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 Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 2:14 am
Okay. I'm just a baby when it comes to this sort of stuff. I'm 15, and have just got my first official girlfriend (I love you Tahnee!).
But, remembering a question from before we started going out, how do I tell is someone is gay? does anyone have some tactics for asking other poeple out?
I mean, do I just flirt with someone untill they tell me to piss off, as they're not gay? I cant exactly go to gay bars, so...
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 6:26 am
Heh.. If you have those really camp people who are just almost girls, but in a male body, then you can most surely just tell.. I just haven't been able to tell from a girl yet.. I don't know.. I've met about 3 gays so far (well, who hadn't come out yet) and at least one of them has come out of the closet now.. heart
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 10:58 am
IDK, but with most people you can just tell. Guys are easier...girls are a little more compicated...but yea...my friend was in the closet and i just went up to her once when i felt in the mood and went "Are you bi?" and her eyes got wide and she went "Oh god...is it obvious??" No...just wondering and i walked away. We're great friends now...can talk about most anything. Soo..yea, idk felt like sharing that.
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 12:37 pm
Sorry, it double posted...Read my reply below. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 12:38 pm
I find it easier to tell bi and lesbian girls from bi and gay guys if they are trying to hide what they are somewhat... It's sort of intution, though.
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 1:53 pm
I thought I knew.....until about last september when I found out that one of my closest friends was sweatdrop talk about being surprised XD
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 2:02 am
How can you tell? simple! If you walk in on your friend making out with/ having sex with a member of the same gender, they're gay. Or at least bi 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 3:10 am
you could just tell... intuition, i guess.
note: guys stuck in girls' bodies and girls stuck in guys' bodies are neither gay nor lesbian. that's different.
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 5:03 am
Malice_Mew How can you tell? simple! If you walk in on your friend making out with/ having sex with a member of the same gender, they're gay. Or at least bi 3nodding Well... Obviously
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 1:58 pm
Malice_Mew How can you tell? simple! If you walk in on your friend making out with/ having sex with a member of the same gender, they're gay. Or at least bi 3nodding Well duh. xd
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 10:09 am
i agree its easyer to tell on guys but for girls i guess it depends how meny of the conversations you hear i can normally tell by listening to people talk i can't realy explain how i do it i just do
or if you dont mind your own image grab the a** of someone in the same sex most people that are gay/bi will come forward to you afterwards thats all i did
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 1:47 pm
Usually I can tell very easily in both genders myself because I sneak around and listen to their conversations and stuff like that but that is what I do but if you don't want to do that then just watch the girl for a while and if she does anything really tom-boyish then she is either a tomboy or gay/bi and that I think will solve your answers for today........at least i think sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 8:59 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 3:58 pm
Dark-Flamed-Angel Malice_Mew How can you tell? simple! If you walk in on your friend making out with/ having sex with a member of the same gender, they're gay. Or at least bi 3nodding Well duh. xd
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 9:35 pm
I can usually tell after I've talk to some one for a bit. I think you develop a feel for it after a while.
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