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 Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 3:39 pm
there are times I absolutely hate twig people especailly guys who are so shallow that they cant hold water, thery really make me mad.
I went to a friends house the day and ther were poeple of all types but guess who was talked about me the amazon lady I was thery for a bout 20 minutes when this all started and so I went home and cried for a long time and wondering why they were picking out me
(Blind Insight Speaking here smile ) : Have you ever had an experience where a situation has truly made you uncomfortable? What did you do?
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 3:49 pm
I'm not sure where there's a discussion question in there... so I'm going to add one. I'm very sorry to hear about your trouble but it's hard to understand what you're trying to say...
Did someone make fun of you because of your weight and was it a tall leggy thin female?
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 3:49 pm
I just learned how to ignore those knid of people. just remember...What goes around, comes around. wink
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 3:55 pm
Blind Insight I'm not sure where there's a discussion question in there... so I'm going to add one. I'm very sorry to hear about your trouble but it's hard to understand what you're trying to say... Did someone make fun of you because of your weight and was it a tall leggy thin female? why do twig people have to be so mean and rude especially the guys> I am not necessarliy fat just bigger than most ladied at 22 I stand 6'6" weighs about 220 and I am called an amazon Why do people have to be so shallow
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:02 pm
~ Phoenix Rose ~ Blind Insight I'm not sure where there's a discussion question in there... so I'm going to add one. I'm very sorry to hear about your trouble but it's hard to understand what you're trying to say... Did someone make fun of you because of your weight and was it a tall leggy thin female? why do twig people have to be so mean and rude especially the guys> I am not necessarliy fat just bigger than most ladied at 22 I stand 6'6" weighs about 220 and I am called an amazon Why do people have to be so shallow Well some people are stupid. I think of it like this... Would I want to be with someone who judged others the way that he/she does? My answer is no. What I then ask myself is what would I like in a boyfriend/girlfriends and my friends... and that is that they be like minded and at the same time open minded, accepting, loving and fun. People I feel comfortable around who love me, and who i can love. So really, they sound like the sort of people noone truly wants to be around. People make fun of a certain type because they ignorant, full of themselves, and often times it makes them feel better about their meaningless life. Being a large girl, I know when I try to deny myself things I love I get grumpy. So it could be that they're simply grumpy and taking it out on what seems to be an "easy victim". Simply know that you are beautiful, many people are in different ways.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:06 pm
Blind Insight ~ Phoenix Rose ~ Blind Insight I'm not sure where there's a discussion question in there... so I'm going to add one. I'm very sorry to hear about your trouble but it's hard to understand what you're trying to say... Did someone make fun of you because of your weight and was it a tall leggy thin female? why do twig people have to be so mean and rude especially the guys> I am not necessarliy fat just bigger than most ladied at 22 I stand 6'6" weighs about 220 and I am called an amazon Why do people have to be so shallow Well some people are stupid. I think of it like this... Would I want to be with someone who judged others the way that he/she does? My answer is no. What I then ask myself is what would I like in a boyfriend/girlfriends and my friends... and that is that they be like minded and at the same time open minded, accepting, loving and fun. People I feel comfortable around who love me, and who i can love. So really, they sound like the sort of people noone truly wants to be around. People make fun of a certain type because they ignorant, full of themselves, and often times it makes them feel better about their meaningless life. Being a large girl, I know when I try to deny myself things I love I get grumpy. So it could be that they're simply grumpy and taking it out on what seems to be an "easy victim". Simply know that you are beautiful, many people are in different ways. even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:12 pm
~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:13 pm
Never say never honey!
I think that you'll be plesantly suprised one day. You won't expect it. He may not be exactly what you envisioned... until you get to know him. Then you realize... hey... this is what I've always wanted! Besides, I'd worry more about having fun with your life and accomplishing what YOU want to do.
Love is a wonderful thing to have in life, but there are all kinds of love. Friends give us love and support as well as siblings and parents. Granted, it's not completely the same, but it's an important aspect. Shine brightly, and people take notice. The best way to do that is to enjoy life and what you have in being yourself.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:14 pm
Jinnari ~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding I just hate being lonely all the time
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:15 pm
Jinnari ~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding I honestly have yet to know any guy who likes big girls. All they want is my brains, money, or just straight sex. Nothing more...nothing less.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:19 pm
Druskani Jinnari ~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding I honestly have yet to know any guy who likes big girls. All they want is my brains, money, or just straight sex. Nothing more...nothing less. Look around this guild! I have quite guys inquire very shyly very polietly about this guild because they like bigger women. So they're out there.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:19 pm
Blind Insight Never say never honey! I think that you'll be plesantly suprised one day. You won't expect it. He may not be exactly what you envisioned... until you get to know him. Then you realize... hey... this is what I've always wanted! Besides, I'd worry more about having fun with your life and accomplishing what YOU want to do. Love is a wonderful thing to have in life, but there are all kinds of love. Friends give us love and support as well as siblings and parents. Granted, it's not completely the same, but it's an important aspect. Shine brightly, and people take notice. The best way to do that is to enjoy life and what you have in being yourself. oh believe me I do what I want with my life and get a great deal of enjoyment out of what I do for work but that doesnt get me any closer to having frinds even for evry one is so afraid of me
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:21 pm
~ Phoenix Rose ~ Blind Insight Never say never honey! I think that you'll be plesantly suprised one day. You won't expect it. He may not be exactly what you envisioned... until you get to know him. Then you realize... hey... this is what I've always wanted! Besides, I'd worry more about having fun with your life and accomplishing what YOU want to do. Love is a wonderful thing to have in life, but there are all kinds of love. Friends give us love and support as well as siblings and parents. Granted, it's not completely the same, but it's an important aspect. Shine brightly, and people take notice. The best way to do that is to enjoy life and what you have in being yourself. oh believe me I do what I want with my life and get a great deal of enjoyment out of what I do for work but that doesnt get me any closer to having frinds even for evry one is so afraid of me I am hardly afraid of you. Is there a monster lurking somewhere inside!? gonk I doubt it. You seem quite sensible and sensitive. If you need someone to vent to, I'm here smile
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:23 pm
Blind Insight Druskani Jinnari ~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding I honestly have yet to know any guy who likes big girls. All they want is my brains, money, or just straight sex. Nothing more...nothing less. Look around this guild! I have quite guys inquire very shyly very polietly about this guild because they like bigger women. So they're out there. well i wish I would find one who would understand me and like me for me and not be shallow.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 4:23 pm
Blind Insight Druskani Jinnari ~ Phoenix Rose ~ even at 6'6" weighs about 220 lbs I dont think I will ever find a guy for me cause of me being so tall but I havent given up hope completely. Don't. There are guys who aren't shallow. And then there are guys who like big women and are inverse shallow. lol Don't worry about it. 3nodding I honestly have yet to know any guy who likes big girls. All they want is my brains, money, or just straight sex. Nothing more...nothing less. Look around this guild! I have quite guys inquire very shyly very polietly about this guild because they like bigger women. So they're out there. If only I could meet them in person...lets not forget the same age as me.
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