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 Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 6:46 pm
Ever since I was born, I grew up alone, either by myself or with my sister. But most of the time, it was by myself. I used to be abused by my sister and my parents were always away. Few years have passed and I'm about to finish high school. Currently, I attend an all guys school and it's real dull here. I decided to entertain myself by talking to old friends and others girls. Apparantly, none of my old friends respond to me anymore. On the other hand, I talk to girls about myself and stuff... Indeed, the girls start to flirt with me and I flirt back. Then, they got serious and wanted a relationship. I was like "alright~" The next time I'm talking to them, they're like "well... I found a guy I like" etc. and all these stuff crying ~
I really don't know what I'm going to do. I get put down alot and my other friends feel really bad for me. I don't want to suffer any more losses...
what should I do?
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:53 am
Well, first off, you could start standing up for yourself. If people are putting you down, snappy comebacks are my favorite... however, if you're not witty or quick enough, those can backfire and make things worse.
Just take solace in the fact that most people tease others to show off because they themselves are insecure.
Also, if your friends don't respond to you, then screw them. If ever you're in doubt, stop trying to contact someone. If they don't get back to you in a reasonable amount of time, then they're not worth your time anyway.
Why don't you try and find some teen centers around you? Go get involved with swimming, sports, go work out at a gym, go for walks with your CD player, etc. Not having lots of down time can be a good thing, and this way you can generally meet people too... people who aren't going to make fun of you.
If in the future a girl wants to get in a relationship, maybe it should be discussed. Obviously you're misunderstanding or they're misleading, because if they say they want a relationship, and then they say they found a boy they like... um... there's no relationship there.
Anyway, I hope I at least covered something helpful. One of the unfortunate lessons of teenage years is to learn how to stop caring so much what other people think... and it's a hard and painful lesson to learn.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 7:00 pm
Savina Well, first off, you could start standing up for yourself. If people are putting you down, snappy comebacks are my favorite... however, if you're not witty or quick enough, those can backfire and make things worse. Just take solace in the fact that most people tease others to show off because they themselves are insecure. Also, if your friends don't respond to you, then screw them. If ever you're in doubt, stop trying to contact someone. If they don't get back to you in a reasonable amount of time, then they're not worth your time anyway. Why don't you try and find some teen centers around you? Go get involved with swimming, sports, go work out at a gym, go for walks with your CD player, etc. Not having lots of down time can be a good thing, and this way you can generally meet people too... people who aren't going to make fun of you. If in the future a girl wants to get in a relationship, maybe it should be discussed. Obviously you're misunderstanding or they're misleading, because if they say they want a relationship, and then they say they found a boy they like... um... there's no relationship there. Anyway, I hope I at least covered something helpful. One of the unfortunate lessons of teenage years is to learn how to stop caring so much what other people think... and it's a hard and painful lesson to learn. Well... I do want to hang out, but I don't see anyone living near me crying ~
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