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Racism is one of the worst things to happen to human kind. Let put it this way...

Do the white cats exclude the black cats because their fur is a different color? No. So why are we doing it?

Oh great another one of these topics.

Look, get off it. My anscestors inslaved your anscestors. Oh woe is you. You should write a book. Oh wait? There's already millions of them.

Anybody who actually recognizes what is going on around them would relize that blacks are more rascist than whites. And I'll demonstrate. If I was to call you a ****** what would you think? I'd get cussed out and slaped. Now a black person goes up to another one "Yo ******, what's up?" and nothing is said, it's perfectly exceptable. And why are whites not allowed to say it to a black person? Because "the word has so much history to it" rolleyes *gag* I've got lists of examples but this is the most demonstrative.

Oh and here's another good one. Who's responsible for all black people's problems? The white men keepin' us down. It's not that they're to lazy to get off welfare and actually find a job or the fact that they kept opening their legs until they ended up with 10 children. No, it's the white men keepin' them down.

Also what about the sterotype that blacks aren't racist? Because they've just been through so much.

Yes, I do believe everyone is racist to some extent. And as far as the rap, if blacks don't want to be sterotyped by rap and tv and all that jazz then they can go peacefully march or some other crap. I agree that generalizing eventually leads to racism and prejudice. No, I don't agree with racism when it get to the extent of slavery or murder, but your not going to stop people from hating and being racist.

Also, your generalizing that everyone generalizes.

@Saints: It's not that they just had to go the other way? Or that they just didn't like those two black people in particular?

The world we live in seriously makes me sick.People todayare so sterotypical, and i don't mean everyone, certain people here and there. One time while I was at modeling class this one girl was telling us how people thought she was Indian because she was so tan (she's Italian), her response to them would be "How could you think I was Indian, I don't smell like sh*t!" Seriously now, that seems immature to me. I know sometimes the food they eat doesn't smell all that wonderful, and it rubs off onto their clothes, but to automatically have that response is rediculous! I have friends who are Indian, and they don't smell at all.

Another thing: I'm African-American and I love all types of music. Hip-hop, rap, rock, pop, classical, whatever I like them. It depends on the song. But I absolutely hate when I listen to rock music, and I'm into the song and suddenly someone goes, "Ew, why do you listen to rock music, your black." Uh, hello, I don't give. The color of my skin has absolutely nothing to do with what music goes into my ears. Just cuz I'm black doesn't mean I'm ONLY allowed to listen to rap and hip-hop. People who say that just get me so pissed off!

It's human nature to make generalizations and to stereotype. It's nature's nature, even. The white cat may not ostracize a black cat purely for their coat color, but he'd stay away from men if he had previously been abused by one. It's a form of self defense. One person cannot meet every other person in the world, so they just generalize that Joe Schmoe is a representation of whatever race/religon/culture/etc. he is from. You can't help but to do it, plain and simple. Don't even bother denying it, 'cause you're only lying to yourself. Even the most saintly of people can't fight instinct.

Now, I wouldn't go so far as to say everyone is racist or prejuidice. Those are some strong words there. What makes someone that extreme is acting on their generalizations. However, this does not make them an evil or bad person. Sure, it's not good to be racist. Sure, it's a very bad trait to have. Does that one thing destroy them as a person? Not at all. I have quite a few racist friends. I don't like what they say sometimes, and some of their jokes make me cringe, but I'm still their friend. Why? Because they aren't evil people. They're people who followed human nature, made some generalizations, and learned to expand on those generalizations from their families and culture.

People don't wake up one morning and suddenly decide to be racist or prejuidice. They're raised that way. Why on earth are you being so HATEFUL and PREJUIDICE against a group of people who didn't even choose to be the way they are? I know what you're thinking. "Gee, Kater, real smart. Those idiots can choose not to be racist, y'know." I've heard that arguement before. That's completely ridiculous. You can't suddenly wipe away a LIFETIME of memories, family get togethers, culture and thoughts. It doesn't worth that way. If people are /really/ racist, truthfully brought up to follow through with generalizations, thye really can't fight it. They'll still have those thoughts. It's the way they were raised.

Of course, they can try to not act on it. Among friends, however, things are said and done. And in the heat of the moment, even more hurtful things are said and done. Is it right? Of course not. Are they mean? They can be. Are they evil? No. Next time you think, "I hate racists and people who are prejuidice," just remember you're being no better than them by thinking such awful things about people you've never even met.

@Katersaur: I am quite aware that racism is a learned behavior. A lot of my friends have grown up in households where their parents are always talking about how the white man wronged blacks and how they don't want us to rise above and all that jazz. I don't agree with it, and I make it a point to say that I don't think like that. Of course you are right when you say that everyone judges because I do judge, I just try to be very open to any and all races.

I actually don't hate racists unless they go out of their way to be violent. I find racism to be a sad thing especially since science is pointing out that we all came from pretty much the same place, just groups of people have evolved at different rates. Plus, I feel that soon, the world's going to be full of mixes of ethnicities and races, so why is it such a big deal to the point where you hate a certain type of people because of their skin color?


@marshjazz: I accept the apology and I'm sorry if I seemed like a b***h for going off.

Also, I didn't mean to make it seem like whites are more racist than blacks. What I actually meant was that I don't think any one race is more racist than another, because every race has that one group of people who are racist or prejudiced.

And when I think racism, I think in terms of a white (or black, whoever) person seeing a person of a different color and just assuimg every bad stereotype against them and turning their nose up at them and saying things like "GTFO of my country! You don't belong here! I want to live in a seperate neighborhood from them because they'll corrupt my kids, and rape my wife, and try to kill me." Just out and out hatred. I can see if there was a bias, because me being black, of course I'm going to be more sided a black person because I feel a connection with them.

Now that situation I totally understand, and it truly embarasses me when I see a person acting like that because I can just imagine how it makes black people look. Also I understand you separating people that fall into the stereotypical "gangster" and people that don't. I myself hate being around anyone regardless of race that tries to be "gangster."

What I don't like is that some people don't separate the ones that fit the stereotype from the ones that don't. It bugs me when people come up to me and tries go out of their way to seem non-racist because they think at the drop of a hat me or my friends are going to lash out and call them racists or that we're going to mug them or we're trying hard to fit in and "act white," or when people are extra pushy with me because they think I'm some type of angry, ghetto, criminal. I get s**t from both races about this, and I feel like I'm just trying to be me, to me race doesn't influence personailty to the point where it's acting "black" or acting "white." Yes it is true that they're might be a few cutural differences, but I don't think it's so far as to say that there's a definate way to act white or act black.

Well, I do it completely by apperance. I don't like gangsters either. They're annoying and stupid.

Well, the different culture does have alot to do with it. I mean when I did something wrong when I was young, I was usually told "that's a no, no" Then later in life told stories about the trouble I got into when I was 3 and 4. Now when I walk into Walmart and see a balck mother with her 3 or 4 year old, it's just "no" to everything. "Do that one more time and you'll regret it" type of thing. Where as when I was younger it would have just been, "no-no, stay by mommy" The way that different races treat their young, the interactions we have as young children are everything. When we start off so different we end up different and differences make the world interesting, but they keep us apart as well. It seems like the majority of black people I have to put up with are annoying. What I've also noticed, is that by moving from my basically all white town to the getto is that by moving to the getto only made me be more racist in a way. Before when a black person came up to me I was like "hi" and now I just look down and try to ignore them and usually walk away. When I lived there I heard of maybe one murder/rape a month. Here, I hear it on the news about 3 a day. Now, I'm not saying that it is only blacks doing it, just that when I lived up there, the cops didn't do a 30 day clean up of an area of the town (which I go through twice a day to get to school) and find 3 or 4 whore houses about 10 crack houses and aresting about 75 people. That didn't happen. It seems that more blacks are in low income and seems like future generations are only going to end up in the same place.

Also, to make this clear I have a different definition of racist than what you have.
Racist - to see someone as different than oneself based on the idea that they are a different race.