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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 8:25 pm
how many of you have lost someone u truly loved, and not talking about family. doesnt matter how you lost them, whether because they died, moved, or simply changed to much from the one u fell in love with.
with me, im going to lose the first girl i ever truly loved because she's switching schools, and ive been destroyed really since i found out, ive thought of killing myself, destroying myself, giving up on everything, just because im gonna lose her.
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 8:46 pm
You're not going to lose her.
The internet, the way it is these days, makes long distance relationships better than ever before.
Don't do anything too drastic! Even if you lose her for now, maybe you will see her again. heart
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 9:23 pm
actually, i find it so hard to talk to her online, oh, and we're not going out.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 2:33 am
It's all part of the circle of life my dear. It's a learning situation. We are all faced with many stages of life we must clear. <3 you'll make it through. Hold on. Be brave. *hugs*
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:26 pm
be brave? not something i can really do since i have no self esteem or courage, i chose to pretty much live in silence instead of having those things.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:33 pm
The~Shadow~Dancer be brave? not something i can really do since i have no self esteem or courage, i chose to pretty much live in silence instead of having those things. I know it's always hard to imagine things from others perspectives and stuff, but I was EXACTLY like you. I hated myself, I had so many issues. You need to keep an open mind to the future and realize there's PLENTY of time for change, PLENTY of time in the world to make new turns and decisions. It's never OVER unless you loose the will to go on. And really... why stop? Isn't it fun to see what's next? Like, wow... I sure didn't expect that heart
*hugs you tight*
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:37 pm
thx for the hugs, but im probably like tis cuz im just sick of being alone in this world, i want someone to hold on to, to really talk to, but i cant seem to catch that break.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:39 pm
The~Shadow~Dancer thx for the hugs, but im probably like tis cuz im just sick of being alone in this world, i want someone to hold on to, to really talk to, but i cant seem to catch that break. I can promise you, I've been through it too. Don't ever be afraid to PM me with anything you might want to talk about. I love to listen and lend advice. I have found my place in this world and it's to help others keep faith in themselves and life in general. smile Please add me to your friendlist.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:41 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 2:15 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:43 pm
I used to be like that too. Once I stopped putting importance in having a "special someone", life seemed to improve. I figure that it's not happening right now for a reason, so there's no point in obsessing over it. As far as I'm concerned, you have to know yourself before you can start to truly know someone else. When someone thinks with their heart more than their head, they can make the mistake of thinking that they love someone when they really don't. Makes me wish that I could go back and slap my middle school self sometimes.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:48 pm
if i could go back in time to my old self, i'd tell him not to break up with the gf i had back then, cuz ever since then, life has been hell.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 5:02 pm
The~Shadow~Dancer if i could go back in time to my old self, i'd tell him not to break up with the gf i had back then, cuz ever since then, life has been hell. I see all relationships as pretty much setting up for the next. So young in life, I promise you, they are all just learning steps. You were probably not meant to be with her forever, but I'm sure you wish it could have lasted longer. Just wishes. Don't worry about it. wink There's SOOOO much more time dear. Soooo much more.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 5:07 pm
PukeFacedFreak The~Shadow~Dancer if i could go back in time to my old self, i'd tell him not to break up with the gf i had back then, cuz ever since then, life has been hell. I see all relationships as pretty much setting up for the next. So young in life, I promise you, they are all just learning steps. You were probably not meant to be with her forever, but I'm sure you wish it could have lasted longer. Just wishes. Don't worry about it. wink There's SOOOO much more time dear. Soooo much more.the relationship only lasted about a month, maybe a month and a half, and that was 4 yrs ago. so im very lonely at this point.
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Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 5:19 pm
The~Shadow~Dancer PukeFacedFreak The~Shadow~Dancer if i could go back in time to my old self, i'd tell him not to break up with the gf i had back then, cuz ever since then, life has been hell. I see all relationships as pretty much setting up for the next. So young in life, I promise you, they are all just learning steps. You were probably not meant to be with her forever, but I'm sure you wish it could have lasted longer. Just wishes. Don't worry about it. wink There's SOOOO much more time dear. Soooo much more.the relationship only lasted about a month, maybe a month and a half, and that was 4 yrs ago. so im very lonely at this point. Best advice I can give you: work on friendship. Through friendship you learn communication and THAT is something NECESSARY in LIFE. Without that, you can't ever hope for a good romantic relationship. The only person you can ever count on is yourself. Take pride in who you are, search yourself and learn new things and by doing that, you grow and mature and other people will take interest in that. Flowers bud all scrawny and fat and prickly... and finally, they learn to grow into all those curves and are plesant to everyone around them,... because they grew into themselves. Being a better person for you, means being a better person for everyone else.
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