[Tigerlily]
1) I broke up with my ex (who is also my best guy friend) a few months ago, and I'm not sure how I feel about him. Does anyone know any way to tell?
2) I'm trying to casually date other guys (my ex was my first and only boyfriend), but what are some good/creative ways to ask a guy out?
1. Try destroying a picture of you and him. If you feel regret at all at any point of the destroying process, you still have feelings for him, though depending on where it happens. If you're looking at the picture and feel regret for destroying it, you have MAJOR feelings still. If it's right when you tossed it into the fire/tore it, you have some feelings. If it's when the destroying is done, you have minor feelings. If you don't regret it, you don't have feelings left
2. Don't. They should ask you out. If you DESPERATELY want to ask a guy out, don't. Do a "Mission Impossible" type scenario where you send him a tape with your dsigusied voice on it, telling him he needs to go to these certain places, and he needs a team member. One of the clues will give him a hint as to who it is he needs (which would be YOU). He shows up at your house and you pretend like you have NO idea what's going on. You follow all the clues and they end up someplace. I have some property where I live, so mine lead to there. If you don't have any property, just have it be a fun place where you and him can have fun together for a not-so-expensive price.