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 Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 12:35 am
Wow, people, get a life, there's more than just making out. It's pointless anyways. Making out and having sex is pointless. I announce and declare this now, so stop it!!! I am omniscient and I can see that love, sex and making out is what brings the downfall of the earth. The end of our days is near, our days are counted, so why do you still continue? Why do you enjoy having sex and kissing and all that crap that nobody really needs? It's not even a pleasure, well, yeah it is, but I mean it's not worth it. Is marriage worth anything in these days? There's just sex and nothing more in a relationship today. What does commitment mean to you? I guess somehow this word got banned in our modern vocabulary.
I think it's bad for our society. All those sluts, whores and hornballs. We are more than just sex-objects or sex-seekers. We are humane, we have feelings and we need to find "the" one. Where's the quest for prince or princess charming? Everybody got too tired of it or what is going on? I don't understand. But I don't even think that I want to understand and just go with the flow, make out, have sex, leave, make out, have sex, leave and so on.
What are your thoughts about this? Is sex and marriage something that stick together or can be totally unrelated?
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 12:14 pm
Well, I personally look forward to getting married. True, sex is a part of it. But mostly it's the thought of having security, someone who I can love and support yet get that same love and support back.
I agree that sex has become meaningless to the population as of the past 40 years. But to those that still cherish it, it's still a blessing.
No offense, but I don't really see why you're against marriage. To me it just seems like you're against people who look for sex only. Mind elaborating more?
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 12:24 pm
Sex? Marriage? I don't know about that. Love is all that's important to me.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 12:37 pm
I don't see how sex is not worth it (whatever "it" means in this particular case). True, sex no longer carries the meaning it used to. And, sure, I'm guilty as charged for having sex without that intense feeling that used to be associated with it. But, you are generalizing. Life is not all making out and sex. People (or, at least people that get anywhere in life) get to know eachother like the other is a part of themselves before progressing to sex. And, if not, sex only brings them closer. I can back that one up with experience. Sure, not as many people get married, sure the divorce rate is at an all-time high, but, then again, what is marriage, in the first place? Marriage is not just having some priest/priestess dub you man and wife. There are plenty of people that consider themselves married, even though they are not officially recognized. So, here is what I'm going to say about your statements: Let them have their fun, don't poke your nose in it. Hopefully, you can be an addition to that list of people in the world who have jept their integrety, and join all the people that are actually in a position to better your life.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 5:51 pm
Sodom and Gomorrah? Rome? Several other great cities or empires? What do they have in common? Perversity. They treated sex casually instead of like something special for a married couple.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:36 pm
things will change. history repeats itself continually. eventually things will turn back to your way of thinking from theirs.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:40 pm
Schildkrote things will change. history repeats itself continually. eventually things will turn back to your way of thinking from theirs. Huh?
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:45 pm
history is one continuos cycle when you step back and take a look. nothing big, great civilization rises, dominates what they think is the world for a while, get destroyed by 'barbarians' or taken by a bigger civilization. etc, etc, etc.
this goes for views as well. sex used to be sacred, but as was earlier mentioned, that changed for a time with some empires, but went back eventually.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:02 pm
Oh. I was just confused on how you worded it. What you said is true. It is also true for Earth now. Soon many great civilazaions are going to cave in on themselves.
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Posted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 8:07 pm
Mercution Sodom and Gomorrah? Rome? Several other great cities or empires? What do they have in common? Perversity. They treated sex casually instead of like something special for a married couple. There was a shitload of things wrong with Sodom and Gomorrah, not just sex and sexual perversity. To marriage: I can't help but think of the divorce laws (I guess it comes from being an aspiring lawyer) and how much they suck. I mean, half of my earned possesions to the time we split up, gone. And when you try to give a pre-nup, well, they just think your not going to be "that" committed. So forget about the pre-nup. All that's left for me is a long-term girl/boyfriend. (Besides, in a lot of states, I still cannot marry another man). To the frivolous sex: It makes me wonder if it is even more special for those who wait than for those who don't. What I mean by this is, when there wasn't much frivolous sex, it was always, well, special. Now, since those who wait are clearly dwindling in numbers, does that mean that because they experience others having sex frivolously make even more than special when they get it?
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 3:27 pm
Well, thoughts like that are what make people think sex isn't so special. People who go out and have sex all the time with someone they don't have a special bond with have told me that they feel empty because of it. Some people of committed suicide because of that. They also say it makes them feel really dirty. People who are married don't say that.
I know Sodom and Gommorah had more problems, but sexual perversity was one of them.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2005 9:41 pm
there is a large difference between sex and "making love." making love always is better than sex and it always requires being with someone you love.
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 1:56 pm
neutral I've never made love before before. Did that have anything to do my comment.
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 2:37 pm
I think it should be made illegal to even kiss someone you're not engaged to. They did that way back when and it worked. All hands up to people who want a new law made!! blaugh
(HANDS UP!!)
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 4:08 pm
NonMisanthropist I think it should be made illegal to even kiss someone you're not engaged to. They did that way back when and it worked. All hands up to people who want a new law made!! blaugh (HANDS UP!!) First of all, allow me to point out, I would have been arrested so many times. Secondly, let's actually think about how well this law would work, when put into action. Clearly, there are far more important laws to uphold, such as rape's, murder's, theft's, etc. Now, what about me inside my home away from prying eyes? Lastly, if it worked, why isn't it in effect today? Things that work stay in effect, things that do not work change and/or get thrown out.
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