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 Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 9:53 am
I'm lonely my gf brokeup with me. crying crying redface heart
*edit by Tessiebean*
Have you broken up with someone before?
Were you the one who broke up with them, or did they break up with you?
Did you/they explain the reason(s) why the relationship just wasn't meant to be, or did you/they feed you/them the "It's not you, it's me" line?
How long did it take for you to get over your ex/heartache?
How long did you wait until you found someone else? Do you find you're a little more suspicious since the breakup?
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 9:56 am
awww....im sorry
*cuddles with CommieKiller*
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:04 am
I'm sorry to hear that hon *huggles gently*
But...this is a spam thread...so what I'm going to do is add a couple of questions in your first post. Please remember to not just post statements, there has to be something to discuss.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:08 am
My ex didn't break up with me. She just dropped in some kind of depression and stopped talking to *all* her friends.
And when she came out of it, we just weren't together anymore.
Life goes on. Big whoop.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:09 am
I'm sure you'll get over it
-pokes with a fork-
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:13 am
Featauril My ex didn't break up with me. She just dropped in some kind of depression and stopped talking to *all* her friends. And when she came out of it, we just weren't together anymore. Life goes on. True, life goes on, but that doesn't take the pain away. Breakup's are rough/emotional...each person takes it differently. My ex was a p***y *not literally, of course blaugh *...he couldn't even face me to tell me why he wanted the relationship to end, AND (to add insult to injury) he broke up with me on Valentines Day. He was a turd....but, I'm thankful that I got out of that relationship and found someone better 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:16 am
Tessiebean Featauril My ex didn't break up with me. She just dropped in some kind of depression and stopped talking to *all* her friends. And when she came out of it, we just weren't together anymore. Life goes on. True, life goes on, but that doesn't take the pain away. Breakup's are rough/emotional...each person takes it differently. My ex was a p***y *not literally, of course blaugh *...he couldn't even face me to tell me why he wanted the relationship to end, AND (to add insult to injury) he broke up with me on Valentines Day. He was a turd....but, I'm thankful that I got out of that relationship and found someone better 3nodding I would have prefered a breakup to worrying over her health, quite honestly. I'm still looking for someone else, but I think I place my standarts too high. Meh. Someday.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:27 am
Featauril Tessiebean Featauril My ex didn't break up with me. She just dropped in some kind of depression and stopped talking to *all* her friends. And when she came out of it, we just weren't together anymore. Life goes on. True, life goes on, but that doesn't take the pain away. Breakup's are rough/emotional...each person takes it differently. My ex was a p***y *not literally, of course blaugh *...he couldn't even face me to tell me why he wanted the relationship to end, AND (to add insult to injury) he broke up with me on Valentines Day. He was a turd....but, I'm thankful that I got out of that relationship and found someone better 3nodding I would have prefered a breakup to worrying over her health, quite honestly. I'm still looking for someone else, but I think I place my standarts too high. Meh. Someday. My friend once did the "I'm depressed so I'm cutting you all out of my life" thing as well. It hurt...I was being tossed aside, when I know I could have supported her through her depression *I suffer from chronic depression myself...it comes and goes and it sucks LARGE*, but she was convinced that no one could help her and just wanted to be alone. When she finally emerged from her depression, she soon realized that it wasn't the best thing to do *push away her friends* because by the time she had snapped out of it, no one wanted anything to do with her...except for me. I gave her the space she needed, and although it hurt my feelings big time to be pushed away, I knew that she'd be quite a few friends short when she felt better, so I made sure to explain to her that friends are there to HELP through the bad times, to help relieve the burden, and that she should confide in me instead of shun me away. She never pushed me away again smile
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:32 am
Yeah, I wish I could have kept her around as a friend like you did, her being a childhood friend and all.
Nowadays the only person she'll trust is her sister, even though I tried my best.
Anyway, what's done is done.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 10:36 am
Featauril Yeah, I wish I could have kept her around as a friend like you did, her being a childhood friend and all. Nowadays the only person she'll trust is her sister, even though I tried my best. Anyway, what's done is done. You did what you could...she seems to have some deep rooted issues and doesn't know how to deal with them and refused to let anyone try and help her, so in honesty, no one can help her but herself.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 11:18 am
thanx4alltehfish awww....im sorry *cuddles with CommieKiller* *Cuddles with you*
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 2:54 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 3:56 pm
I left my ex. He was... not nice to me, and I stayed with him far too long than I should have. I hope he got hit by a truck, personally. So no, I didn't have any heartache when I left.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 6:54 pm
Kacee Morivan I left my ex. He was... not nice to me, and I stayed with him far too long than I should have. I hope he got hit by a truck, personally. So no, I didn't have any heartache when I left. Me too, I left my ex because he was cheating on me with his ex-fiancee for some time. I knew this deep down but didn't want to admit it to myself so I stayed with him far longer than I should. It took me ages to get over him, not until I met the guy I'm with now did I start to get over him. However, even three years after I still would not be adverse to him being hit by some form of large vehicle. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 7:48 pm
*hugs commiekiller*
There there.
I had one girlfriend, and she didn't have the guts to dump me to my face, she talked evasively and had a friend do it. The reason was there was some other guy she wanted but she didn't want to cheat on me (how thoughtful). I'm glad she did it though, because looking back on it she was a rather annoying b***h. It was a relationship of the kind that, when you hear the other person's first name, you think "hm, this won't end well." I felt no pain, only moderate annoyance.
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