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 Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 1:48 pm
Damn i hate it but im falling for my best friend. But he is strait *sighs* It realy sucks, so i hide my feeligns. Has any one ever been through this?
((Im not a member of this guild yet, but im waiting to be accepted so i hope its allright to make a post))
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:03 pm
I avoid dating and all other beyond-friends relationships, so I never have that problem.
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:04 pm
I know, but it hard, i try to avoid it but, uh, well im falling for him and im not trying too *sighs*
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 8:52 pm
I'm having the exact same problem. But he knows I'm gay, so it won't be a complete and utter shock if/when I end up telling him. He may just be a bit weirded out.
Or maybe, if I'm lucky, he could turn out to be bi/curious. whee
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Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 12:32 am
AHKyle I'm having the exact same problem. But he knows I'm gay, so it won't be a complete and utter shock if/when I end up telling him. He may just be a bit weirded out. Or maybe, if I'm lucky, he could turn out to be bi/curious. whee No my best friend knwos I am bi, and he has made it celar he is strait. Thats the problem. But ironicly i found out just today one of my other firends i know is bi curius O.o He was some oen i didnt tell i was Bi, and he strait out and asked my of my orientation cause he had never asked me and was jsut wondering, i was always afriad he judge me if i told him i was, but i told him and he todl me he was bi curius and wanted to experiment. Just touching. I was in shock on that one. I never would have suspected or even expect him to ask me that question and tell me flat out he was bi curius.
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Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 9:27 pm
Well, at least you had someone to experiment with.
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 7:59 pm
Well, I fell for my best friend but my problem is opposite yours. He's recently come to terms with the fact that he is gay. He has no feelings toward girls other than as friends. So I understand being in love with someone you can never be anything other than friends. There's a quote I read that I really like.
"Should I smile because we’re friends, or cry because that’s all we’ll ever be?"
I've decided that I will smile because at least I'm his best friend.
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 8:40 pm
Aw. Well at least there's nothing to question. If you know he won't be able to like you, then it eliminates that painful feeling of "Maybe he might like me.". I wish that feeling would go away for me, because it's really difficult to keep being on and off faithful that something might happen, when chances are nothing good will happen.
I just want us to still be friends regardless. I hope he'll understand that.
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 2:08 pm
Don't worry, acctulay I am going throught the same thing right now. Just tell him, he'll understand. mrgreen
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:55 pm
I know how that feels. There's a girl in my math class that I've really fallen for... but she's straight, as far as I know. The thing is, she's always clinging to me and commenting on how cute I am and stuff. Could just be a girl thing, idk, but yeah... if you've known him for a while, I'd just come out and tell him how you feel. It's really not good bottling things up. The only reason I haven't told her how I feel yet is because we just met a couple of weeks ago and I really don't want to screw up our friendship.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 2:17 pm
i am not part of the guild but i wanted to post something
i am in love with my best best friend.she doesn't know that i am bi though.i used to get so horny around her 2! she ,at that time, was a size 34b at that time and she always wore a low cut shirt.i would always tell her she has somethin on her shirt just so i could wipe it off and i would squeeze her boob in the process.every night that i spent the night at her house i would unbutton her shirt to look at her nipples.i still do that..i am in love with her.i want to f** her so bad.she is the sexiest girl in school and i need her to f** me!
i know wat ur going through.....but i am luck,she french kissed me and wer r now going out blaugh biggrin
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 11:39 pm
you know what's funny, my friend kissed me on the geek as an inside joke though the irony is he doesn't know i kinda liked it though i couldn't let him know... specially since he has a girlfriend cry though i do have to question him as he keeps saying as joke that him and my other friend are common law cause they live in a apt. together so i'm not to sure lol
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 1:32 am
I went through the same thing, still am in a way. I fell for my friend, then she found out. Lucky for me she knows that I'm bi, and so is cool with it. It didn't ruin our friendship, it strengthed it. When she found out, she told me that she's straight, in my case, it's better to be honest then to just bottle up my feelings and act as if they aren't there. It's hard knowing that she'll never feel the same way as I do. But it was harder not telling her how I felt.
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 2:11 am
Adam Issac Nagali Damn i hate it but im falling for my best friend. But he is strait *sighs* It realy sucks, so i hide my feeligns. Has any one ever been through this? ((Im not a member of this guild yet, but im waiting to be accepted so i hope its allright to make a post)) Story of my life... I know how you feel... seems the only people I ever fall for are my friends... I mean I love them as friends its such a small step to love them as more than that... 4 to count now... hang in there mate.
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 6:12 am
I want to say that with your best friend its almost expected because truly no one knows you better, and there is a connection between you two (or us two since i'm speakin from exp lol) but its not something to act on because you don't want to damage the kinship you two already posess.
As far as dealing with this i've found its better to put a barrier around those you truly love and care for as friends in order to not make that fatal "friend killer" move.
as for me my best friend knows i'm gay and i know he's straigt right off the bat when i told him he was cool with it and didn't really care and has been supportive ever since xd trust me its good to have a best friend and then some day(with some one else) have a boy friend
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