who I really am inside neutral
gyahh sorry for the longness of the post >__>
had to get it off my chest
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 12:34 pm
LittleAngel13 Today I came to realize a few things and why I won't come out to any other family members.
We were having a big dinner and somehow the 13 years olds were talking and they said they thought it would be great to meet a bisexual. My godfather asked them what they said and said don't ever say that again.
I wanted to cry, I was sitting IN the room. Oh my that must be terrible ;__; *hugs*
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Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 12:29 pm
I think going away to college...you can meet new people and just introduce yourself as well...yourself. Most of the people that I interact in my life now actually know I am bisexual. My family and church folk don't know. And I doubt that Id ever tell them.
But most of the time when Im "coming out" to someone who Ive known for a few months or just met, I just casually make a comment about some other guy and see their reaction to it. I live in Westwood and go to UCLA, so the people here are more liberal and open to homosexuality. When I check out other guys, I usually gauge their reaction to it. If theyre surprised then we talk about it. But for the most part, I will willingly tell people that I am bisexual and leave it at that.
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Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 7:10 pm
Depends to who. With my friend, it went like this...
Me: Hey I've got something to tell you.
Him: What? You're gay?
Me: Yeah
Him: WTF? Really?
I'm not obviously gay and he was just kidding around. It took him few weeks to believe it.
And I just told my parents I was gay and I invited my BF home for supper.
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Posted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 10:46 am
after4years Depends to who. With my friend, it went like this... Me: Hey I've got something to tell you. Him: What? You're gay? Me: Yeah Him: WTF? Really? I'm not obviously gay and he was just kidding around. It took him few weeks to believe it. And I just told my parents I was gay and I invited my BF home for supper. aww! thats so cool!!
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 4:28 am
... in front of my school, infront of my family and i did it all in leather chaps and a cow boy hat.... no im serious..at my school we had this male talent show this male talent show thing calledd mr.hawk... and the theme was cowboys...so my stagename was the rainbow renagaid...and when them all introduced everyone else they would say if they had a girl friend..well when it came to me all they said was i had a partner...so that was basicaly it..
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 11:36 am
The first person I ever told was my best friend,then it turned out that she was bisexual herself. I told my other friends awhile after and they're all very accepting..which I'm so grateful for. My best friend Krista(who is bisexual) always jokes around and says I was so obvious XD Maybe I just have 'lesbian' written on my forhead.
Anways..I guess I'm the one of the lucky onces to have an accepting mother. I didn't tell my mom about being a lesbian until I was 16..this was also the day after my ex-girlfriend and I broke up. Luckely,though,she was very accepting and so is the rest of my family. For awhile I wasn't so open about my sexuality, but I'm not going to hide, and I won't let people harass me because of my sexual orientation. Now I'm totally open about it and I don't care what people think. I've also found the most wonderful,gorgeous and amazing girl ever..(Renee the Rabid Squirrel)
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 3:26 pm
After drinking lots of rum sweatdrop
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