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Okay, so I'm new at this whole admitting things. I'm usually very self conscious about myself and I don't like admitting things expecially not talking about my issues to others. But I got invited to this guild because my sister asked for me to join and I was looking around and I noticed that everyone seems really mature and helpful about everything so I decided to see if I could get some help.
Okay, so I'm 16 and I am about 5'2" and I'm 128 pounds. I went to the doctor recently and asked them if it was a healthy weight and how to lose my stomach because I have been wearing a sweater 24/7 to try to cover it up since I am very self conscious about everything. Besides that, I have frizzy curly hair and usually when I get in the shower a lot of hair comes out, is that normal? I also wanted to see if anyone had a good idea for a hair style for me, I'll provide two pictures of me to see if it helps.

Thank you, you helped a lot ^.^ I haven't found an exercise program or anything, but I was kind of hoping that I could just stick with doing 130-260 crunches every day on that new AB thingy, I forget what it's called sweatdrop
I also confronted my mom about my hair loss problem and she said that it probably just looks like a lot since its in a bunch. So I'm not going to worry about it for now unless it gets worse 3nodding

First off, wow, you're so pretty! heart

Secondly, I think I know exactly what you mean about the 'belly'. When I was, I dunno, sixteen or so I was exactly the same height and weight as you, and I had a bit of one too, though it's a perfectly healthy weight. I went off of soda and chips (I was having like, three sodas and day and a bag of chips) and in about three months I'd lost two inches off my stomach, no exercise involved. So if you drink a lot of soda or eat a lot of chips or something, it might just be that. Though remember that almost all women have a little bit of extra on their stomach (totally flat stomachs are, well, rare and not always possible depending on bodytype), so don't go crazy over it.

Also, if you do want a fun exercise, try playing DDR. :3 It's really fun! And remember that when you do crunches and such, you're not burning much fat, but you're building muscle. Then that muscle layers under whatever fat you might have, and it can actually make you look bigger, weidly enough. O.o Though more muscle will raise your metabolism, which is always good. And you'll have a really nice stomach after awhile! XD

Also, you may grow and change shape late; I did that too, after I turned eighteen.

As for your hair, losing what looks like a ton is normal as long as your hair isn't actually thinning out and you're not getting bald spots and such. For it being frizzy, do you use conditioner? Conditioner will really help it. I like your hair as it is now, but you might wanna try playing with ways to pin it up, or add ribbons or clips or something if you're bored with it. :3

Lol, would chips and soda actually work? I thought that that would make you gain more and on top of that give you bad zit problems. If I do grow out of it I'll be soo happy though and hopefully I'm as lucky as you XD
I recently did get a hair cut and I now have side bangs and I usually straighten my hair, but my main concern about my hairstyle is that I want to change it because my nose looks bigger sometimes since my nose is pretty big lol. So yeah I've been trying to find a hairstyle that would look nice and wouldn't make my nose stick out more than it does now. XD

Hehe, I meant NOT eat chips and soda. XD Yeah, the other way around doesn't work great. Especially when you add coffee and chocolate on top of it. You know, come to think of it, it's no wonder I'm unaffected by caffiene now. XDDD;

XD Your nose is cute! I have a rather big nose as well, not to mention it's also crooked and smashed because I broke it once or twice. XD Most people really don't notice or think about it, besides the person WITH the nose. XD So I don't worry about it. It helps add the exotic look. But if you really want to make it look smaller, it usually helps to just draw attention away from it.

Having hair down around your face will sometimes draw the eye to create a contrast between the size of all your features plus your hair, and your nose'll stand out. You might try putting your hair in a low ponytail, then pulling the rest of your hair up on the back of your head and clipping in it place with a big claw clip. It looks really nice and it seems to draw attention away from the contrasting sizes of facial features. Also, emphasizing your eyes or lips to draw attention to them will help too.

Lol, aww man I thought that I could get away with doing that XD Yeah, I really hate my nose, but I don't really know how to put my hair up without it looking like a total mess and utterly disgusting XD So I usually either just let my hair be curly and down or I straighten it.

Help bring it back. Purple Mooing Llamas...

Lol, I think I'll stick with walking too because I have large breasts too...one excuse for me hating to do gym class...maybe if I actually did it I wouldn't have this problem XD But yeah I'm a 38C and it really is uncomfortable running around especially if people see you and just stare or laugh at you >.>
Doing 20-30 wouldn't make me bigger since the muscle under the fat thing but it would eventually make a difference right?