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 Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:56 pm
When people describe you, and he says that your fat or chubby in that description, do you mind when that person says that?
Do you feel uncomfortable or hurt? Are you okay with it and find nothing wrong?
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:01 pm
I wear a shirt with
PHATSO
on the front I love being fat!
Incidently the back reads:
"Get it ya skinny b***h"
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:26 pm
It depends on how it's said.
If the person goes "OMG she is sooooo fat ewww gross."
I obviously have a problem with that.
But if they are doing it in a way thats not offensive, like say they were trying to describe me to someone and they say "Oh, she's the girl who always wears the hoodie, who is fat" then I'm all good with that.
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:45 pm
I agree with the person above me.
If they don't mean it offensive, I don't take it offensive.... I am fat, so I can't really get pissy at them for that.
Although I prefer being described as chubby rather than fat, unless I'm saying it.
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:55 pm
I agree...only because when I was teased in high school, I was called fat most of the time. Chubby doesn't bother me, big doesn't bother me, but fat does.
I guess it was a term I never liked. It was only a noun to me at first, like the fat content in food or on a person. As I got older it was being used on me as an adjective...like I no longer had a name. Fat was my label, and apparently it disgusted people. Bleh but anyway that's a whole other story...didn't mean to bring the thread into downer-ville!!
Um, here let me bring the thread back up...uh... BUNNIES!! sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 6:11 pm
LaRoseNoir I agree...only because when I was teased in high school, I was called fat most of the time. Chubby doesn't bother me, big doesn't bother me, but fat does. I guess it was a term I never liked. It was only a noun to me at first, like the fat content in food or on a person. As I got older it was being used on me as an adjective...like I no longer had a name. Fat was my label, and apparently it disgusted people. Bleh but anyway that's a whole other story...didn't mean to bring the thread into downer-ville!! Um, here let me bring the thread back up...uh... BUNNIES!! sweatdrop
But yay! Bunnies! whee
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 6:22 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 6:45 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty I agree with the person above me.
If they don't mean it offensive, I don't take it offensive.... I am fat, so I can't really get pissy at them for that.
Although I prefer being described as chubby rather than fat, unless I'm saying it. i agree with you! <3
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:46 pm
I love my body and I'm very confident, but someone describing me and using either one of those words would bother me.
I wouldn't describe anyone as being skinny and I wouldn't describe anyone as being fat because I find both rude. I guess I'm like my best friend, who gets bothered when people describe her as skinny. It is probably because you grow up with "fat" and "chubby" as being insults. Even if you don't think they are insults, the person using the words probably think of them that way. I don't need to be insulted.
Now..the words "bigger" or "smaller" are completely different.
(I don't know how to make sense sweatdrop ....sorry.)
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 9:28 am
I take it offensively even if it isn't supposed to be. Ever since the 3rd grade when I first gained extra weight, when this one boy called me fat.
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 10:22 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 7:14 pm
Lord Xtheth I wear a shirt with PHATSOon the front I love being fat! Incidently the back reads: "Get it ya skinny b***h" lmfao i want a shirt like that
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 8:09 pm
I don't want someone to say I'm fat.
I don't say other people are fat.
I would rather use ... "kinda big"
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 11:32 am
I agree with many peoples here already. I don't mind those terms as long as they're not used derogatorily. I prefer, however, "big" and "plump," if I get to pick.
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 8:30 pm
it all depends on how it's meant.. if it's said mean spirited, i'll stab ight back.. if not.. i really don't care.. i am fat.. i can't deny it
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