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 Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 9:19 am
I'm not sure of my sexuality. I tell my friends that i'm Straight and all just because the people around me are rather...well, let's just say they don't mind gay guys but think les' are freaks sweatdrop
how that works out? I don't know. i except everyone for who they are. but that's just me whee
I call myself 'bi-curious' because i dont' know if i like girl's or not. i've always been curious about what it'd be like to be with a girl but i haven't had the experience or anything to tell. Am i the only one who feels like this or are there others?
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 2:56 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 3:11 pm
I used to think that way, back before I gave my sexuality any honest-to-goodness deep thought. I had a few different resources that helped me jump from 'bicurious' to wherever the heck it is I am today (which is rather difficult to define, but easy to understand... for me, at least!), such as a book called The End of Gay (And the Death of Heterosexuality) by Bert Archer. If you can find yourself a copy, and if you enjoy reading, I would sincerely suggest you at least look at it. The only problem is, you can't find it at regular bookstores and such because it's been discontinued... you can only find it at used book stores and online.
Anyway, bicurious is the term I reserve for those who are into the idea but haven't done anything about it. Which would mean you qualify. And there's a helluva lot of people out there like that. I dunno... labels like straight, gay, bisexual, bicurious, etc. don't really have any concrete meaning for me... they're just nifty terms used to categorize people. But sometimes it's necessary to categorize oneself, and so I would never say not to label yourself... just make sure that whatever label you choose appeals to you and makes sense to you, and you're not just choosing it as a default because you don't know what else is out there.
Research and soul-searching are the best ways to overcome doubt and learn who and what you really are, IMHO.
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 3:14 pm
Edit: Oops... double-posted. Stupid internet connection. Sorry!
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 3:27 pm
*bows* lol ^^ I shall look for the book! Thank you!
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 5:47 pm
O.o o0Oo0OoO0oO..... so that's what I am? great! I thought i was the only one like that. I am bi-curious/ Finally I can label myself! heart
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 7:38 pm
under.the.mask I'm not sure of my sexuality. I tell my friends that i'm Straight and all just because the people around me are rather...well, let's just say they don't mind gay guys but think les' are freaks sweatdrop
how that works out? I don't know. i except everyone for who they are. but that's just me whee
I call myself 'bi-curious' because i dont' know if i like girl's or not. i've always been curious about what it'd be like to be with a girl but i haven't had the experience or anything to tell. Am i the only one who feels like this or are there others? No I use to be like you and realized I was bisexual
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 10:38 pm
Heh, I used to think I was bi-curious, then it hit me one day that I had no attraction what-so-ever to guys. Though I fully support people in the use of that title until they figure out what they are and can stick with it, it's alot better than those who jump around in saying that they are (ex. one day saying your gay then bi then straight then gay, so on and so forth...)
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Posted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 7:36 am
under.the.mask I'm not sure of my sexuality. I tell my friends that i'm Straight and all just because the people around me are rather...well, let's just say they don't mind gay guys but think les' are freaks sweatdrop
how that works out? I don't know. i except everyone for who they are. but that's just me whee
I call myself 'bi-curious' because i dont' know if i like girl's or not. i've always been curious about what it'd be like to be with a girl but i haven't had the experience or anything to tell. Am i the only one who feels like this or are there others? You could be bi or bi-curious, yes. But that is really up to you. If you like both girls and guys it's just easier to say Bi.
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 11:09 pm
under.the.mask I'm not sure of my sexuality. I tell my friends that i'm Straight and all just because the people around me are rather...well, let's just say they don't mind gay guys but think les' are freaks sweatdrop
how that works out? I don't know. i except everyone for who they are. but that's just me whee
I call myself 'bi-curious' because i dont' know if i like girl's or not. i've always been curious about what it'd be like to be with a girl but i haven't had the experience or anything to tell. Am i the only one who feels like this or are there others? I feel exactly the same way. I'd never have sex with a girl i think. id like to date one and know what it's like? But im too scared also. idk whether i like girls or not. sometimes i do. sometimes i not. i tell people Im straight. But I really don't know. Im confused. I love girl bodies. they are beautiful.
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Posted: Sat Jun 25, 2005 1:33 am
hey, i went to a gay bar, but once i got there i couldnt bring myself to go in..i wanted to but i am at confilct with myself. I figure myself at bi-curious, because i find girls attractive but i find pretty guys attractive also...ugh im so lost
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Posted: Sat Jun 25, 2005 8:09 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 6:19 pm
There are many bi-curious people.
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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 6:58 pm
I think that many, many people are either bisexual or bicurious, especially according to the Kinsey scale. Most people are at least a 1, meaning not entirely heterosexual. I would call myself bisexual because I am interested in guys and girls (especially girls), but then again I have never dated a girl. I would love to though! It seems there are no lesbian or bisexual girls in my area.
note to self: get some clothes for my character!
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Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2005 11:26 pm
wasn't quite sure what i was until i had my first experience with another woman. i actually find it more enjoyable than being with a guy.
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