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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 10:31 am
Okay, it's official. I have a Gaian stalker. I wanted to put this here, because I don't want to appear to be insensitive toward anyone right now. But you guys remember when I helped a girl sell a G-Bot to Ama? Well, Ama, I apologize in advance for whatever she does in the future. scary girl kae will you make me some avi art? how much is it? scary girl can i borrow 3k huh huh huh? scary girl lol XD and this one came with a present box: scary girl From: T3h Sexii Panther Message: hi im giving this to you soi can get art k thanks bye Sounds like it could be normal, yes? except I got all of these within 2 days (really one and a half)! I've deleted all the others, and believe me, there were plenty of those. I don't want to put her on my ignore list, because it's not like I don't see her all the time in Towns anyway (although I try not to), and then it'll be "Oh, everyone hates me! T.T" and no one wants to deal with that, either. Curse my generous and caring demeanor! gonk So yeah, I just needed to vent, you know?
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 11:04 am
Creepy. o.O Hopefully she'll back off after a while.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 11:12 am
I'm not interesting enough to get a stalker.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 11:40 am
I don't think I am either, and believe it or not, that's a good thing. One person who won't go away can really make an otherwise good experience uncomfortable. stressed
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:00 pm
I'd put her on my Ignore List after the second PM. But I'm irritable like that.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:10 pm
I'm about *this* close to that myself. Gah! I'm just frustrated because she really is nice, and she's just a kid, you know? But I suppose this is why I don't work in day care lol
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:17 pm
Kaenai I'm about *this* close to that myself. Gah! I'm just frustrated because she really is nice, and she's just a kid, you know? But I suppose this is why I don't work in day care lol I myself can still be considered a child. And already I can't stand anyone more than three years younger than me. :XP:
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 12:23 pm
Well, if she is young - maybe you can tell her she's being creepy and stalkerish and needs to back off a bit? Of course you will have to deal with her 'everyone hates me' but perhaps explain to her that is also extremely unattractive.
She may get upset and she may refuse to speak to you -- but maybe she will also think about her behaivor and make some changes.
It's different when one is young, they can still be taught - usually.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:05 pm
 Rai :: Not all who are young can be considered children (like you), but that description definitely fits her. I consider you, and other young people like you, sort of an exception.
Ama :: you could be right. I may try to get one of her friends (some of whom are also my friends on the site) to talk to her. She'd probably like it from them more than from me, and unfortunately, I've got a world of issues going on (I'll probably be brave enough to talk about them sooner or later), and I can't handle the issue with her just now. But she's given me this present box... I just have to figure out how to get it back to her without hurting her feelings. I've got a lot of requests at my shop, and I'm in and auction, and I can't possibly do another one any time soon. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:31 pm
Getting one of her friends to speak with is probably the best idea. It takes it off your shoulders (where it shouldn't be to start with) and puts it .. well, not where it belongs, but where it can be handled with the least amount of hard feelings for the girl.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 6:28 pm
The ignore feature is my friend, and I'm not afraid to use it if people get annoying. whee
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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 11:00 am
I'd have stalkers too, except I mastered the art of sweep kicking. None dare oppose me and my sweep kick! In all seriousness though, if that's who I think it is I'll talk to her. Even if it isn't I'll still talk to her because that's how I am. x3
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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 1:28 pm
Heh - you're a saint! But we haven't discussed who we think it is yet :3 and if you try to sweep kick me, we'll have a problem scream
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:54 am
kaeilucaniborrow4kplz?
ninja
I'm sorry. Lol. But my friend is like this, not that she begs, but it's one guilt trip after another.
I don't want to ignore her cause she's already "Everyone hates me!!" and I couldn't do it. emo She constantly brings me down with her negativity about everything and I just get all blaah.
So I kind of know how you feel.
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 11:21 am
Why would I have to sweep- wait, are you stalking me? O_O
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