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My name is Suzy, I'm 17, I weigh 250 pounds and I'm like 5' tall. I like NIN, videogames, Hello Kitty, American McGee's Alice, cute hairclippies, painting/drawing, oldschool cartoons ect. That's a pic of me in the siggy.

I live in a small town that is full of narrowminded people that are glued to their tv's and popular magazines with skinny models. I hate it. I feel WRONG.

So how do guys REALLY feel about fat girls?

I'm not a slob and I'm really picky about cleanliness and getting all "dolled" up and stuff, for no reason really. I've never dated a guy and I blame it on my weight.

I've tried losing it in the past but I failed.

I want to know what guys think, and I want them to be 100% honest even if it's mean. I want to know.

I'm an overweight woman myself....and frankly I'm begining to like (to some extent, for I weight 360 something and am a bit unhealthy at this point) my extra pounds. I mean...to me it simply looks more feminine and attractive. But this is because everyone in my family is overweight...even if it is a little bit. Our schools around here sound about like yours...but it doesn't matter. There are still quite a few fat people and the closeminded skinny ones really can't change that....no matter how mean they are. Personally I could never see myself horribly skinny....below or at average weight. I mean...I think I look ok the way I am. I'm not perfect. No one is. But I like to think that perfect is with a little extra junk in the trunk. 3nodding

EDIT: I misunderstood the question! Whoo! Anyway...yes, some guys will like big girls. Just like some guys like red heads....dark skinned, green eyed girls. *shrugs*

I ,personally, think the "bigger" women are sexy. But a lot of guys also think that being overweight is horrible, and that all women should be extremely thin just to be pleasing to their eye. But for me, if they got a nice personality, thats pretty much all I look for.

Like the other guys said, this isn't a standard sample of the population. The fact is that most guys, whether through social influence or inherent drive are attracted to skinnier women more than larger women.

I personally feel that when it comes to females the bigger the better, with the area I find most attractive being the belly. As long as a girl isn't seriously hindered in mobility or health she is not too fat in my eyes. I am attracted to fat girls, and very view truly thin girls hold any allure for me. But most guys aren't like I am.

"Hmm, these guys are right. I find I'm highly attracted to women like yourself. From the sounds of it you're not so big that most guys would find you unattractive. But then again, most guys are assholes."

*Pokes* "Like I said, we should talk 3nodding ."

Since we're being honest now, my taste in women varies from woman to woman. Im the guy that still believes in personality, reguardless of size is one of the main reasons why you are with that person. If the woman happens to be skinny, thats cool. But she happens to be chubbby, plump...fat...obese or whatever. As long as we click, then its all good.

Back to the question at hand..lol...i find really big girls highly attractive though. If i had a choice at looking at skinny girls all day or big, vuluptuous ones...id have to go with choice number 2. But thats just me. ^__^

you are incredibly beautiful. i wiegh the same and am the same height. so i know exactly where you are comming from. and see our thing is...since we are so short we carry our weight sooo differently...we are smashed into a tiny package. but i have noticed that guys like that. not that i have much luck with it. but i think the big thing is personality. i decided to test it.. one day i dressed kinda scruby, flip flops, no makeup at all, and baggy clothing and acted super shy and stuff then when to the mall. guys didnt even see me. not a single look. but then i went in a pair of nice jeans and a cute t-shirt and just acted like myself. all laughs. and i must say i even got hit on.

but then agian all guys are different. and most guys wont even give you the time of day. so i figure..dont even bother with them.

I must be over tired cause it took me at least 5 minute's to figure out what you ment there I thought you were contradicting yourself . I know what you mean now.