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Badgergrrrl

PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 9:38 am


I was just wondering any of the other proud BBW's or BHM's here still felt embarrassed about certain parts of their bodies despite being proud of their size. If you feel comfortable sharing, which parts, and why?

This has basically started because I've gained a little weight again, and its noticeable around my chin, and I don't like how it looks. I was wondering if anyone else could sympathize.

Also, this has spurred me to start a series of drawings in which I address this, called "Still Shamed." So far I've done 2 - "Chin" and "Gut," but I want there to be many more. Its a BBW series, not BHM, but any input is most welcome. I'm also going to post the series here when its done.

Thanks guys!
PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 9:57 am


I've been displeased with my chin for some time, as well as my stomach... I don't mind the shape, it's just too big crying I totally am planning on excersizing and dieting, if I can ever get home from work and not be limping around already sweatdrop crying

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 10:46 am


As a whole, I'm usually proud of my body because I go against all the stereotypes of larger women. I love how people assume I can't walk very far or lift heavy things. I prove them wrong like crazy. biggrin I have to admit that I still feel very uncomfy with my chin, arms, and stomach. I'm cool with everything else because my bf won't stop praising me over it... sweatdrop he's so sweet. (and incredibly amorous but that is another tale... twisted ) I think i will be fine once i lose a little weight. (not dropping my plus size title, though. i will be happy in a size 16. 3nodding )
PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 12:52 pm


I very much dislike my thighs. ><
I'm proud of pretty much everything else, except them. If I could lose maybe an inch off of them, I'd love them. They'd still be thick, but I'd appreciate their "thunder" more. ;]

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The Dread Pirate Ghosty

PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 11:14 pm


[`~Riku~`]
I very much dislike my thighs. ><
I'm proud of pretty much everything else, except them. If I could lose maybe an inch off of them, I'd love them. They'd still be thick, but I'd appreciate their "thunder" more. ;]
I forgot my thighs, but I hate them...

They rub together and it hurts gonk

I wouldn't mind if they didn't rub together, no matter how fat they were... just as long as I could wear skirts without pain! crying
PostPosted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 2:18 pm


the only things i hate about my body are my:

1) elbows (when it kinda hangs over a little bit... yea, you know what i'm talking about)

2) my boobs. i dont like 'em very much, i think i'm pretty much one of the only BBW's on here that doesnt like their boobs. i think they're too small and i dont like their shape >.<

3) my calves. but i just dont really like calves in general

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Badgergrrrl

PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 11:30 am


The Dread Pirate Ghosty
I forgot my thighs, but I hate them...

They rub together and it hurts gonk

I wouldn't mind if they didn't rub together, no matter how fat they were... just as long as I could wear skirts without pain! crying


I know exactly what you mean! I hate that! I wear these really flowy skirts all the time, and often have to wear pants under them so my skin won't get sores. Ugh.

MadameStoner
the only 2) my boobs. i dont like 'em very much, i think i'm pretty much one of the only BBW's on here that doesnt like their boobs. i think they're too small and i dont like their shape >.<


Its not just you. I don't like my boobs that much either, but for very different reasons.

And thank so much to everyone who's contributed so far!!! heart
PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 2:08 pm


>.< I hate my gut.

Kekfa


Sweet Emily Blysse

PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 10:35 pm


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I'm self conscious about everything on me besides my boobs.. And my neck <3 I used to love my stomach, because I never got too much fat there but lately it's been growing there more too!!
I am afraid to wear tight clothing.. Or cap-sleeves too, because my upper arms have some celuliteness in certain lighting.. Mabye all lighting -.- It it were pretty and smooth, I wouldn't mind. It sucks cause I won't wear tank tops and sometimes it's so hot -.- My legs are bad too, I have thickish ankles/legs mostly with muscle and then fat overtop so it's just.. ugh (and have cellulite), I never wear shorts or skirts without tights.. And tall boots. One of my ex-boyfriends once told me to "get your big legs off of me." when he was bitchy one day and I have never forgotten it.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 9:10 am


Sweet Emily Blysse
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I'm self conscious about everything on me besides my boobs.. And my neck <3 I used to love my stomach, because I never got too much fat there but lately it's been growing there more too!!
I am afraid to wear tight clothing.. Or cap-sleeves too, because my upper arms have some celuliteness in certain lighting.. Mabye all lighting -.- It it were pretty and smooth, I wouldn't mind. It sucks cause I won't wear tank tops and sometimes it's so hot -.- My legs are bad too, I have thickish ankles/legs mostly with muscle and then fat overtop so it's just.. ugh (and have cellulite), I never wear shorts or skirts without tights.. And tall boots. One of my ex-boyfriends once told me to "get your big legs off of me." when he was bitchy one day and I have never forgotten it.
That's a horrible thing to say to your girlfriend, even if your bitchy. If I've been setting on my boyfriend in a position that makes him uncomfortable (weather or not it's my legs or me in his lap) he just helps me adjust to where it's comfy for us both.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 5:58 pm


I HAVE CANKLES.

AND I FEEL LIKE I LOOK PREGNANT. gonk

-passes out-
PostPosted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 5:27 pm


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I HAVE CANKLES.

AND I FEEL LIKE I LOOK PREGNANT. gonk

-passes out-


Gah, do not pass out! *revives you*

Thanks for the contribution, I hadn't thought of ankles. And thanks to Sweet Amily Blysse too! And whoever else I haven't thanked yet sweatdrop

Finally, ta da! Here's the first four pieces of the series. I'm still not sure how many there will be in the end, but I thought you all might like to see my progress:

Arm
Butt
Chin
Gut

Badgergrrrl


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 12:19 am


I'm mostly insecure about my stomach & my sides. I can deal with the rest of my body for the most part. My real wish is that I was more symmetrical and that my scars left from my weird skin thing were gone.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 4:30 am


kidsis
I'm mostly insecure about my stomach & my sides.


Ah, I hadn't thought of of sides either. Thanks!

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 10:53 am


Another thought: Legs. Specifically: thighs, caves & knees (I guess that's the whole leg, huh? but I digress....) While I haven't really had the knee problem (mine look pretty good, if I say so myself sweatdrop ) I just noticed that my otherwise perfect calves have developed a pocket of cellulite @ the top. & I'm getting varicose veins gonk
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