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 Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:32 am
I don't wanna write a big a** story about it so i'll summarise it...
There was this girl and i met her in the disco.. we danced and we really connected there... Everything was fun and cool we exchanged numbers and we talked a few times.. then we dated again and still the connection was there.. I really liked her and she was cute and so laid back.. i felt trusted.. she told me everything, she shared her feelings with me, just the way i like it!
We got into a relationship... but after 5 months or so she mailed me and for me everything was still fine untill i read the email.... it said she didn't felt love anymore and the distance between us (20 minutes with the car) was too long for her... she couldn't keep up this relationship...
I was heart broken.. I didn't see this comming, especially not in an email... I always told her how i hated if girls dump guys in emails or by sms... so i asked her never to do that.. but she did, totally insensitive to my feelings.. I really didn't see it comming, i believed we were going to be together forever....
She scarred me pretty bad... I still got her email adress password and I mailed her a few times.. and i read in mails to her friends saying how she thought i was an idiot and i was still stalking her (i just asked how she was doing and stuff..) And when i went chatting with her she acted really nice...
dang she's a decieving woman..... I'm still a bit uncertain (and jelous) because of this .... I was afraid to love again and to trust a girl in a relationship... It's still hard for me sometimes...
but i'm now happy in a relationship of about a year and 3 months.. biggrin but that i'd had to share with you ( i still have my jelous moments... razz )
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 4:56 am
That truly sucks!
I understand your situation. But hey!
Cheer up ;P u got urself a pretty nice girl atm.
Although she gave me a compliment doesnt she doesnt love you
anymore.
Cheer up wink
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 4:59 am
Sieu That truly sucks! I understand your situation. But hey! Cheer up ;P u got urself a pretty nice girl atm. Although she gave me a compliment doesnt she doesnt love you anymore. Cheer up wink i know.. but it's my own jelousy that raises up at that time.. i'm worried razz I'm too protective i guess 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:36 am
ok if this makes you feel more comfortable
She's IEEEUWW
;XD
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:51 am
To be honest with you
Ive met a deceiving girl myself
She kept on deceiving me so I did nice to her :S.
What a biotch.
So one day when i was like, i told her I didnt like her anymore
she went all mad and spilled it all out.
She also said she loved me ( ... ahhuh )
so much for love.
I rather be single *flex flex FLEX*! biggrin
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:26 am
Sieu To be honest with you Ive met a deceiving girl myself She kept on deceiving me so I did nice to her :S. What a biotch. So one day when i was like, i told her I didnt like her anymore she went all mad and spilled it all out. She also said she loved me ( ... ahhuh ) so much for love. I rather be single *flex flex FLEX*! biggrin but you gotta admit too... you got scarred too.. you got hurt too and maybe you loving to be single is a defence you throw up because you're scared to get hurt again xd women can be so insensetive and beasts sometimes.. XD
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 12:48 pm
I was hurt
i was scarred
but not for long I wasnt :S
and NO! THAT IS TOTALLY WRONG
I DO NOT ENJOY SINGLE TO DEFEND MYSELF >.O
SPEAK FOR URSELF SON!
>.O!
i like to be single cause i like the freedome
and the things IIII control.
Ok dont compare me with you talk2hand
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:57 am
Sieu I was hurt i was scarred but not for long I wasnt :S and NO! THAT IS TOTALLY WRONG I DO NOT ENJOY SINGLE TO DEFEND MYSELF >.O SPEAK FOR URSELF SON! >.O! i like to be single cause i like the freedome and the things IIII control. Ok dont compare me with you talk2hand I feel the hate xd don't be mad... i was just wondering..
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:21 am
That sucks, but at least she didn't drag anything on and on. It was wrong of her to do that through e-mail though. That's not right.
But at least you're happy now. whee 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 5:58 am
Man can be insensetive and beasts smoetimes as well...
I met once that guy who was like...smooth talker and after some while i noticed that he was trying to get me in his bad only...
nice relationship rolleyes for him xp
Anyway, that girl is weird, distance shouldn't matter and emails don't work. It's much better to tell it in the face. At least you don't feel guilty and you know that you are over it. ( Last chance to dubble check that wink )
But, i've the feeling that she was under friends' pressure... maybe they forced her to finish it by telling her bad stuff about you...
Anyway, if you are for one year and 3 months happy with your new girl, what's your problem? xp See short relationships as an experience wink and enjoy the life and the wild ride...
I'm still not over my ex...
After... 4 years almost eek
Now THAT 's a problem rolleyes sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 12:06 pm
Dont be so defensive Lana ;P
I think it mostly depends on the person itself.
not on their gender.
I know some girls who are abusive
I know guys who are
( my friends arent ;o )
And yes , THAT is a problem xd
I love life, I love life alot!
Even though Im single and noone wants me.
Big deal! I find happiness else where..
like the Efteling ;3
a new attraction is out!!!!111 ^___^
cant wait to go there o_o like in now and 1.5 month!
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 1:37 pm
Okay~ I have a problem~! (which is very rare itself since...ahh forget it)
Like like~! What's a nice way of turning someone down~? D:
It's hard...and I hate it...I feel like I'm such an ebil person when I
do it ._. So like...help please~? Oh and this includes both genders so..
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 9:05 am
I think the only thing you can really do is sit them down and tell them honestly that you don't have feelings for them that way. And maybe say you wouldn't mind being friends or such..
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 2:33 am
candy_loves_candy I think the only thing you can really do is sit them down and tell them honestly that you don't have feelings for them that way. And maybe say you wouldn't mind being friends or such..
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 5:49 am
Lady_Laguna candy_loves_candy I think the only thing you can really do is sit them down and tell them honestly that you don't have feelings for them that way. And maybe say you wouldn't mind being friends or such.. Me neither and it's not mean and it's clear. Better than avoiding someone and things like that. 3nodding
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