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Yes. Please help me!?! :gonk:
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Konphuzed2k5

PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2005 10:27 pm


I don't love her...
I care for her...
But I also care for her enemy...
We are close friends...
I've known her enemy for 10 years...
And thats not the only thing...
I accedentally told this one girl my g/f and I had sex...
And the next day everyone knew about it...
So she freaked out about it...
But if she's ashamed of what she's doing...
And doesn't want ne one 2 know...
Then I don't think she is ready to do it...
And I'm in it for the sex mostly...
I know its harsh...
But true...
I don't want to hurt her...
But I can't be w/ someone who is always mad at me...
And can't let me be friends w/ someone she hates...
PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2005 2:35 pm


Most girls dont want other people to know about their relations. I know you dont want to hurt this girl, but if your in this for the wrong reasons its better you tell her then string her along like that. This advice might be too much from a girls point of veiw it might be a good idea to have a guy comment about it as well.

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Mr. Ghost


PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 2:02 pm


I have a question ^ ^

Ok, well...I fell for this girl...and it happened pretty quickly. But the thing is...we got to talking and she fell for me too...Well the thing is, We live in different states, though not as far as the other guys she talks to.

Well...I get jealous very easily, and I'm very protective, and I dont think she likes that, but I can't help it. It seems to me that the other guys are better for her, but I live closer. She told me that it wasnt true, but I cant help but feel it.

I hate it when she talks to other guys, but I know that I shouldnt, and I cant do anything about it. She has her own friends...I told her that she could flirt with any guy she wanted, but she told me she didnt want to. I talk to her every chance I get, even if it is only for a couple minutes. And I'm two years younger than her...I dont want to lose her, and my jealousy can cause that to heppen, if she gets tired of it.

sweatdrop Help?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:36 pm


Well...
I think that you should just believe her, and let her find a way to show how she feels to you.
I know that I would enjoy someone to be protective of me. I'm sure that if anything, she doesn't like that YOU are unhappy when you are jealous. To her, it probably makes her feel safe and loved.

But that's just my opinion.

Lung Qin Mei

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Edmond Dantes
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:43 pm


Boota Pouncer
Most girls dont want other people to know about their relations. I know you dont want to hurt this girl, but if your in this for the wrong reasons its better you tell her then string her along like that. This advice might be too much from a girls point of veiw it might be a good idea to have a guy comment about it as well.
ok I'll give my 2 cents. hmm I see what your problem is you'r to casual about your relationship..... you need to give her more attention and you need to run it her way mainly, some times..... I'd say half ad half. talk to her about it. 3nodding I don't know if my advice was helpfull or not sweatdrop , but there you go.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:48 pm


Mr. Ghost
I have a question ^ ^

Ok, well...I fell for this girl...and it happened pretty quickly. But the thing is...we got to talking and she fell for me too...Well the thing is, We live in different states, though not as far as the other guys she talks to.

Well...I get jealous very easily, and I'm very protective, and I dont think she likes that, but I can't help it. It seems to me that the other guys are better for her, but I live closer. She told me that it wasnt true, but I cant help but feel it.

I hate it when she talks to other guys, but I know that I shouldnt, and I cant do anything about it. She has her own friends...I told her that she could flirt with any guy she wanted, but she told me she didnt want to. I talk to her every chance I get, even if it is only for a couple minutes. And I'm two years younger than her...I dont want to lose her, and my jealousy can cause that to heppen, if she gets tired of it.

sweatdrop Help?
hmm I don't know it would depend if you actualy know her, like met her and personaly know her. I guess that I agree with Fay, you do need to just trust her, belive me trust is a big part of a relationship and if you were to start one on shaky terms then it wouldn't last long. hmm Jealousy is a fickle emotion i'd say if she's interested in you then she wouldn't be flirting or doing any thing serious with any other guys.

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Mr. Ghost


PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:03 pm


Edmond Dantes
Mr. Ghost
I have a question ^ ^

Ok, well...I fell for this girl...and it happened pretty quickly. But the thing is...we got to talking and she fell for me too...Well the thing is, We live in different states, though not as far as the other guys she talks to.

Well...I get jealous very easily, and I'm very protective, and I dont think she likes that, but I can't help it. It seems to me that the other guys are better for her, but I live closer. She told me that it wasnt true, but I cant help but feel it.

I hate it when she talks to other guys, but I know that I shouldnt, and I cant do anything about it. She has her own friends...I told her that she could flirt with any guy she wanted, but she told me she didnt want to. I talk to her every chance I get, even if it is only for a couple minutes. And I'm two years younger than her...I dont want to lose her, and my jealousy can cause that to heppen, if she gets tired of it.

sweatdrop Help?
hmm I don't know it would depend if you actualy know her, like met her and personaly know her. I guess that I agree with Fay, you do need to just trust her, belive me trust is a big part of a relationship and if you were to start one on shaky terms then it wouldn't last long. hmm Jealousy is a fickle emotion i'd say if she's interested in you then she wouldn't be flirting or doing any thing serious with any other guys.
Hmm, I dont know...Why dont you ask her? Just look three posts up sweatdrop Faye, you werent supposed to see this sweatdrop
PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:09 pm


*Smiles faintly*

If you all haven't gotten it yet... The girl is me.

I know I wasn't Scott. I knew it when I saw it.

Lung Qin Mei

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Lady Mystical

PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2005 1:05 am


*sighs deeply*
I hate to admit it but I amlost got sick reading Konphuzed2k5's post. Even from a profesional standpoint I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole.

As for Ghost, I'm sure you probly allreayd know what I'm going to say... but I'll say it anyways. blaugh

I know I'm a bit biased but oh well, here goes.

You -don't- have a problem, if anything you have a blessing. I'm sure you know deep inside just how devoted she is to you. The jelousy thing is all in your head and you're the only one who can truely overcome it. Trust me, if something was going on or wasn't right you'd be the first one to hear about it from Faye. ^.~

Just relax and enjoy the sweet girl that loves you. And if you're worried about the age thing, don't. "Age ain't nothin but a number." It's all about the emotional maturity of individuals anyways. I peronally know a certain couple, where the girl is older than the guy and they're still madly in love after a very long time. ^.^ <3

Anyways.... I guess that's it for my late-night peptalk. blaugh

I hope this helps a little. xd
PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2005 4:01 am


Thank you Mystie. smile
*Hugs* You know, me thinks you are my role model. ~.^

Lung Qin Mei

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Mr. Ghost


PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2005 5:03 am


surprised 3nodding Thank you Mystie 3nodding
PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2005 7:12 pm


smile heart

Lung Qin Mei

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 9:53 am


sweatdrop the panda need help with something well i have a boyfriend on runescape and my ex boyfriend that also my best friend wasn't on there for a long time he didn't play on there but now he does for some reason eek now he calling me babes and when he was with me and my bf when to go shopping for something on the game the whole time my ex was with me he was blowing kisses eek but when my bf left to go to bed my ex ran by me and said he love me and i still have some feeling for him sweatdrop crying Help me please sweatdrop
PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 12:13 pm


eek

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 1:51 pm


gonk i knew i shouldn't wrote that gonk gonk gonk gonk
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