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Black_Rain

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:11 pm


bluecelebi
Well, I guess I need advice on something. I have this HUGE crush on a guy at my school and well, I think he's in the closet. Also, I see him stealing looks at me time to time. Plus, when I was at weight lifting he wanted to spot me for bench press in which he would stand pretty much straight over me while he was wearing shorts but he didn't do it for anyone else. The only problem is that we don't talk much.


Here's the plan ... you ask him if he wants to hang out. Something indiscriminate ... maybe extra weight lifting ... be casual.

Then start talking. Get to know him and I'm sure he'll open up, if he's interested.
I'm sure he's a closet case and I'm sure that he sees you as someone who is more confident and experianced ... even if you aren't.

Then ... soon or later ... you'll know whether or not he's into you. Or if you're not sure just post again ... and we'll give you some more advice. 3nodding
PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 10:20 pm


Kage Tsuki
Any tips to looking like a lesbien to other lesbiens but looking straight to those who aren't?


Yeah somebody tell me how to do that too. 3nodding

Though I think ... like there is a handerkief code. Like the bandanas you wear on your head. Like I think white = single lesbian?

Or something like that. I'm not very sure ... but God knows that I rock my CareBear bandana when my hair is hit up ... yo!

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2005 11:41 pm


Black_Rain
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Any tips to looking like a lesbien to other lesbiens but looking straight to those who aren't?


Yeah somebody tell me how to do that too. 3nodding

Though I think ... like there is a handerkief code. Like the bandanas you wear on your head. Like I think white = single lesbian?

Or something like that. I'm not very sure ... but God knows that I rock my CareBear bandana when my hair is hit up ... yo!

What about me lol, bi?
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I hope it's not something like a pink fluffy bunny or something like that eek
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 2:00 pm


If it was, youd stick out like, HORRIBLY eek .its probably not, but Hey id like to know too. I normally just wear those rubber color bracelets in rainbow order. lol but no one seems to notice so i just laugh.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 2:02 pm


XChi0102X
If it was, youd stick out like, HORRIBLY eek .its probably not, but Hey id like to know too. I normally just wear those rubber color bracelets in rainbow order. lol but no one seems to notice so i just laugh.

lol xp sweatdrop
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 4:33 pm


Black_Rain
bluecelebi
Well, I guess I need advice on something. I have this HUGE crush on a guy at my school and well, I think he's in the closet. Also, I see him stealing looks at me time to time. Plus, when I was at weight lifting he wanted to spot me for bench press in which he would stand pretty much straight over me while he was wearing shorts but he didn't do it for anyone else. The only problem is that we don't talk much.


Here's the plan ... you ask him if he wants to hang out. Something indiscriminate ... maybe extra weight lifting ... be casual.

Then start talking. Get to know him and I'm sure he'll open up, if he's interested.
I'm sure he's a closet case and I'm sure that he sees you as someone who is more confident and experianced ... even if you aren't.

Then ... soon or later ... you'll know whether or not he's into you. Or if you're not sure just post again ... and we'll give you some more advice. 3nodding


Wow, that seems like a great plan. Sadly though, we only are allowed in for one hour on specific days for weightlifting but maybe if there is a school project and I can get to him quick enough and it just so happens that we do get enough work done and have to do it at home so I can get a better place to talk to him. The only problem is the trying to get with me but not try to look desperate or something.

bluecelebi


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 6:13 pm


bluecelebi

Wow, that seems like a great plan. Sadly though, we only are allowed in for one hour on specific days for weightlifting but maybe if there is a school project and I can get to him quick enough and it just so happens that we do get enough work done and have to do it at home so I can get a better place to talk to him. The only problem is the trying to get with me but not try to look desperate or something.


That's where you throw in the all powerful cools words. "Sure" or "Whatever"

Those nonchalaunt words when you are asking him, then to ensure he doesn't think you're not interested throw in the sly grin.

It confuses the hell out of people. Maybe that's why I don't get dates ... and cause I'm a b***h ... I'm sure it's cause I'm a b***h! xd
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 7:14 pm


your not a b***h, unless you mean ownership wise, as in your someone's b***h. blaugh

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 7:28 pm


black rain? somebody's b***h? id guess the other way around...
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 7:31 pm


exactly so dont say your a b***h. unless your in a bad mood, now thats another story

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bluecelebi

PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 7:32 pm


XChi0102X
exactly so dont say your a b***h. unless your in a bad mood, now thats another story


lol blaugh
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 8:27 pm


word

haha_f00d


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2005 9:00 pm


lo0l!!! xp
PostPosted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 3:24 am


well thats good! biggrin I got everyone laughing and thats always a plus. YAY, happy
( stressed happy is the opposite of how I'll be today in 7per-typing... gonk
But after typing is over and I come home, i sign in here and POOF I'm happy!)

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 3:36 am


::Blinks::

I'm no one's b***h! I wish I was though ... sweatdrop
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