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 Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 4:28 pm
For those of you have read my various (however insane) posts, you know that I'm bisexual and very open about liking girls. But I find myself in a very awful predicament as of now.
sweatdrop I'm not sure how to exactly say this so I'll just say as best as I can...
I think I like a guy. A lot. He's on Gaia and I've chatted with him a few times and I'm not exactly sure how to even start off a steady friendship with him. He seems so very aloof from my world. I've never really felt even remotely this way towards a guy before. Just those butterflies in your stomach whenever you see his posts kind of thing. Maybe I'm going insane and need to put myself down. Just like the horses outside my window.
From the girl with a computer that's in a room that smells like a barn...Please give me some advice! I'm so utterly lost right now!
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 4:48 pm
Well it certainly means that you are bisexual with having this feeling for a guy. I think the easiest thing you can do is just PM him about something, most guys have a good sence of humor something funny or the like. smile Personally i like being as random as possible but thats what college does to people ninja xp
*ahem*
See if you share a common interest that you could start to talk to him about or if you feel that won't work try just being open like, 'I find you attractive' or something...
Yeah i'm a mite hopless at this sort of thing but you never know it might help... smile
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:03 pm
yes like he said.. you could just talk to him ^__^ ... does he lives near to you or something like that???
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:42 pm
plumanegra yes like he said.. you could just talk to him ^__^ ... does he lives near to you or something like that??? Eh...*tries not to reveal said person*...sort of. Where I used to live anyways. Dark lore: I don't know...I think I would give myself away if I said anything to him or just randomly pmed him. I'm not subtle somehow. I just don't have the fine art of lying down. I've never been a good liar.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:47 pm
Pilas plumanegra yes like he said.. you could just talk to him ^__^ ... does he lives near to you or something like that??? Eh...*tries not to reveal said person*...sort of. Where I used to live anyways. Dark lore: I don't know...I think I would give myself away if I said anything to him or just randomly pmed him. I'm not subtle somehow. I just don't have the fine art of lying down. I've never been a good liar. Ah not too good then... hmm I don't really know what else you can do, but then again its late and i'm not thinking properly, yet...
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:49 pm
Dark Lore Pilas plumanegra yes like he said.. you could just talk to him ^__^ ... does he lives near to you or something like that??? Eh...*tries not to reveal said person*...sort of. Where I used to live anyways. Dark lore: I don't know...I think I would give myself away if I said anything to him or just randomly pmed him. I'm not subtle somehow. I just don't have the fine art of lying down. I've never been a good liar. Ah not too good then... hmm I don't really know what else you can do, but then again its late and i'm not thinking properly, yet... What would you do if some girl randomly pmed you?
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:55 pm
Pilas Dark Lore Pilas plumanegra yes like he said.. you could just talk to him ^__^ ... does he lives near to you or something like that??? Eh...*tries not to reveal said person*...sort of. Where I used to live anyways. Dark lore: I don't know...I think I would give myself away if I said anything to him or just randomly pmed him. I'm not subtle somehow. I just don't have the fine art of lying down. I've never been a good liar. Ah not too good then... hmm I don't really know what else you can do, but then again its late and i'm not thinking properly, yet... What would you do if some girl randomly pmed you? Ah quite true, but did you know him for some while? I wouldn't get freaked out if someone PM'd me saying they liked me if i knew them some time ago/knew them in general... (see i'm not thinking straight)
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:55 pm
I randomly pmed lore once before we met or I even made thisguild to tell him how hot I thougt he was.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:56 pm
Could you try to meet him in a crowded place? Or have you already? Internet relationships are great and maybe you could be satisfied with just that. If he's a boy and you are bisexual, then you can have a great relationship as girlfriend and boyfriend.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 5:58 pm
Kazlyn I randomly pmed lore once before we met or I even made thisguild to tell him how hot I thougt he was. *grin* blaugh
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:01 pm
Just make up an excuse as to why you PMed him. Like say something about his sig or about something he said in a post or something. Try to start a conversation both of you can add to and enjoy then just go with it from there. Yes, it'll be harder then I make it out to be but it's worth a try.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:07 pm
4laugh You guys are so great! But now I'm going to think about how to talk to him...a conversation starter. Now I'm really paranoid though. What if he finds out? Ack! What if I come off as entirely psycho? Well...I'm acting insane right now aren't I... sweatdrop
I suppose I don't know him well enough to just come out and tell him that I like him. He would probably think I was just funny or something. Can I pm one of you guys to get one on one advice? I think it would help. But I still want mass opinions here because it gives me excellent thoughts. More perspectives than I can think up on my own.
*pulls pencil out of bun* I have to write some of this stuff done because I broke my printer... 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:08 pm
Dark Lore Kazlyn I randomly pmed lore once before we met or I even made thisguild to tell him how hot I thougt he was. *grin* blaugh hrmm do you remember that? Or did you get too many of them lol.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:10 pm
Pilas 4laugh You guys are so great! But now I'm going to think about how to talk to him...a conversation starter. Now I'm really paranoid though. What if he finds out? Ack! What if I come off as entirely psycho? Well...I'm acting insane right now aren't I... sweatdrop I suppose I don't know him well enough to just come out and tell him that I like him. He would probably think I was just funny or something. Can I pm one of you guys to get one on one advice? I think it would help. But I still want mass opinions here because it gives me excellent thoughts. More perspectives than I can think up on my own. *pulls pencil out of bun* I have to write some of this stuff done because I broke my printer... 3nodding You can PM me anytime you want to. I always respond to them and if not right when I get them, but shortly after.
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Posted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:12 pm
xXgrizzlyXx Just make up an excuse as to why you PMed him. Like say something about his sig or about something he said in a post or something. Try to start a conversation both of you can add to and enjoy then just go with it from there. Yes, it'll be harder then I make it out to be but it's worth a try. yeah I see that as a good solution to... Just talk to him a lot... If you can make person to person contact well just send some subtle si ngs... practice to be subtle... Im known for beeing a lot more subtle than necsesarry... ^__^ try to get time with him evry chance that you have... but dont stalk him ok.. and the most important thing relax be your self ^___^
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