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 Posted: Sun Jan 07, 2007 6:22 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 4:38 am
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Posted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 8:30 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 7:06 pm
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Zercia Infernus Angelus Ok the Frenchy jester disappears for the moment ... You know the one that stops you from forgetting ... from beeing abble to feel love again for an other girl ... the thing that stopped you in the midst of creating a true life, like children, house, job and the lots ? How do you make it so small that you just nearly laugh at that past time ... ? I'm not talking about self esteem or knowing who you are and your worth ... sorry if it's realy cryptic but it is hard to express oneself in an other's language ... I will try my best to help you out here. how do you get over a really difficult love deception ? That is a hard one. I know I spent the last 5 years breaking the deception someone placed on my heart. I still pick up the phone when I know I shouldn't. I make fun of myself at times but the last year I been pushing away and looking at things more clearly. Frist I would clean out your closet and remove everything they gave or left behind. Those things are items to keep a hold of you. When I did it I found 36 items in my house that were his. I only know of 7. Finding someone else yes I know it is the hardest part you have to remember the mistake you made with the other person. A person who is dieing to be with someone is a easy prey for someone. I hate men like that and men lead around with a body part are easy prey. They are easy to lead and take what you want. Note you will not find the right person until you love yourself and comfortable with who you are. Note a pretty package maybe pretty on the outside but inside maybe not worth opening. Avoid women or men with a hate on for the world around them. You must discover what you want in life and were you want to go and the type of person you want in the life. The details can be do you want spirtual type person, or working women, or stay at home person. What type of personialty you want in her. Yes I know it is alot of thinking through this type of thinking you discover who you are. Throught this type of thinking the pian gets smaller and baggage gets easier to carry and you may realize the one who hurt really wasn;t the type of women you wouldn't and you will find out it hurts alot less. I don't know if caring for the person ever goes away that I can't tell you.
Thank you Zercia for this very honestly given hint to how women work ... My problem is that I want a woman who is capable of beeing all these and none at the same time ...
What you wrote really helped ... Men are feeble, weack and hypocryts ... but we have in our hands the gem of the universe ... we are not perfect ... not as perfect as women thought we were ... some of us are worth it ... but have you ever realised that we, the powerful, artskilled and sensitive people tend to meet vampires of life substance. We were built as such as we can endure these feeble people ... we are the real givers of life, we are the ones connected to real emotions, we are the givers of lessons and teachers of these destroyers ... to our contact they better themselves, they use us because we let them do it ... we know what love mean ... and we are equiped to live it ... they are not ... I just hate these men that play and destroy fabulous women ... but I hate women who manipulate and use the force of nature to torture romantic men because they cannot erotise them .... too gentel, too selfconscious, too aware of women condition ... sorry got carried away ....
A soul-calming song ... some of us men try to compose with a dilemma ... not that far fetched, this song, actually ...
How to be powerful but sensitive ...
Notre Dame de PAris - Victor HUGO |
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 12:05 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:19 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:27 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 7:01 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:37 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 8:34 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 4:07 am
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 11:51 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:27 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:08 am
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ErinsChaos Allright.. Here is a tough one guys... Everyone got their thinking caps on? Cause I can't wait to see how you guys would be handling this.. My life has gone from typically stressful to over the breaking point in the past month or so... Most of you don't know but another a.g.a. member and I are .... "married" Adam Mongoose is my husband and the father of my two beautiful lil girls.. Well back in Jan. I asked him for a divorce. And though he seemed very unhappy about it at the time he eventually began to see that maybe there was more to life than what we were giving eachother.. Now in Virginia the divorce laws are cooky and we have to be seperated for a year before we can get a divorce because we have kids together.... So... 8 months after asking for a divorce, After getting evicted from our apt, my van blowing up, my ex-step-mother dying, another a.g.a. member moving in with us and my brother dying... We are still living together... Stressful? Yeah.. Just a bit... But hold your butts everyone cause it's gonna get better... My husband is going to be bring his new g/f home with him this weekend... She's going to be living with us.... She's 17 (turns 18 in a few days) and he also met her here on gaia... And if that didn't hit me hard enough.... Our other roomate.. the other a.g.a. member I was referring to earlier... Well he decided to inform me yesterday that he's in love with me.... Ya know.. it really is a good thing I can't own a gun... cause I'm like inches from going postal...
Erin ... what do you want? Ok lets start with the divorce...it was your idea to begin so I know that you will be going through with it. Now Your husband and his girlfriend....thats a mistake on his part...he'll recognize it soon enough. Here is a real good question....who are the girls going to be staying with? About the other AGA'er ( I think I know who you are referring to) do you love him back? Be very careful to think about that question. I can't say for sure because I'm not him but me being me, seeing you hurt so much lately and wanting to make that pain go away combined with a close history with you I can see why he says what he says. In this situation just be honest...either you feel the same way or you don't. Honestly I think the best thing would be to take the girls, leave the apartment and move out on your own for a bit. Take this time to heal on your own and really think about things and decide where you see your life going.
....you know Erin....earlier this year my wife and I where at a real bad point in our marriage. I felt that she did not love me anymore and worse..began to think that she was cheating on me. If it had not been for my two children whom I love more than life itself I would have left her...or let her leave me more than likely. But because I am sooo afraid of losing them I stayed. I don't know if this was the right thing to do or not but I did. Things got better and sometimes they revert back but over all I look back now and I like to think that I did the right thing...but thats my situation...not yours. There was someone else whom I was very close with and I think that if she told me that she loved me at the time this was going on maybe I might have asked for a divorce or worse...done something I would regret later on...I dunno Erin...
Look I honestly feel that Leaving is the best decision right now...I am not saying to run away from your problems...I'm just saying you need to get away to get a clearer perspective of things. Erin we love you soo much your not alone ever. I know that we aren't there with you but you are always in our minds and hearts and prayers. Always! *hug* |
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:31 am
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